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my mother is really annoying. everytime i talk to a guy she starts annoying me about how im going out with him... umm.. i talk to A LOT of guys and if i would have to go out with all of them i would be a... u know.
anyway, theres this guy and im going to watch a movie with him and then im supposed to help him with a song for choir in spanish cuz he needs help with the pronounciation. my mother is probably going to annoy me FOREVER just because of that guy. i dont even feel like going there but i sorta have to go..
how am i supposed to talk to my mother about her stopping to annoy me with that.. crap. i have NEVER talked to my mother in my life more than me saying: "mom! im going out with some ppls to eat" and she always says: "where? with who? when are u coming back?" and she starts bombing me with useless questions. she is so overprotective. what should i do?
thanks everyone! :-)

2007-01-01 09:33:41 · 6 answers · asked by chic! 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

the point is not that she is asking me what im doing. the point is that she is annoying me about how every guy i hang out with is my boyfriend. i feel like its wrong to go out with these guys if im not going out with them, and that is not true! >:(

2007-01-01 10:33:53 · update #1

6 answers

most mothers are like this. say" mom im not dating these guys. all of them are just friends. when i get a bf ill tell you. until then dont suspect that im dating every guy i talk to. most of them are just friends that id never go out with."

2007-01-01 10:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0 0

You don't say how old you are--- and yes, it does make a difference!
Your Mom is right to want to know where you are going and when you will return --and who you are with and what you are doing. She loves you and doesn't want bad things to happen to you. Also, if something does happen to you, she at least wants to know where to start looking!
You need to honor her concerns and respect the fact that this shows she loves you. If you treat her properly she will grow to trust your intelligence to make good decisions for yourself, and as you grow older she will question you less.
But it is simple courtesy--- no matter how old you are-- to tell the people you live with where you are going and when you expect to be back-- and call them if that changes. This goes as much for the 'adults' in the house as the kids. People who love each other worry--- and all kinds of things happen in the world, from natural disasters, to car accidents etc. Be mature--- be considerate.

2007-01-01 17:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rani 4 · 2 0

i agree with the person be4 me that she is just trying to b a good mom...also, it is great that she is asking u all those questions...it is not overprotective if she is letting u go out with friends alone and just wants to know who u r going out and where and for how long so she knows...also, u say that she always bugs u about everyboy and u also state that u hardly even talk to her except for telling her u r leaving...maybe she bugs u about everyboy because she wants to talk to u and wants to have fun with u but u just ignore her...maybe if u try talking to her about anything like"hey mom, do u want to go see a movie with me?" or at least not basically ignoring ur mom, she will stop bugging u about the boys because she will actually get to hang out and have an idea of what to talk to u about.
good luck
xao:)

2007-01-01 17:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Hey, that's a mother's job! When you become an adult, and I assume you're not one yet by the way you're talking, then you do as you please. Your mom is trying to look out for you and protect you. There's nothing wrong with that. When you become a mother yourself, you will know what I mean.

2007-01-01 18:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 1 0

I know it can be annoying, but it's good of your mom to ask questions. Be thankful she asks. Understand that she's asking because she cares and is trying to be a good parent. Wouldn't it suck if she couldn't care less where you went and with who and when you'd be back?

2007-01-01 17:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 2 0

Yeah normal she is just trying to emberis you. :( it sucks. :(

2007-01-01 23:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by wood explorer 2 · 0 0

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