Do women know when they are saying crazy things when they do it? Or does it just happen? This girl I thought I was talking to totally flipped out last night... Like went PSYCHO at a new years eve party I took her too. She ruined my whole night, and I had to appologize to the host of the party for bringing that type of drama to his party... Its like her idea of our relationship, and what had happend between us was at least 65% made up... I mean, somethings she said happend, but the other half was made up... I mean, there is no way a sane person could just make this stuff up?? I consider myself a reasonable person, 25 years old, college graduate, But my X girlfriend would flip out when we would get in fights too.... And I would be like, are you from earth?? Or are you just making stuff up to argue about?? Are most women seriously crazy sometimes??? Every day I realize I will never understand anything about women.. lol (dont take this post the wrong way, I just think its funny)
2007-01-01 09:33:56 · 6 answers · asked by ucfmanic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you a decent well grounded guys....but you have had a couple of real live ones here.....and in a row!
As you well know women like to talk about the relationship and where thing are going much sooner than the guy does......when women do NOT get the feedback they need or the results they expect from these talks.....their minds seem to wander to other places....things that do not mean anything become big drama points....innocent things become suspicious to them......
It is hard to tell sometimes that the feedback they desire did not meet their needs...then WOW you get unexpected drama...so you have to set a standard......if they feel comfortable enough in their mind to have the big drama.....you should feel comfortable enough to remind her their is a time and place to discuss issue....that failure to respect that stops future discussions cause why have them when drama is her goal............
my favorite response is " I know that play.....did not like the ending" or "never saw that movie sweetie......i will never catch the context of the meaning"
stops them cold in their tracts cause she can not understand what your saying....it has no meaning to her......just like her outburst are not comprehensible to you...........
good luck.....
2007-01-01 10:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a great favor and read the book" men are from mars and women are from Venus",It will shed light on the difference between the sexes and you will know how to deal with women and there emotions,and vice versa,women reading this book will understand why men act and think differently then they do.Ive let many people read my copy and they all were amazed,and there relationship's improved significantly.Good luck
2007-01-01 09:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by sasyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by salinder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I never think that she's from another planet. If I did she probably wouldn't be my girlfriend.
2007-01-01 10:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, planet woman is a strange place
2007-01-01 10:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kinky L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are from Venus meep meep LOL
2007-01-01 09:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋