Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

I'm turning 21 this year in 2007, and I'm still being treated as a parents' kid. I need to get out of the house RIGHT NOW! I don't have a driver's license (yet), but I'm in the process of getting it. I still have my second semester of school left until summer (from Jan. 29-May 27). Should I wait until the summer to move out, or is now a good time?

2007-01-01 23:23:48 · 14 answers · asked by Jonathan 2 in Family

my mum keep s threatening me but its getting worse and worse all the time she did it laast night and grabbed me by the throat saying i have to move out i am only 16 and currently at school what can i do or where can i go what can i do about the situatiuon with my mum ?????????????

2007-01-01 23:22:59 · 12 answers · asked by pink_n_purfect1 1 in Family

I want him sooo badly, but I dont want to ask or beg him. I think thatis degrading for women, even though I am all for modern stuff. I think when it comes to relationships, nature rules !!! Males are suppose to come after females and females are the ones to lure, atract, bring them to chase them... I am just not sure how to do it ... i want to lure him to like me ok love me not just Sleep with me...

2007-01-01 23:21:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 23:20:18 · 17 answers · asked by livin_on_basshunter 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in CA. I am in process of divorcing my ex. She has lied to the courts to gain sole custody of our child. We have a court order that allows me to see my child once a week for a few hours. I have seen my child every week for over a year now but that is not enough. Our child is only 9. Our child and I want more time together but my ex won't allow it unless it is at her house and she is included. I have contacted my ex numerous times and she either tells me "No", I'll think about it" or she ignores me all together. My ex wants to try get back together but I want no part of that. My ex uses our child against me and is alienating me from our child. All I want is to be able to have a normal relationship with our child separately. How can I get better visitations without my ex involved? How can I prove that she lies all the time and uses our child against me? How can I get her to understand that the relationship is over and I just want to be able to see our child? Help me!

2007-01-01 23:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by LM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i r going through trouble & it's all my fault.There r certain things that i don't like him to do,& he did them anyway.I now realize how stupid i was to be worried about those things because they r so small.But i was angry non the less,& we still saw eachother but i was upset & didn't have an enthusiastic look on my face,just to let him know i was upset.Well it did,but didn't help.On New Years eve,we planned to spend it at my place,at 11:00pm he decides he wants it at his house.So we went there,but i got angry and told him to take me home.I was gonna stay there,but my anger got the better of me and i quickly went to the club where i knew my friends would be.I know he hates this place for very good reasons & doesn't want me going there.I went to hurt him.But now i have lost him.I wish so much i could take it all back.This man loves me so much & i treated him bad in the past too. How can i show him im truly sorry.He wont answer my calls.I really want him back.PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-01 23:18:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-01 23:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by Michaelangleo 1 in Singles & Dating

I am feeling very lonely.

2007-01-01 23:16:35 · 18 answers · asked by tinu 2 in Friends

(I repost as i need more opinion and better answers)
This girl that i like so much. However i decide i get over her and move on and just treat her as a friend. Although we had some memorable time chatting and flirt with each other. I guess she stop being interested. Nowaday she go clubbing and drank a lot. I feel she got problem but don't want to share with me now.
I made up my mind to gave her up. I just don't why i like her so much( She can't look after herself, cannot wake up on time to work, cannot cook and do household chores and often get sick).
I try to move on by sleeping most of my time. Just now while taking a nap, i dream of her. From the dream i know i m in love and worried a lot of her. Nvr had such a feeling.

Worst of all, Everyday i must call to wake her up to work if not she may get fired. ( I cannot don't call cos i promise her moveover she ask alway ask me to help her). How can i really get over her and move on while treating her as friend only

2007-01-01 23:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Singles & Dating

wsholud i move out or should me and my mom move to get away from all the family darma?

2007-01-01 23:16:09 · 6 answers · asked by iris b 2 in Family

2007-01-01 23:12:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 23:12:00 · 4 answers · asked by monu 1 in Singles & Dating

plz dont give me any dirty answers.
i am 15 years old and he is 17, i have loved him for 2 years.. but i never said any thing but last month. i told him how i feel.
he responded very nicly. he said he likes some one else and he has to go to univercity soon, soo if we date we will both b heart broken.
that was very sweat of him, i know he just said that so he wont hurt me, but now i love him more.
and some thing else we dont live in the same city, soo i dont see him alot, i see hi like once every 3 months but i have his e-mail, and his number, but i never called him coz i am too shy but he does not have my number!!!
i dont want him right now, its just that i want to end up wih him, coz i think he is the perfect guy for me, i know its too soon to think about it but what can i do?
help?

2007-01-01 23:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by sara z 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 23:11:49 · 7 answers · asked by saravanapandi3000 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-01 23:08:38 · 1 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Singles & Dating

hey im 12 turning 13 and i were bagy cloes sumtimes and i like rnb alot and i be like a gangsta some times thats what ive been told like my friend she is full tomboy i wanna be like her and my bro his like a gangsta i need to no am i tomboy gangsta or a gurly gurl oh yeh i hate make up

2007-01-01 23:08:31 · 5 answers · asked by mel-sparky-13 2 in Friends

A close friend of mine has admitted to me recently that she is commiting benefit fraud, to be honest I would have turned a blind eye but then she revealed the extent and it's left me livid. She is a 1st year student in receipt of student loans and grants, she is also claiming Income support, child tax credits and has a live in boyfriend who works full time, she has two teenagers from a previous partner who she is also getting £400 a month from. She told me all this yesterday and said that she is so 'sweet' for money that she is saving all her grants and loans because she doesn't need to spend them. Im so mad because my husband and I are also studying too, but we are working also and taking care of a toddler and baby on the way, we are scraping to get by and she knows it! yet she is still bragging to me about how easy she has it! she will be saving about £18,000 a year in grants and loans and is living off about £2,500 per month in benefits, her boyfriend's wages and other benefits.

2007-01-01 23:08:30 · 28 answers · asked by Blackheath rugby wife 2 in Friends

I don't know why but like a year ago I met this really hot canadian man and now ever since when ever any guy tells me their canadian I am instantly into them!

2007-01-01 23:08:09 · 5 answers · asked by Barlow 6 in Singles & Dating

we don't talk anymore,,we havn't talked for 3months,,but she had my gold chain and 5 pound coin,,,,on New Years Eve i was driving in her area and and decided to call her,,,she picked up,,i then told her i was down the road and wanted to pick up my stuff,,she sounded pleasent and said yes she will send her Daughter down to drop my stuff off,,i got my stuff and drove home it was 2 hour before i opened the bag my chain was in when i looked at it i was shocked to see that my herringbone chain had be completly mangled, bent up & destroyed & it can't be worn anymore,,i was furious coz she did this out of hate,,,,i have a new love intrest and can't be bothered with this girl anymore but i called her and asked what she did to my chain,,she said that it was how i gave it to her,,,that chain was a gift to me from my parents for my 21st Bday i have had it 20 odd years it was in perfect condition when i gave it to her for safe keeping with a kink,,why would someone be so evil and what can do?

2007-01-01 23:07:09 · 8 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so im 14 and my family is very close friends with this other family who have four teen/youth children the youngest is a girl my age and she has Two older brothers and an older sister. we're so close we're pratically family, once when my family was broke we even moved in with them and it was like one big happy family. the younger of the brothers whos like 18 is close to me, we always talk and laugh like friends, he makes me feel so special, he's cute and i like to be around him,i think i really like him you know, is that wrong? considering the age gap and the fact that our familys are are so close we could all be one family?cuz he's really the only one who i feel sparks in air when im with, other guys are just physically attracted to me but this guy, he cares so much about me, i literally swept off my feet about how much he cares about me.everybody else thinks we're just friends, are just friends?

2007-01-01 23:04:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I havent seen them for a few months and found out from a mutual friend. Do I email, phone or go to their home?

2007-01-01 23:03:30 · 6 answers · asked by foruipurr 2 in Friends

feelings are bs you people watch dr. phil too much

2007-01-01 23:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are just barely young enough to be under our parents control, my mom doesnt like her and im not supposed to have anything to do with her, i love her to death and want to be with her and she feels the same for me. what should i do?

i've been with her eight months and 6 of those against my parents will

what do you think

2007-01-01 22:59:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u tell me bf gf thing is for fun ...(i dont think sex is 4 fun / sex is a sacred feeling and must be in a sacred relationship)

2007-01-01 22:58:53 · 9 answers · asked by romanticaliziational 2 in Singles & Dating

Does he still like me??

2007-01-01 22:58:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a mother of 2 girl's age's 10 and 4, they rule the house. I am trying everything to get control of my home again, but honestly seems point less. They don't listen to me, and back talk or yell. I know the yellin part they have got from me, but I am not really sure how to control the temper with them. They both know how and were to push my buttons, what can I do?

2007-01-01 22:58:10 · 14 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Family

lets say i wanted my ex back do u think if i sed to him that i like somelese in the middle of nowhere do u think that is cuz he is trying to make me jelouse or he really does like her

2007-01-01 22:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We been dating for about two months. Her Birthday is coming up and I want to get her something. She told me she doesn't want anything for her birthday. She likes Bath & Body Works So I want to get her a Gift Certificate but I Don't know how much to get her.

2007-01-01 22:53:52 · 12 answers · asked by mike g 1 in Singles & Dating

They are model couple of the world so know their ID atleast..

2007-01-01 22:53:47 · 2 answers · asked by Rinxsona 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been in love with a guy for 2 years, i know every thing about him.
i love him alot.
once i confessed to him, he replayed back sooo sweatly that it made me like him even more.
what can i do for him to fall in love with me??
plz help :(

2007-01-01 22:53:09 · 24 answers · asked by sara z 1 in Singles & Dating