plz dont give me any dirty answers.
i am 15 years old and he is 17, i have loved him for 2 years.. but i never said any thing but last month. i told him how i feel.
he responded very nicly. he said he likes some one else and he has to go to univercity soon, soo if we date we will both b heart broken.
that was very sweat of him, i know he just said that so he wont hurt me, but now i love him more.
and some thing else we dont live in the same city, soo i dont see him alot, i see hi like once every 3 months but i have his e-mail, and his number, but i never called him coz i am too shy but he does not have my number!!!
i dont want him right now, its just that i want to end up wih him, coz i think he is the perfect guy for me, i know its too soon to think about it but what can i do?
help?
2007-01-01 23:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by sara z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I felt you both are very reasonable.
Don't be shy, send him a literal not oral message telling him about your real feelings, end it with your respect to his decisions.
I wish you both all happiness.
2007-01-01 23:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is right though, he is going to go off to university soon, if you two do start going out and he moves off somewhere far away to university the relationship wont last if it is a long distance relationship. I would stop persuing this guy if I were you, he made it quite clear that he doesn't want to be with you.
2007-01-02 07:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you told him how you felt and he told you he has somebody and that he is soon going to college I think he is a nice guy and all but you just need to find somebody else for you, If he is the right one for you, don't worry you'll end up with him!
2007-01-02 07:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you actually love him just call him up and tell him that you do the worst he could say is he doesnt love you back but that is something that you can make change. hell, that's what i did to a girl that i love, we are madly in love and are gettting married just remember, true love can wait, going to a university won't change anything unless either of you want it to. hey you still have a year to make him fall in love with you. one night would be plenty of time for that.
go for it with all you got, the worst he could say is no and thats that you dont have alot of time to live so live life to its fullest and dont be afraid of anything.
2007-01-02 07:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen he obviously doesn't have feelings for you, so you really just need to move on. From experience i have discovered that their is nothing you can do to make a man fall for you. If it's not their, it just isn't their. You want a man that wants you and will persue you. Don't settle for any less!
2007-01-02 07:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by night_lilly66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was right he would break ur heart and i think that u didn't try it how it feel when ur heart break so plz just don't go 4it he wasn't trying 2b nice or sweet he was just being honest and real i really think that u get over him trust me I've try before how the heart break feel and i don't wish it for U , good luck and i hope u make the good decision .
2007-01-02 07:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by mohame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B his friend,that way you wil be more comfortable with him,and at ease with urself!Most importantly b urself around him
2007-01-02 07:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Cassý 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him now and tell him hope u feel about him and see if it goes any where.
2007-01-02 07:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by chongo89478 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think that this guy is not your man, your man is waitin for you somewhere else, believe me!!
2007-01-02 07:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋