i have been in love with a guy for 2 years, i know every thing about him.
i love him alot.
once i confessed to him, he replayed back sooo sweatly that it made me like him even more.
what can i do for him to fall in love with me??
plz help :(
2007-01-01 22:53:09 · 24 answers · asked by sara z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't - if after 2 years and telling him how you feel he should have made his move if he was interested
2007-01-01 22:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Omg! don't listen to the people that are saying that if he hasn't made a move yet then he doesn't like you. There could be a million reasons why he hasn't made his move yet. Believe me, I'm going through the same thing, but in my case, my crush doesn't date yet so he said maybe next year. But what I'm saying is don't give up! I was ready to give up too but never give up on someone if you can't go a day without thinking about him. If you think about him that much then theres gotta be something there! Just give it time & eventually he just might understand how much you like him and who knows he might feel the same way. And the best part of this whole situation is that he already knows you like him so now its up to him to make the decision of how he feels about you. I say just wait, I mean you have done just about everything you can. Good Luck & I hope it works out!
2007-01-02 10:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this little trick and watch the magic happen. But be careful because the results are astounding. Fo over to his house one day before he is off of work and go to the fridge, make him a great big sandwitch with a bunch of meat, get him a twelve pack of his favorite beer, go to his bed room and strip butt naked and let him have his way with you. A fool proof plan.
2007-01-02 06:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by NEED HELP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you too are in love its just that you are looking for signs in the wrong place. many guys find it very difficult to tell girls that they love her but there's always other ways that we express it. love is about expressing a feeling a nd saying so is the last and at time the most monotonous way. at 1 time i got so sick of just hearing the words i love you though i knew that my girl was sincere. but be careful he might not be in love but chances are that after 2 years he is, hear it from a guy who had been in the same situation. instead of looking for words look for others signs the way he speaks when he is with you, the presents he buys you, the frequency of his calls or sms's or even what he does when he is around you, there are many other ways after all guys are clever. take him for he is yours rightfully.
2007-01-02 07:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that it is a REAL LOVE? you can think that he is the best, but it doesn't mean that he really is. I mean, do you see his "-"?? and actually... try to forget him: if he is not interested in you (and as you said it was during 2 years!), maybe you are not meant to be together? Try to change your way: look around - there may be plenty of sweet guys who are dreaming about you and with whom you will be really happy!!!! What for should you waste your time suffering from such love? Don't you want anyone to bring YOU love? Finally, try to think critically: does he really cost your affection????????????????????
2007-01-02 07:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Brooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that guy does not love u then there is no use of going to him and
confessing....
wel let us com e to the point .
to make him love u the same way u love him i think the following ways may work
1-if u wear casuals. try to wear those clothes which are very attractive.
2-be like a helpful hand to him when he is in trouble
3-be more stylish and
4-ask ur friends to help u in this matter to some extent
if u like this answer or want further help then please email me at sonu_gaurav4u@yahoo.co.in
2007-01-02 07:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by gaurav agarwal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you know everything about him...but...does he know everything about you...does he show interest in you...or you just act like a desperate old witch...
If you want him to love you...show him yourself but not in a normal manner...do something strange or different look at him very puzzlingly...smile with a specific charm....
But do not say to him that you have to have him...you love him...and bla bla bla...this is what he will hear....do not say...but show him...
If he will not value your pretty effort...forget about him...he is not worthy of such a lovely lady!!!!
2007-01-02 07:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by josh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine..it is just simple..always keep in touch with him by calling ,by mailing,by talking or sharing moments together.This is Bcos it is the fact that when one is too close to each other the love grows naturally.So always keep in touch with him.Share your feelings or sharing everything with him.Know each other well and sometimes kiss him just jokingly.He will response u and surely think something on it...Wish you.
2007-01-02 07:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rinxsona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIMES IT IS BEST TO LET HIM KNOW YOUR FEELINGS AGAIN. YOU CAN NOT MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU. IT HAS TO COME NATURALLY. MAYBE HE WILL TELL YOU HE FEELS THE SAME WAY OR THAT HE JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS OR EVEN THE DREADED I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN. IT SEEMS THE LAST REPLY ISN'T SOMETHING HE WILL SAY SINCE YOU HAVE TOLD HIM BEFORE. ARE YOU PREPARED TO BE JUST FRIENDS IF THIS LOVE IS ONE SIDED? JUST REMEMBER NOTHING YOU CAN DO WILL CHANGE HIM, BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO CONSIDER WHO YOU WILL REACT TO HIS RESPONSE AND BE CONCERNED OVER HOW YOU WILL HANDLE THINGS.
2007-01-02 06:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by baptism_by_fire_2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not easy, u know...but u try to tell how u feel. try to do everyway for he know; invite him to go cinema, give him some presents in special events, send him cards or letters that written your feeling. if he feel like u, it's best. although he refuse your love, don't cry. think he's not your truth love. so u r lucky because u can look for another that is better. that's it.:-) good luck for your love.
2007-01-02 07:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋