my mum keep s threatening me but its getting worse and worse all the time she did it laast night and grabbed me by the throat saying i have to move out i am only 16 and currently at school what can i do or where can i go what can i do about the situatiuon with my mum ?????????????
2007-01-01 23:22:59 · 12 answers · asked by pink_n_purfect1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i alsop have a bf he has a car witha loud exaush she shouts and threatens me because its loud but thats isnt my fault
2007-01-01 23:30:12 · update #1
what are you doing that is prevoking your mother to threaten you? does your mother have a drinking problem or drug addiction?
Anyways, if needed you could call child services and tell them about your situation, they could find you a nice home. Otherwise live with a close relative.
2007-01-01 23:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is a hard situation, but you have to get out. now! i was abused as a kid, i moved out when i was young. this is abuse and no one deserves to be abused. no one has the right to abuse another person. if you stay, it will only get worse. this is a cycle, she was probably abused at some point in her life. don't let it happen to you or else the cycle continues. you will do it to others, or you will let others do it to you because the person who was suppose to love you the most and protect you did that to you therefore it must be OK. its not. please talk to someone about it. try to stay at a Friends house, talk to the parents and explain the situation, mind you they will probably call the cops. i would. you are in a very hard situation. whatever you do, do not give up on school in anyway. you need school for your survival in life in the future. you have a hard road ahead of you, but please don't give up. and try to get away from her. i will pray for you.
2007-01-02 08:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by bimmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know why your mom wants to send you out especially since you are just 16 years old, well you could probably go and live with a relative or pray that God should remove the spirit of threats in her life(christians). If you need any information email me at susanfolayan4love@yahoo.com
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-02 07:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is missing here. I have a feeling you do things to provoke her, not that grabbing your throat is acceptable behavior. I just don't believe you are a little angel either. Don't go ruining lives with accusations, change your behavior. You have no idea what can happen if you are taken from your home. Think!
2007-01-02 07:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the pigs on her, she won't ever make those mistakes again, failing that, you could sue her, get the house in a court settlement, and throw her out, turn the tables on her, and see how she likes it.
Failing that, if you have to resort to violence to defend yourself, punch her in the gut, or kick her in the groin, I don't care how hard she thinks she is, she won't be getting up for a while after that.
2007-01-02 07:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Scott Bull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call kids help line they can tell you what you need to know you cant keep living like that its just wrong give them a call when your not at home. make sure you tell them every thing and that you are still at school and want to continue your education you will find that between them and centre link you will be just fine just hang in there kiddo.x
2007-01-02 07:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by debbie anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,first of all your mom needs help, did you do something to have this happen, maybe you pushing to hard on you mom,maybe she like to see you better your self,maybe she needs help around the house, money,fix up ,clean up , we all need help from time to time ,you love you mom just set and talk, just talk,it helps being a son can be hard as well, just try to be nice, and help. life will get better,,,i know iam a dad
2007-01-02 07:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by rocketman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your mother an alchy, a druggle, a psycho or something or is it you? You need a children's counsellor and or children's services to look into this, get help for either you or her!
2007-01-02 08:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its getting worse call the Child Social Services ... they'll help you for sure !
2007-01-02 07:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by abukhalaf88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have Children's Services or whatever it's called, over there, right? Call them on her.
2007-01-02 07:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋