Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

I have been married for over fifteen years to the same women, helping her raise a five year old son, who was about 18 years old at the time he made me hit him.
Frist let me tell you, the entire time we have been together she have been over protective with her son, I have tryed to talk to hime and tell him things to do, but insted of standing with me an making sure that he follow the rules, I feel like she would talk aginst me an just let him have his was. I have talk to her telling her what would happen if she continue with what she was do with the boy. Now it has happen, I sk the kid too come help me cut the grass befor it became too hot, he refused an wanted to do at his own time, but that was not a part of the plan. At this time I insisted that came to help me, again he refused an made a few more smart remark, Well being from the old school without thinking I pulled my belt off an started to chestys him. He tryed to fight me with his fist, I Hit the boy in the mouth.

2007-01-01 20:49:54 · 3 answers · asked by spaceagepimpin43 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Has always been a Taurus, and from experience their traits are: very good in bed, exceptionally good looking, sensual, sexy, stubborn, loyal,steadfast, and i'm a capricorn which is said that these two signs connect on all levels which there is some truth there, my fiance is also a Taurus.... is there something strange and unexplainable here?......do you think this is strange to keep happening to me? what?

2007-01-01 20:49:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started my relation in June 04 with my GF and was having a full physical relationship with her till June 2006. In between our parents had come to know of our affair, but my parents did not approve the idea and backed off. I told this girl that it would be difficuklt for me to continue in relationship, but she said lets give time to it and we continued. Now I am almost sucked up and would want to settle rather than drag on. Would it be correct on my part if I just tell her once and for all that this will not work out. I don’t want to marry anyone at this point of time in life.

2007-01-01 20:48:32 · 14 answers · asked by Varun 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 20:46:46 · 14 answers · asked by DRAGON 1 in Friends

man this ***** went and told every1 that im good in bed, and now everyone is talking about us having sex and noone was supposed to know. it got around to someone and idk how but their parents found out and told my parents... should i break up with her or stay? what if something else happens thats bad and she tells?

2007-01-01 20:46:42 · 15 answers · asked by yung caine 1 in Singles & Dating

ok..im almost legal (18) ..you all say cut your losses and let go..and im not like attatched..like we are just friends..but its sometimes frustrating because i always thought that as guys matured and grew up they would just say how they feel and not dance around it like in high school. I was told that he thinks i dont like him and that i intimidate him and i sometimes think he waiting until i become legal. Im not sure if he is or isnt a player..ive just heard but i have backup..like death threats against him if he ever did anything to me. He knows im not like a loose girl and he stares at me and stuff and like sometimes i think he is just trying to stay away from me because he knows he is capable of emotionally (not like beating or anything) hurting me. but like i think i put him out to be a really bad guy but thats not at all what he is (now im defending him..darn) im just confused..but like is that what i have to look forward to when im 18 are guys all like that..when do they mature?

2007-01-01 20:45:40 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah M 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are sorta pressuring me to date/marry Asian. The thing is, I don't really care about what race the women in my relationships are. Love matters more than the color of our skin.

But my parents still pressure me a bit, especially when I'm in a relationship with a woman who isn't Asian, like right now. I'm 2nd generation, born in the US and my parents are born in Asia.

They moved here and decided to raise me in this culture. I'm gonna fall for whoever I share the most mutual love with, and race won't be much of a factor at all in my decisions.

Is there anything wrong in my thinking?

2007-01-01 20:43:30 · 9 answers · asked by "Asian Warren Buffett" 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Height, weight, race, hair color, career etc.

2007-01-01 20:43:23 · 4 answers · asked by Bunz 5 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this guy that i really like..but hes in another state..and he likes me too..but the problem is..i guess hes too desperate or horny or something...so he keeps trying to flirt with girls in his area..and even replied to some online ads posted by those horny type girls..to meet them and do stuff with them and all..and this made me TERRRIBLY DEPRESED after i found this out..cuz I REALLY LIKE HIM..and want him to jus be mine...and not do nething...but hes not into commitment rite now...and i know he likes me..and i think hes only trying to meet others cuz he thinks im flirting around with guys in my area..but the truth is i think i really love this guy...But i dont want to tell him as he dusnt want commitment..I want To change the way he is and make him stop being SO DESPERATE and messaging random girls and asking them for action...How can i change this thing in him? what DO I NEED TO DO? shud i tell him that I am not flirting or nething and see if he also stps? ITS KILLING ME!

2007-01-01 20:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am working in a software company, and interested in making friends. I am very good @ yahoo answers, you can see that from my profile(50% best answers). I am behind firewall, which blocks me from all the online community. I cant even uses proxy sites.

I need more friends, please help me.

2007-01-01 20:40:48 · 4 answers · asked by Ramses-the son of light 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 20:40:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband isn't well and spend alot of his time in bed. He starting to complain of boredom and we don't have alot of money.

Tonight I put the tv in the bedroom and his Xbox in there as well.

2007-01-01 20:39:08 · 8 answers · asked by mrsrhowell 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean personality and interest wise.

2007-01-01 20:37:28 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with this one boy because he was telling my friend that he was gonna break up with me and that he liked another girl. He never did break up with me but i got tired of him talking about me behind my back. Should I have kept him or not?

2007-01-01 20:35:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I love this guy soo much but I want to forget about him. What can I do? he is selfish and ........... well he is not my boyfriend but I tot he loved me

2007-01-01 20:32:12 · 11 answers · asked by belinda m 1 in Singles & Dating

If a man you love and have kids with, has fallen, or is falling out of love with you, how will he act?Details please! Thanks.

2007-01-01 20:30:55 · 4 answers · asked by wehweh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

actually i love from the starting of my life still i love her but i never be able to express my feelings towards them but i dont know is she love me or not .but prior to five year we always talk good but now days it take long time

2007-01-01 20:28:16 · 9 answers · asked by monu 1 in Friends

Whenever I make a plan with her she always says "I don't know". I ask her if she thinks we'll be together in 1 year - "i don't know". I ask her to come to celebrate my b-day with me, "i don't know - i gotta go to my dads." How about on Saturday , "I don't know." Am I wrong for being frustrated? Am I wrong for wanting to leave her? I want to leave her but I'm afraid of being alone, forever. (I'm not the most social person in real life.) I am really good to her - buy her flowers, computer, took her around the east coast.

Mind you, she said that I should ignore her body language and listen to her words only. I said NO I can't ignore body language - its essential communication to maintain a healthy relationship. Sometimes, I think she just wants to feed off my anger/agony!

In addition, about 1.5 years ago she told my ex-good friend (her ex) that we hooked up. She never hooked up with him (thank the lord)

2007-01-01 20:27:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to visit it. Give me some of your opinions on the place.

2007-01-01 20:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by precious 2 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with this beautiful girl from work. She is the one that can make you smile when you are sad, makes your heart goes crazy when she's off duty and makes you want to hug her right there right to protect her from everything.

But the thing is, she is not available. She lives with her boyfriend. That makes it so so sad for me. But she gives me a mixture of feelings and uncertainty. There are times when she will call in the middle of the night just to chat , she will call me out to lunch or dinner and she will care for me so much. All this just sort of like build my love puzzle for her bit by bit.

But then, when we talk.. its always about her feelings. its more like a one way communication. She'll talk about her dog, her boy friend , her job, her feelings and everything is just about her. Well i guess i am just a listener eh.

She knows i have feelings for her, but she just play along acting not knowing. Should i tell her my feelings? I am really really lost. Helppp...

2007-01-01 20:23:49 · 16 answers · asked by mickey 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 20:22:15 · 12 answers · asked by lesuiremike 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you're in this situation, how are you handling it?

2007-01-01 20:20:43 · 15 answers · asked by mx3baby 6 in Family

2007-01-01 20:19:13 · 12 answers · asked by Pipy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have any of you did something heroic?

2007-01-01 20:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by Akai 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i lyk dis girl whos really far right now
and i also lyk dis other girl whos new and exciting and she's a clasmate in the university
they both show that they like me

but dont really know who to choose

2007-01-01 20:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by MarK 1 in Singles & Dating

1st i am 5'8" with short brown hair and weigh about 102 lbs and i have brown eyes.
2nd he is always staring at me (he focuses on my breasts) and makes some sexual comments about his friend and me goin at it as if his freind is talkin through him. If i wear a tee shirt that says something he will ask me what it says every 5 min, but other then that he doesn't really talk to me that much. HELP!!!!! please and thank you

2007-01-01 20:17:29 · 7 answers · asked by Angel Eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf is vary prudei need your help

2007-01-01 20:15:59 · 13 answers · asked by greg 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl we are deeply connected in such a way that we finnish each others sentences and other things

2007-01-01 20:14:42 · 16 answers · asked by judge_dred00 1 in Singles & Dating

If a girl dates a guy n wan have sex, does it mean she wan marry him in future. Girls, may I know as to how many guys have dated till now and did sex happen all the time. Has it been so casul to have a date with diff persons for sex.

2007-01-01 20:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is being stubborn.
She is upset about something, but she won't tell me what it is and she says it's not my fault.
I asked her if she wanted me to know what it was, and she said she didn't care, yet she still won't tell me.
She was absolutely fine yesterday and all week, and I've done NOTHING to upset her.

What exactly do I do to get her affectionate again? Or at least convince her to tell me what's wrong, or even talk to me properly?

2007-01-01 20:13:23 · 17 answers · asked by Ceremony 2 in Singles & Dating