My girlfriend is being stubborn.
She is upset about something, but she won't tell me what it is and she says it's not my fault.
I asked her if she wanted me to know what it was, and she said she didn't care, yet she still won't tell me.
She was absolutely fine yesterday and all week, and I've done NOTHING to upset her.
What exactly do I do to get her affectionate again? Or at least convince her to tell me what's wrong, or even talk to me properly?
2007-01-01 20:13:23 · 17 answers · asked by Ceremony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EDIT: I don't know what the hell some of you people are thinking.
I'm not cheating, if I was I would've mentioned it as this is an anonymous question site.
2007-01-01 20:17:35 · update #1
It's probably your fault, even if you did NOTHING to upset her you somehow managed to upset her... all you can do is kiss up to her, she probably wont tell you what's wrong cause "you should know" ... ~~~~ That's just how us females are... :)
2007-01-01 20:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your pretty much screwed. Your girlfriend either thinks you should know her well enough to know why shes upset (that is if shes upset at you) or she simply doesn't want to tell you and you'll just have to wait till she is either ready to tell you or never find out and she'll just get over her mood.Basically there's nothing you can do. Oh and guys often think they haven't done anything to upset girls, but a lot of time its stuff that guys *didn't* do that upsets the girl.Didn't call, or call when they said they would, or have forgotten about something they said they'd do (which leads to the girl being frustrated but not wanting to bring it up without sounding like a big selfish baby.Yeah, I've totally been there, can you tell?). Hopefully your girl will get over it soon or tell you. Good luck.
2007-01-01 20:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by pixiestixs86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably is having some kind of family issues that she doesn't really feel comfortable sharing with you right now. I'd just be extra nice to her, give lots of hugs and offer to help her out. Also, stop bugging her to tell you, and just tell her that you are there for her if she wants to confide in you. She will appreciate the support, and when she feels comfortable, she will let you know whats wrong.
2007-01-01 20:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dangermouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best you don't probe or else you may get her on her nerves/anger. Girls will always be girls. When the time is right, she'll download all that you need to know. Try to pacify her by simply staying by her side without having to utter any words. Eventually, you're realised that that is what she wants and not a nosey-poker.
2007-01-01 20:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 07:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to not focus on the problem as she doesn't want to discuss about it. Let it go and don't ask her again. That kinda thing annoys me too.
Show her affection and just keep assuring her how you feel about her. Things will get back to normal pretty soon.
SOMETIMES, WHEN YOU WANT SOMETHING, YOU GOT TO FIRST GIVE IT AWAY!!!
2007-01-01 20:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever had those days you feel like crap. You would just like to kick a bull in the azz and not run. Well maybe she is having one of those times. Let her alone you don't have to fix everything for her. It does not help to call her stubborn.
2007-01-01 20:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be kind and understanding. Support her, and let her know from time to time you care. Sometimes it is not about you, and there is a part of her that is not always with you. Don't sweat it.
2007-01-01 20:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by Modest intellect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking her again and again. only be nice to her as she is going through a tough phace. eventually she will tell you. Give her some time.
2007-01-01 20:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pressurise her. give her some time! every relation should have soem space. give her space. if she really loves u she will surely tell u becoz ur her best friend! check out more on different answers to questions u have at http://valentinesday4all.blogspot.com
2007-01-01 21:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sean Carter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋