I fell in love with this beautiful girl from work. She is the one that can make you smile when you are sad, makes your heart goes crazy when she's off duty and makes you want to hug her right there right to protect her from everything.
But the thing is, she is not available. She lives with her boyfriend. That makes it so so sad for me. But she gives me a mixture of feelings and uncertainty. There are times when she will call in the middle of the night just to chat , she will call me out to lunch or dinner and she will care for me so much. All this just sort of like build my love puzzle for her bit by bit.
But then, when we talk.. its always about her feelings. its more like a one way communication. She'll talk about her dog, her boy friend , her job, her feelings and everything is just about her. Well i guess i am just a listener eh.
She knows i have feelings for her, but she just play along acting not knowing. Should i tell her my feelings? I am really really lost. Helppp...
2007-01-01 20:23:49 · 16 answers · asked by mickey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you said it yourself she is taken. All you can continue you to do is just be her friend. She makes you feel special but, she may just see you as her friend also. If you want you tell how you feel. Start off by saying how cool of a girl she is and if she was single that you two would be an item..... She may laugh it off or if she is sending you feelings and messages you will know and if she is just your friend you will know......Do it soon its 2007 keep it pushing
2007-01-01 20:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by how_ulovthat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl probably doesn't know and if she talks about her boyfriend which means she is just close to you but if you tell her you like her she may freak out and you will or may lose even not get to talk to her anymore at all because she may think you just want to be her boyfriend so just make a choose.
2007-01-02 04:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she may have feelings for you but the relationship that she is in won't let her. And it is may be a bit unfortunate that she is a girl with a boy friend. Just let her to know you better. I mean you should not be a listner always. But you can tell your feelings for her and you should be prepared for any responses that you are going to get.
Good Luck!
2007-01-02 04:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she really likes you as a friend, maybe more.... but she is in a relationship and you need to keep your wits about you while she is dealing with that. You don't want to be the reason she breaks up with him because if you are that reason you will be part of her rebound and then her past. Be her friend for now maybe in the future it will turn into more.
2007-01-02 04:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by caralinar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is taken -- off-limits!
That being said, I think that she is leading you on. It's possible that she may be setting you up as a "Plan B" in case it doesn't work out with her current live-in, OR she just likes the attention. Either way, doesn't look good for you.
2007-01-02 04:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is what is called a friendship. Guys have one friendship ladder and whichever girl is placed on some point on the ladder depending on how much the guy wants to do them. Girls have two ladders: one for friends that they talk to about the things you described and one for guys they like and wanna "get to know". Unfortunately you described the friend girl ladder. You're outta luck mang.
2007-01-02 04:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by yaaangsooon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well lemme tell you dear that a girl showing such gestures is of a kind when she is truly deeply madly in love with her Boy friend but since its been a long relation with him , she finds things Cold and tries to engage with another person (in this case its you) but then as she is true with her B.F she would completely ignore your feelings for her.
at the same time the stagnancy of her relation will bring fun in her relation with you.
But PLEEEEZZZZZZZ dont take it as her love.
Better luck next time..
u deserve some1 meant just 4 u.
2007-01-02 04:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by sanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make your feelings very clear to her, and tell her.... , " that if she's ever available to give you a call....and that you will be a friend if she needs one in the meantime.", if you can live with that,... because as long as she's in a relationship with someone else, you're both just asking for trouble.
2007-01-02 04:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Salvezza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI,,, You have to test her by trying kissin' her or somehing similar to that! ask her about her relation with her BF and how is the relation goes! Everything will be fine by the time,,, Go a head my friend and l will pray for you!
2007-01-02 04:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by MaTt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should back off and stop accepting calls from her. She is living with someone. Before you do break it off, let her know that you like her. Then explain that you would like to pursue something if she ever splits with her boyfriend.
2007-01-02 04:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋