I started my relation in June 04 with my GF and was having a full physical relationship with her till June 2006. In between our parents had come to know of our affair, but my parents did not approve the idea and backed off. I told this girl that it would be difficuklt for me to continue in relationship, but she said lets give time to it and we continued. Now I am almost sucked up and would want to settle rather than drag on. Would it be correct on my part if I just tell her once and for all that this will not work out. I don’t want to marry anyone at this point of time in life.
2007-01-01 20:48:32 · 14 answers · asked by Varun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clearly the answer is in your heart.
Dragging will only bring more suffering for either party.
Make a clean break and hope she understand
2007-01-01 20:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Badmanfor3v3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetly tell ur gf clearly that you dont see a future but give her a reason why you think there is no future and also do not drag and ditch without an explanation becasue that will give you a bad repuatation and she will be even more upset because she doesnt know why you broke up with her. she may even spend weeks thinking that it was her fault and that she did something wrong. so just explain the situation to her and tell her that your not ready for commitment and give her a reason!!!
2007-01-01 20:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by magdalena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I in my opinion might want to attend slightly. do not imagine afraid again out, yet also do not rush into it. imagine about what sort of people your parents are. possibly you also ought to attend till you've gotten performed slightly of diagnosis and had extra life expertise. 13 years historic is a good time to be wondering, yet might want to be not for sorting out what your beliefs are, a minimum of, now not without sufficient study. should you imagine that popping out as a non-believer will endanger your relationship along with your parents, or make your existence worse, or make you a pariah of sorts, i does not do it. yet think about, that doesn't mean to now not take the potential of telling them, merely to placed your nicely-being and the togetherness of your relatives first.
2016-12-01 10:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know what it's like to feel as if your BF doen't want to carry on, but you should tell her. You should invite her round and talk it over and stay friends but not in the love way. Please email me on what you think of my suggestion.
2007-01-01 20:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by .:CoolGirl:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know ASAP. Dragging it out will only make it worse.
2007-01-01 20:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy u aint alone,take it easy n live in the moment,these things solve emselves in th long run
2007-01-01 21:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a man about it and tell her how you feel. If you don't want to be with her, then don't be with her. It's that simple.
2007-01-01 21:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by buffybeast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone should drag & ditch you. of course you tell her, why waste both of your time?
2007-01-01 21:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her stay if you dont throw her off a cliff.. dont lead her on
2007-01-01 20:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a dog string her on...I am sure she is thinkong the same thing.
2007-01-01 20:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋