2007-01-01 09:35:45 · 21 answers · asked by P M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just don't do that to mates sorry
2007-01-01 09:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by angies_angel_eyes2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would depend on how much you value your "best mate" think carefully about this, she leaves him for you....will she leave you...will you trust her with him if you and he reconcile??
Sweet and gorgoeus is pretty shallow is she someone you would enjoy being with for long periods of time? do you have similiar interests and goals? This is serious territory my sons mate stole his girl, they never spoke again, it is going on 10 years. You may have lots of women but maybe only one "best mate".
2007-01-01 17:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lezleykay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your thinking with your WILLIE mate ...Looks fade and personality will sour.You should think about what you will be tossing away with your friend...gorgeous and sweet will leave you as soon as the excitement of the chase fades.You will be left with no best mate or a girl.
2007-01-01 17:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Meemi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mate will see this as the ultimate betrayal as will any mutal friends. I've seen this happen with my brother and his now ex mate. If you want to keep your friendship with your mate then don't do it. You need to ask yourself if she is really worth being a billy no-mates?
2007-01-01 17:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if you compete against your mate.? And pardon me but..if she IS so sweet wouldnt she do the right thing and TELL him? If she does come to you,would you TRUST her.? Deep down you may always be wondering IF she would do the same to you. If she really wants you then ask her to TELL him .Though I wonder if he will see you as a BEST MATE.....
2007-01-01 17:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by caroline l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely go for it as life's too short but dont hold up on any long term relationship as if shes willing to leave him 4 you, no doubt the same will happen 2 you but im sure it will be fun mean time!!
2007-01-01 17:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on one well you like ur best mate.if you have been mates for a number of years then id say no and tell her to clear off.if hes a true mate then hell be there forever.even if you decided to go with her im sure it wouldnt last forever
2007-01-01 17:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what relationship you have with your mate and how long you have known him, but on the other hand have you thought that she might just be doing it just to brake your friendship up with your mate and she can then turn around to him if he finds out and she tells him that you made the first move.
i would think very hard on this one as i know which one i would choose and i know that some of women can be very devious.
2007-01-01 17:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by kjw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest she leaves him and hooks up with you a few months later if she's still interested. Jumping from one mate to another is a big no no.
2007-01-01 17:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should finish with her boyfriend first and after a while then start a relationship with you. its the decent thing to do. that way you won't be acuse of stealing someones girlfriend. but you may still be acuse of stealing her from your mate. how much do you like this woman? is it worth the problems it can cause between you and your friend? good luck to you.
2007-01-01 19:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to risk your friendship?
do you want to risk your friendship with a best mate?
is she really worth it?
do you think that she will stay faithful to you?
these are questions You have to answer.
but remember its said: boyfriends / girlfriends come and go but friends are for life.
2007-01-01 17:49:29 · answer #11 · answered by lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋