Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

2007-01-01 10:24:17 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So this morning I woke up with this random chick. As soon as I recognize that there is random chick laying in my bed, I kicked her out of my bedroom. I told her to hit the road. Atleast I was been honest coz I didn't wanted to see her again after a lay. Chick got mad, she kicked me and left. Chicks are crazy, they don't appreciate guy's honesty.

2007-01-01 10:24:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I deeply care for my boyfriend and I know he’s passionate about me but he seemed withdrawn.He’s a great person so sweet & fun to be around but in the bedroom he’s quiet and likes ONLY to cuddle up to me - seeming really shy. I have no problem cherishing the pleasures of cuddling. Outside the bedroom everything was fine, in fact wonderful, but inside, he wasn’t telling me something. My frustration grew so I finally asked him seriously, if he was gay or a transvestite.
But instead he confessed that sometimes he likes to be treated like a kid, with rules and discipline similar to that in which a child receives. Such as, corner time, spankings, etc, which was embarrassing for him to tell me but asked that I participate, i.e. be the ‘mommy. He felt horrible when I hesitated and offered to call off our whole relationship because he thinks I can do better. I have been completely blindsided by this whole thing and I’m worried about the relationship and strain. Please give any help you can!

2007-01-01 10:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by mary n 2 in Singles & Dating

Your special someone has that thing that is sooooo enchanting that you find irresistable, right? What is it? And if you dont have a special someone, what enchants you about the opposite sex?

2007-01-01 10:23:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that dating isn't condoned in Islam but I am dating a Muslim man who is divorced. I respect Islam but I am not interested in converting. My boyfriend has quit asking me about converting to Islam. He used to ask about it all the time. I am interested in an interfaith marriage where we respect and honor each other's religions and traditions. What do you think about this? Could it work?

2007-01-01 10:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Singles & Dating

i like him alot but i cant tell if he likes me or if i should tell him i like him

2007-01-01 10:22:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with the guy, and another guy I worked with told me that the guy liked me, how do I know if he's lying to me? I had a bad reaction about the guy that liked me... but now I feel like I like him, why is it every guy I get to know.. after a while it seems like I begin to like them? .. And how do i know if the guy was being truthful that he actually liked me??.. I don't get to talk to him too much, but when I do, its usually with someone else.. how do I talk to him one on one...??? He's cute, but I don't want to date .....

2007-01-01 10:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by Mickey 2 in Singles & Dating

I had some problems last night and asked a couple of ?'s You all helped me out so much. Now that its over between the two of us (read prev questions) She keeps telling me she is sorry and seem that she is giving me more attention now than when we were dating. She wants to still be my friend but she wants to hide me from her current BF Josh . Should i continue to be her friend after all this or just ignore her all togeather What do you suggest is the best for me ?

2007-01-01 10:21:43 · 17 answers · asked by Chris m 1 in Singles & Dating

perhaps i am the only one encountering this, but i thought i might ask. if you meet a man who tells you he is getting a divorce, what automatically comes to mind? currently i am facing the problem that many people foresee the divorce as being caused by the wife. we have all these ideas of gold diggers and cheating wives, is it that over whelming that we expect females to be the demise of every young marriage?
granted both sides in every marriage do wrong, but- more likely to be the wife's fault or the husband's? what do you think?

2007-01-01 10:21:43 · 13 answers · asked by brandylyn_kay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 10:21:25 · 6 answers · asked by Buffy 4 in Singles & Dating

i spilt with my ex 4 months ago, he had been a dad to my daughter who is 5 for 3 years, he played a lot of mind games and was a spitefull man, he used her a lot to get at me both times we broke up he made it clear he doesn't mind seeing his son but not my daughter. he beat me up, put my windows through so i stopped him having contact with the children. my daughter is now going through a bad time, she seems happier since he's gone but is now crying saying she misses him and keeps saying 'mommy i nothing bad is going to happen to me is it? mommy i won't die will i? and she keeps making things up that her leg, hand, stomach, head, tongue, foot, toes hurt. i think this is a result of stress from my ex going. i try to tell her everything is ok but it's breaking my heart. Has anyone had this experience with their children and how can i help her

2007-01-01 10:21:14 · 14 answers · asked by DONNAIS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-01 10:21:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 10:20:50 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a little bit ago me and my mom where getting seconds And I was getting a peace of ham. getting a second piece I say the word 2. in meaning two piece is the limit. my mom tells me to only get one more. I try to say thats what I was going to do. but then my mom tells me that I was going to get two more. then it turn into a fight that 10 year olds are to old two have. my mom keep tell me I was lying. this isn't the only fight like that. not saying that I and my mom don't get along. we get along 99.9 percent of the time. but throw my mom inpatients with people lying to her and my inability to let people act like they know more about what I said then me and you get an endless argument. there is no way out. it's like that episode of futurama where fry get the robot girl friend of napster. where they where going. "no I love you. "shes stuck in an endless lope and he's an idiot". thats basically the argument. an endless lope and a vicious circle. how do I get out of it. please tell me.

2007-01-01 10:20:32 · 12 answers · asked by fay v 2 in Family

my best friend wants to ask out a girl that i know will not be kind at all to him and i know eill cheat on him. she doesnt like him at all and my friend thinks she does. i need advice. HELP!

2007-01-01 10:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 10:19:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what's wrong with me? i can only forget someone i have feelings for, by going out with somebody else! i ca't do it by myself- if i'm alone, i wallow in self-pity...

once, i took a whole year to forget someone...which i did after meeting somebody else.

2007-01-01 10:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by meli melo 1 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with this one person and she means alot to me but shes ashamed of who she is..but im willing to give up alot for her bc shes done that for me..

2007-01-01 10:18:30 · 13 answers · asked by Teddy bear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We really really like each other but we don't want other kids to know so we don't get laught at.So what should we do?

2007-01-01 10:17:29 · 12 answers · asked by miskol20002 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 10:17:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 10:17:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 10:15:39 · 12 answers · asked by meka g 6 in Singles & Dating

friends. I feel so alone. I feel trapped. I know theres so many things I can do with my life because I dont have any kids and I'm healthy. And I just want so bad to just pack my things and travel, make friends, go back to school, get my own place. If I decide to pick up and leave my city, what can I do? If youre a female around my age have you ever done this? Please tell me how what should I do? Right now Im in the process of looking for another job bc I quit my last one. Since I dont have a degree its like I keep quitting jobs bc im so bored with them. Please ladies if you have any advice for me to get out of this situation plz tell me. I feel like a girl who is trying to find womanhood but Ive never had any advice or guidance from my mom or anyone. She's all into her man and thats it. I feel like my life is passing me by. I need help. I'm completely sane and nothings wrong with me its just I've been feeling hopeless and lost.

2007-01-01 10:14:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am about to begin the process of a divorce, to a man i married after knowing all of two weeks. we had a quicky court house marriage and it was his demand that no one knew...eventually he kicked me out and i gave birth to his son...i felt it only right to contact his parents and tell them everything. well now that my son is four months old they send holiday cards and even christmas presents this year- despite their son they are very nice people from what i gather, though i have never and will never meet them.
i wonder how i should correspond with them now that it's assured he and i will never come back to our marriage, do i write friendly or informal letters? do i send only on special occasions? how to i address them, sir and ma'am or more casually? do i still sign my name with their son's last name? i am trying to be as sensitive as possible but keep them around for my son's sake, every child needs family. even distant grandparents right?

2007-01-01 10:14:30 · 18 answers · asked by brandylyn_kay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 10:13:58 · 26 answers · asked by ♥michele♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

The girl who was staying with me and my child in our studio for almost 3 wks is harrassing me. Today, she left me voice and text messages cussing me out and threatening me (I just blocked her from texting me). I can't believe this is the same "friend" I helped! Mabye I shouldn't have lost my cool when she refused to pay half the rent and didn't give me money for the week but I don't deserve this.

She didn't react the same way when her sister threw away her things or when her brothers threw her out of their home. They even ridiculed her! Why is she behaving so disrespectful to me?

Now I know for sure that she pretended to care about me so that I could let her stay with me because if you care about someone you wouldn't treat them this badly.

I want to talk to her pastor or someone who knows her at her church so they can help her with her mental issues. Unfortunately, I don't know the name of the church or the phone #s of any of her friends/family.

2007-01-01 10:13:36 · 21 answers · asked by Tina M 1 in Friends

Why is it that men can have many girlfriends and be considered cool but when a women has more then one boyfriend shes a hoe.

2007-01-01 10:12:57 · 12 answers · asked by meka g 6 in Singles & Dating

mostly disagree about curfews, friends, goals, etc

2007-01-01 10:11:55 · 24 answers · asked by Rox 2 in Family

2007-01-01 10:11:42 · 16 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 10:10:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships