I had some problems last night and asked a couple of ?'s You all helped me out so much. Now that its over between the two of us (read prev questions) She keeps telling me she is sorry and seem that she is giving me more attention now than when we were dating. She wants to still be my friend but she wants to hide me from her current BF Josh . Should i continue to be her friend after all this or just ignore her all togeather What do you suggest is the best for me ?
2007-01-01 10:21:43 · 17 answers · asked by Chris m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chris, I haven't read your previous q's like you requested, but 1st thing is it isn't over in your heart, you still love her and are raw from the break-up and deserve to heal. 2nd off is that you shouldn't condone being her friend without her current bf knowing. 3rd of all, sounds to me like maybe she cares about you and does want a friendship, but maybe she is also keeping you as a fallback. You have to do what is right for you, is being around her still hurtful? Then you need time apart. I will go read your previous q's now and edit my answer if I have any other input. Good Luck to you.
OKAY AFTER READING YOUR WHOLE Q HISTORY:
You need space. Especially for your daughter. It isn't fair to you or her with all this back and forth stuff. Sounds like you are a good guy but you are too raw to be anything for either ex wife or ex girlfriend, it is time to focus on you and you only so that the next relationship isnt so hurtful and confusing. If your ex decides to be with an emotionally abusive man, she shouldn't get her cake and eat it too, she shouldn't be able to have your sensitiveness and also be with a guy who uses her. She has her own path to figure out, and you need to step back and let her new relationship fly or fail, without you being a fall back guy or the guy who holds her when she's down. Focus on you and your one yr old Chris, or your life will never stop being confusing and it wont improve.
2007-01-01 10:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is miraculous when two people can remain friends after a relationship ends. All I can say is to stay in touch but keep a healthy distance for a while. If she is hiding you from her current boyfriend, then she still has feelings for you and isn't sure what to do about it. She is still processing is what it sounds like to me.
I would have a talk with her and explain you need a little time to sort things out and that you wish her well. This will help her a lot.
You both need healthy closure rather than close contact at this point.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 10:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-19 08:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by quinteros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life their are other girls that would want to go out with you.i think you should just ignore her all togeather, b-cause, she is using you as a back up,if she dont get her curent boyfriend then she would just try to get you. then she would find someone else to go out with and dump you then when that dont work out she would just come crawling back to you just to make other guys jelous. i'm sorry to sound so harsh but you dont need her you could find some one else better for you. so you dont need to be her friend or her ne thing!!!!!!!! hope this helps....
2007-01-01 10:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by summer_princess_5083 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that self riotous ***** to take a hike! "Hide u from Josh" If she cant openly be your friend that means she is NOT a real friend! Don't waist your time brother there are wayyyyyy to many people in this world who would love to be your friend and would treat you like a real friend should!!!! hang tough bro.
2007-01-01 10:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to play games. Ignore her entirely and get on with your life as she seems to be doing with a new boyfriend. Just let her know you are through and for her to leave you alone.
2007-01-01 10:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like an upstanding person if she wants to hide you from her current guy. I'd disassociate myself from such a person. Why keep someone like that in your life?
2007-01-01 10:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next step is to get over the person and then go find someone better,but not just to make your ex mad.
2007-01-01 10:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by meka 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your better off moving on. Its good of you to wnat to still be friends, but do you really want to be friends with someone who wants to hide your friendship?
2007-01-01 10:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋