The girl who was staying with me and my child in our studio for almost 3 wks is harrassing me. Today, she left me voice and text messages cussing me out and threatening me (I just blocked her from texting me). I can't believe this is the same "friend" I helped! Mabye I shouldn't have lost my cool when she refused to pay half the rent and didn't give me money for the week but I don't deserve this.
She didn't react the same way when her sister threw away her things or when her brothers threw her out of their home. They even ridiculed her! Why is she behaving so disrespectful to me?
Now I know for sure that she pretended to care about me so that I could let her stay with me because if you care about someone you wouldn't treat them this badly.
I want to talk to her pastor or someone who knows her at her church so they can help her with her mental issues. Unfortunately, I don't know the name of the church or the phone #s of any of her friends/family.
2007-01-01 10:13:36 · 21 answers · asked by Tina M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your first concern should be the safety of your child. If she is having problems and harassing you remember it's not just you, it's also your child. Call the police.
2007-01-01 10:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by lisa h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go to her pastor. That really isn't your place to label her as having "mental issues", even if that is your feelings.
What you should do is let her know that since she is not on the lease, she has 48 hours to find somewhere else to stay (you may need to check your local laws. Some require you give her 30 days notice, since she has been staying there for over 24 hours). You don't need a person like that around you and your child.
If she continues to threaten and harass you, file a police report and a restraining order. She'll more than likely have to move out immediately then.
2007-01-01 18:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by purvislets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first thing to do is to make sure she is out of your life for good. If she is sending threat notes then she might do harm to you or your child. If you don't know the number to her family or church the best thing you can do is to get the police involved. Show them the evidence if you still have it and have them talk to the family memebers which gives your story a straight and narrow path. She obviosuly has no respect for you which is ridicoulous considering you took her in when she had been homeless and kicked out. If you dont have proof that shes mental then dont say it because if you tell that to the police then it gives her a motive and she wont get into the trouble that she needs to be in for the harmful letters.
Hope I helped,
Brianna
p.s. ask to get her examined.
2007-01-01 18:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Police
2007-01-01 18:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the police involved. This person may not be so stable and it sounds as if she might be dangerous and you do have a child to think about.
Get a paper trail going on this gal. Who knows how many other people she has done this with?
Make sure she has no keys left or any way to get into your place.
Be safe, better then being sorry.
2007-01-01 18:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel she needs help then maybe you should talk to her pastor or some other means of mental help. If you feel as though she is threatening then you need to call the police and bring up harrassment charges cause you need to think about the well-being of your child.
2007-01-01 18:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may seem harsh but if you had an agreement with her that she would pay half the rent and then didnt pay, you should file charges.
As for the harassing, she has no right. You tried to help her and she basically spit in your face. You and your child do not need that so I would contact your local authorities and then contact her family.
Good luck with this whole situation. I hope it works out well for you and your child.
2007-01-01 18:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by sweetthang16_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting the police involved would not be the right action in this situation. But you should talk to one of her friends and ask them if she has ever been like this before and you should also talk to her about how she is acting and how it makes you feel and if she really is threatening you then think of the safty of your child and kick her out.
2007-01-01 18:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police- keep the voice and text messages for proof, and keep a close eye on your child. This girl sounds a little unhinged and could be dangerous, for both you and your child. Call the police, NOW!
2007-01-01 18:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police before she starts stealing from you or doing something worse. She sounds like she has alot of other issues she needs to face on her own.
2007-01-01 18:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋