I deeply care for my boyfriend and I know he’s passionate about me but he seemed withdrawn.He’s a great person so sweet & fun to be around but in the bedroom he’s quiet and likes ONLY to cuddle up to me - seeming really shy. I have no problem cherishing the pleasures of cuddling. Outside the bedroom everything was fine, in fact wonderful, but inside, he wasn’t telling me something. My frustration grew so I finally asked him seriously, if he was gay or a transvestite.
But instead he confessed that sometimes he likes to be treated like a kid, with rules and discipline similar to that in which a child receives. Such as, corner time, spankings, etc, which was embarrassing for him to tell me but asked that I participate, i.e. be the ‘mommy. He felt horrible when I hesitated and offered to call off our whole relationship because he thinks I can do better. I have been completely blindsided by this whole thing and I’m worried about the relationship and strain. Please give any help you can!
2007-01-01 10:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by mary n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was too embarrassed to say at first, but some of you basically hit it – when he acts like a child he has to be treated as a child and has wear diapers to bed. – That was the part that concerned me, not the “I need to be snuggled and loved part.”
This may change some of your opinions. Although I am pretty ‘motherly’ I guess.
2007-01-01 10:58:52 · update #1
I have tried not to made a big deal out of it but feel this will pull us apart! I’ve done reading online about fetishes but it didn’t help with what I wanted to know. I’m worried about real life experiences and dealing with the strains it puts on relationships, and how the balancing works? I would love to hear from someone who has delt with this before.
2007-01-01 11:54:48 · update #2
tell him how u feel and..make him feel comfortable and that everything will be alright..express your love
2007-01-01 10:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Boyfriend needs some serious help. He likes to have a dominate figure in a relationship and that's not good! He will be a spineless wimp mommas boy his whole life. You're dating a three year old so take him home and put him back in his crib.
2007-01-01 18:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some research on the web about Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers. It sounds like he's into that. Read up on it, and see if being a mommy appeals to you. If it does, then you two have a new game to play together. If it doesn't, then you might want to consider breaking up.... because I doubt that he'd want to give up this "interest" of his.
2007-01-01 19:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Egghead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a little unusual, but not unheard of. If you love him, try it out, you might like it. I usually go out with girls who like to be dominated in bed, so I cant really comment on why he feels this way. I say go for it, have some fun.
2007-01-01 18:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rick R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay with him then do it, Spank his bad lil butt, but if you think its sick and freaky move on life is too short
2007-01-01 18:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by clement J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see it as a sexuel foreplay ...or a game....and enjoy it...
ok maybe its not the best idea but at least it will keep both of you happy.
2007-01-01 18:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Quantum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comon think about it, why should ur relationship be like this, ur his girfriend not his mother! And he should Learn to live like a man!
2007-01-01 18:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by dandslash 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
no you won't lose him
2007-01-01 18:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by sweety84pie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋