Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

After college I became very ill. Now in my mid thirties, I'm picking up where I left off. I called my college buddies. I went back to my personal confidant and apologized. I found a new love interest. My first real crush since college. . . . .

2007-01-01 11:06:21 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

This question does not necessarily have to be answered sexually but can be an answer.

2007-01-01 11:05:01 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Friends

I was with my boyfriend for two years, he cheated on me, we split up for two months, got back together, eloped, got married and now I am 3 months pregnant. Three days before Christmas I found him in a nightclub, trying it on with other women. I confronted him and he went missing. I later found him outside kissing a girl from his work. I have no idea why I married him after he cheated on me the first time and was gutted when I discovered that I was pregnant, I thought I could make a go of it but now I don't want to and I don't think he will ever change and I don't want to have the baby. I feel really bad about having an abortion but I am not in the right situation now. I am only 21 and am at university. Is it better that I get divorced and have an abortion and end all contact with him? He has caused me so much pain in my life already, and I'm still young enough to sort my life out. I'm dreading being on my own and feeling guilty but the alternative is gonna be even harder.

2007-01-01 11:04:38 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I decided to break up with my G/F so we can both have a fresh start in 2007, I know she is going to want an explaination, and I am a brutaly honest guy. SHould I tell her it's because she doesn't turn me on since she got fat?

2007-01-01 11:03:33 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband asked for a divorce last month but we have not lived together for almost a year. We have seen each other off and on trying to stay together but when he asked for a divorce recently, I finally decided that it is time. Although he still wants to work things out, I was asked out on a dinner date last week and had a great time. It was just dinner and conversation but I still feel guilty. Should I feel guilty about it? There is no way I would ever tell my husband about it.

2007-01-01 11:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok we broke up because he needed a break and he want to be single but i duno and we did and then he want us to be together again so we got back together but i asked him if were back together and he said he doesnt even know so im like confussed and hes not the same like he used to be he like changed and i asked him and he said he didnt but i feel he did
and i still love him but i dunno if i should stay with him or move on
hes just not the same like he was and i duno

2007-01-01 11:02:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i left and went to jail for a year. and know that im back. girls that dident look at me twice askin me for my number and stuff now.

2007-01-01 11:01:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together about eight months and we are going to have a baby. I am already in my 3rd month of pregnancy . he is 18 and I am 18 .he tried to get his visa once but it got turned down they did not tell him why. is there other ways I can bring him with me to the U.S. to get married ,so he can stay over there with me.is there a way we can get marriage at the bridge so he can come to the U.S. ?

2007-01-01 11:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by ruby m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 11:01:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with guys that are either
-flirtatious
-doesn't love her
-carrying a huge burden
-belongs to the black society
-other's husband
-100% incredibly perfect man
-own sister's boyfriend

why?!

2007-01-01 11:00:42 · 18 answers · asked by basshunter_poka 1 in Singles & Dating

Why are all the older men taken? I have noticed that all the 40's,50's and 60 age men are taken..Plus to find one online is impossible.Why is that?

2007-01-01 10:59:48 · 35 answers · asked by sweet_thing_kay04 6 in Singles & Dating

Especially old men. No offense to old men, I respect my elders. But they are honestly way too. . old for me. I'm barely even legal. It's a definite turn-off. What do you other fellow young ladies do when this happens?

What do you do when someone you think is hot checks you out? Smile..?

2007-01-01 10:59:14 · 12 answers · asked by Traveler 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends family is very private. Basically if you are not immediate family you arent included for dinner, board games, holidays, anything. I grew up in a home where we took in people we were close to and spent alot of time together. Esp being adopted i know that family isnt always about biological relations but people who love you. From friends, to boyfriends. I always take alot of time in making sure i get along with a mans family when i know we are in a serious relationship. But they are close minded, not even his grandfather can have his gf over for a meal. He says im selfish, and cant expect to just barge into his home. But i would never do that. I do things from bakin them cookies, inviting them on trips into the city, i just want to be involved. I love this man, and if i am going to spend a lifetime with him.. how can i know that they will only accept me once he gives me his name?
He never stands up for me.. bc he thinks thats how familys work..
HELP ME!!!!

2007-01-01 10:58:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hard there a ********* that is bugging me about how good or bad a im.ok this is the deal there is girl name tristen. we're been in the same school since 1 grade. we never been in the same class. i know her but not well. now we are in the same class and when i finsh my work she will start a romor about like: she guest on all the questions and iknew about it.but i never said anything. and do you know what she do to beat she skip on all of her question and no one knows but me .i talk to the teacher and he said nothing about it . then i start talking too because it not fair. and she told on me and she was hoping i got in troble ( which i didn't ) she was even madder at me. what should i do PLEASE give me something

2007-01-01 10:58:01 · 7 answers · asked by sweety84pie 3 in Singles & Dating

Watching a good game of footbal or watching a striptease from a hot girl ? Remember its youre team an its the most important game of the season ?

2007-01-01 10:57:48 · 30 answers · asked by C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are the north caroilna laws and how do you do it fast and cheap? I have a child and no education so I'm going to need some money to help me out at first. Any advice on how to do this so it goes smoothly

2007-01-01 10:57:29 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He cheated on me 1 year and half ago and I decided to give our marriage another try. We've been in serious arguments but our love was always there for each other. I really feel like his cheating won't ever happen again. He told me that he regrets doing it and I believe him. This man works 2 jobs just so that I can stay home with our children and he tries to gives me anything I want.

Lately things have been going so well for us I'm almost scared. We are communicating like never before and our sex life is off the radar! He's sweet talking me like crazy and I love it.

I'm just scared of that saying once a cheater always a cheater. We've been together 11 yrs. married 8yrs. i admit we were going through alot of arguing during the time of the affair but he said he's not gonna make excuses for what he did and that it was stupid. Am I doing the right thing or just setting myself up for another heartache?

Give me your opinions.

2007-01-01 10:56:48 · 47 answers · asked by strawberry 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 4 yrs. and we have a 3 yr. old beautiful daughter together but problem is I have been in love with his brother the whole almost last 4 yrs. It wasn't something I seeked and even wanted.
I just looked into his brothers eyes one day and that was it for me. My heart had confirmed what it had been telling me for a while.
I haven't said or done anything out of the way. I haven't even gone as far as to talk to his brother about this. It's for fear of rejection, breaking up my family and his.
Some could sit here and call me a home wrecker but I have kept to myself. I have kept it a secret cuz I don't want others hurt.
I believe he had crushed over me for a little bit and I never persued it. I could have done more, I didn't. And now I'm not sure if he still thinks about me the way I do him because I kept brushing him off at times.
I sit up all night thinking about him and loose sleep, hurt over him cuz I love him and ache to be with him.

2007-01-01 10:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-01 10:55:18 · 8 answers · asked by Sweetie28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 10:55:00 · 8 answers · asked by lildemon15 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and everyone says that 16 is too young to know youre in love, but i truly think i love someone very close to me, its more than a crush, i need to know what you think and if i should wait and see how long this feeling lasts. plz no jokes or mean answers

2007-01-01 10:54:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I'm 16 years old and I'm starting to think my dad may infact not be my real dad. At first it was the little things, like I didn't really have any of his features, we didn't have much in common and I didn't feel connected to him. My suspicions have increasingly grown however in the last few months. One of the biggest reasons I think he may not be my father is that both my parents are white and I'm black. Should I confront them? Is it possible for 2 white people to have a black child? Or should I just pretend to think nothing of it and play dumb? We use to live in Florida when I was a baby, is it possible im just darker because my skin was so fair as a baby and the sun darkened it? I'm feeling confused about myself, someone please help me out.

2007-01-01 10:53:51 · 12 answers · asked by Always Worried 1 in Family

My husband is on the computer 3-4 hours at a time, and usually about 10-11 a day. When he gets up in the morning before he has even made a coffee, he has switched it on, and it doesnt usually get switched off till he goes to bed. The days that he works he comes home and turns it straight on. I feel really alone, I am 6 months pregnant and we live a long way from my family and friends, so I really only have him. The problem is that I dont have him, the computer does, he puts on his headphones so i cant even talk to him, and has started eating his meals at the computer too. I try to talk to him about it and he just tells me that i am whinging, and complaining about nothing, and wont even listen. Can anyone give me any ideas on how to get my husband back?

2007-01-01 10:53:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 10:53:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright so I reallly love this guy at school, but all my friends hate him because he was being a royal pain one day, and made one of my best friends cry. ???? Can I get them to see his sweet side that only I see?

2007-01-01 10:53:18 · 18 answers · asked by mystery_lover2u 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 10:52:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For the past few nights my bf's been going out 2 a bar that he told me was for over 21's only, so me being 20 couldn't get in. i wasn't too bothered at 1st as he normally takes me out with him and it was only a one off...i thought. then the other night he comes in at 4am, wakes me up and informs me that he had a brilliant night with about 5 girls. in the morning he tells me that he was dancing all night with one of them, and then goes off out again all day. i phoned him 2 ask when he's coming back and is it worth me staying up 4 him. he told me he was staying out even though i'd already told him that i was really annoyed and jealous about this girl.
today he's changed his story saying that he's only ever been in the bar once, met this girl YEARS ago and that shes a lane hostess at the bowling alle, evn tho she was a bar maid last time. when i approach him with the conflicting stories he says 'oh whatever, f**k off' and walks out. what should i do now?

2007-01-01 10:52:50 · 21 answers · asked by evilbunnyhahaha 4 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my boyfriend for over 2years and we are both in love with each other, he always tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and we plan on getting married right after college ( 3years left). He hasnt proposed yet and he knows we need time to plan the wedding. Am i getting too anxiouos? Should I just let it be and when he does then it will be out of the blue?

2007-01-01 10:52:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, well my friend is kinda a slob, no offence to her. But whenever she sleeps over, she ALWAYS makes a mess! I say like,"Can you please pick up after yourself?" And she'll say,"Your mom will clean it, she's the maid in this house anyways." And gosh, it pisses me off! She has NO respect WHAT-SO-EVER towards me OR my family. She's nice and all, but she's also a VERY picky person. She'll say,"Oh, I dont like this pizza just cuz its sqaure, make me something else to eat." Thats EXACTLY what she said right to my moms face one time. When I ask her not to do something, she does it anyways, and I always get into trouble for it. For an example, she once locked me out of my room and went on the web on my cell when I told her not to, because my cell phone is for emergencies only! I ALWAYS get the blame for this stuff, and I can also tell my parents are getting annoyed with her.

2007-01-01 10:52:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The person invited me to the party has crush on me and i already got a girl friend what should i do. I cannot say no bec i already accepted the invitation and she also gave me her address need help to find a good excuse to avoid

2007-01-01 10:51:34 · 12 answers · asked by Tanveen H 1 in Singles & Dating