Ok, well my friend is kinda a slob, no offence to her. But whenever she sleeps over, she ALWAYS makes a mess! I say like,"Can you please pick up after yourself?" And she'll say,"Your mom will clean it, she's the maid in this house anyways." And gosh, it pisses me off! She has NO respect WHAT-SO-EVER towards me OR my family. She's nice and all, but she's also a VERY picky person. She'll say,"Oh, I dont like this pizza just cuz its sqaure, make me something else to eat." Thats EXACTLY what she said right to my moms face one time. When I ask her not to do something, she does it anyways, and I always get into trouble for it. For an example, she once locked me out of my room and went on the web on my cell when I told her not to, because my cell phone is for emergencies only! I ALWAYS get the blame for this stuff, and I can also tell my parents are getting annoyed with her.
2007-01-01 10:52:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is not my idea of a friend. she is an antagonist, and an agitator. you have taught her how to treat you, simply by allowing and tolerating her behaviors. and the disrespect to your mom/family is not to be allowed at all...friends come and go, but family is forever. you need to be assertive and lay down the law with her, or dump her. you deserve better, don't you?
2007-01-01 11:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her, honey. Stand your ground. You should have told her right away that you don't appreciate her calling your mom a maid (if she thinks your mom is a maid, it also means that she looks down on you too). I would have told her to go home if she didn't like the food.
She doesn't act like a friend. Unless she changes her behavior and action, I would stay away from her.
2007-01-01 11:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you you to set some ground rules for the friendship and consequences to HER actions. Don't be bullied. Tell her what she is and is not allowed to do in your house and talk to your parents about the problem. Tell them you are trying to deal with this problem and could use their advice. If the girls simply won't back off. Then it's time to walk away. Life sucks that way. But you'll be happier with yourself in the long-run if you learn to stand up for yourself. Just remember to keep your cool.
2007-01-01 10:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Obvious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her if she can't respect you and your family she needs to quit coming around. She is not worth getting in trouble over. She sounds like a spoiled little brat! Find a new friend---there's plenty of people who need friends. If she really was your friend she wouldn't be doing that to you.
2007-01-01 11:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend like that and she can get very annoying. I just always tell her to calm down or just say "stop" very seriously to her face and she does. If she keeps annoying you or disrespecting you, you should ask her to calm down. Anyways, if she was your friend, she wouldnt treat you and your family this way. Think about it.
2007-01-01 10:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by axokphil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...maybe you need to find some new friends...it sounds like you got a good head on your shoulders...you seem to already know she isn't real friend material....good friends are respectful of eachother....not to mention to their elders...It is sad...someone really short changed this girl in establishing boundaries in her life....if you don't get yourself out of this situation, eventually you are going to be pulled into something not good....Good Luck.
2007-01-01 10:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious down to earth talk with her. Tell her that you can't take her obscene behaviors anymore, and that if she cant change, than she will have to find a different friend. i probably would have cut her off a LOOOONG time ago. no offense to her of course.
2007-01-01 10:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by mystery_lover2u 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This girl does not sound like a friend at all. Cut her out of your life. You sound like you respect your parents. You don't need a friend like her.
2007-01-01 10:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by *♥♫Hedy♫♥* 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you need to drop her if you are getting in trouble over a friends and she knows that's not a true friend in the first place
What you need to do is still talk to her but find a better friend it might hurt you to breakup with your best bud but in the end you will find it much better off
2007-01-01 10:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt even call this girl my friend if she disrespects you so much. if you have told her already not to do certain things then id dump her. if she was your friend int he first place she wouldnt disrespect you even before you told her not to. i had a friend like that and well i dumped her....a nd i havent had any problems with being disrespect since then, i means he used to go into my fridge and just go and eat anything she wanted and without asking.
2007-01-01 11:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋