ok we broke up because he needed a break and he want to be single but i duno and we did and then he want us to be together again so we got back together but i asked him if were back together and he said he doesnt even know so im like confussed and hes not the same like he used to be he like changed and i asked him and he said he didnt but i feel he did
and i still love him but i dunno if i should stay with him or move on
hes just not the same like he was and i duno
2007-01-01 11:02:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he also says that hes to busy
2007-01-01 11:27:09 · update #1
women are so confusing.
2007-01-01 11:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Abu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, women are not confusing if you just put some effort into understanding them. Its pretty simple. Just treat us well and be good to us, thats all. Anyways, just give it a little time with him. Either get back together and if he's still not the same, then break up. However, maybe you need to give him some time alone, and then get back together and see. But honestly, if you feel that its not going anywhere, then find someone else. Good luck, I hope everything works out.
2007-01-01 19:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Advice Giver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m sorry to tell you this, but hun..you have to move on. He is probably cheating on you, or has done already. He wants to keep you available to him while he goes out there and tests the waters with other girls. That`s why he keeps saying he`s not sure or he needs a break. If he likes what he sees while he`s out there, he`ll move on, and you`ll be left out in the cold.
The fact that he is even looking means that he is not satisfied in the relationship. And that`s ok, and does not mean that you are not good enough. It means that you are not meant for each other, and that is ok. Look out for your best interest, and say goodbye to your ex for good. There is someone else out there more suited to you. Good luck!
2007-01-01 19:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by everbritelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the fact that you are wondering if you should move on means that you're leaning towards moving on more. So i think you should move on, i mean if he asks you to get back together and then you ask him and he says no, then i'm afraid he might just be hiding that he doesn't want to be with you anymore, and you don't need a guy like that, there's tons of better guys out there so i say just move on
2007-01-01 19:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by jeannn. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll never work out if two partners are not on the same page..
you know what you want..which is him..
and him..he dont..
and its making you confuse and hurting your feelings...
you should just let him know how you really feel. tell him the truth and what you want from him. that you cant wait forever for him until he finds out what he wants. you have your own life and you wan to be with someone who will love you back. stop chasing him around and move on.you will find someone you will love more than this guy. and once he see's hat you are in love and youre doing better wo him ... he'll regret it..
it'll be his lose not yours..
dont waste time on someone who dont knw..
2007-01-01 19:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by lovelylen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people don't change and the reasons you broke it off will still be there when you get back together. when its done you have to be strong and cut the tie completely. The friend thing doesn't work because one person always likes the other more.
2007-01-01 19:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by smurf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell him how you feel and maybe break up with him... say something like "I love you and want to be with you but I want a relationship, none of this wishy-washy crap, call me if you want to commit..." you get the idea. Sounds like he doesn't even know what he wants, so you'd be better off making him come to you with a commitment. No bf is better than one who acts like yours does. Good luck.
2007-01-01 19:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on....when a guy says he doesn't know what he wants, it means " I'll try to see if there's someone I could get better than you out there, if there isn't then I'll just come back to you"!
2007-01-01 19:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him and if hes still acting like that then forget him you deserve better!
2007-01-01 19:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Bunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what he wants so just get rid of him.
2007-01-01 19:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋