For the past few nights my bf's been going out 2 a bar that he told me was for over 21's only, so me being 20 couldn't get in. i wasn't too bothered at 1st as he normally takes me out with him and it was only a one off...i thought. then the other night he comes in at 4am, wakes me up and informs me that he had a brilliant night with about 5 girls. in the morning he tells me that he was dancing all night with one of them, and then goes off out again all day. i phoned him 2 ask when he's coming back and is it worth me staying up 4 him. he told me he was staying out even though i'd already told him that i was really annoyed and jealous about this girl.
today he's changed his story saying that he's only ever been in the bar once, met this girl YEARS ago and that shes a lane hostess at the bowling alle, evn tho she was a bar maid last time. when i approach him with the conflicting stories he says 'oh whatever, f**k off' and walks out. what should i do now?
2007-01-01 10:52:50 · 21 answers · asked by evilbunnyhahaha 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just one slight thing, and i kno u'll all tell me i shouldn't be going to a bar (non-smoking btw). I'm pregnant, so i kno i hav all these hormones telling me every1's a **** and making me paranoid. do i split with him b4 the baby's born tho? im scared about the whole baby thing and im not sure how i could do it with out him cuz he's always been there for me
2007-01-01 11:04:06 · update #1
dont let him do this to you, your pregnant and he'll be using this as an excuse to make out your paranoid and you could come off with depression after giving birth. If he knows you can get in tis selfish of him to leave you alone. Hes in the wrong and as your pregnant he should be supporting you not coming in 4am making you jelous as it can harm baby if your getting worried sick.
I think hes stupid and you should get rid, i know its hard but you cant have someone like him trying to make you jelous lie that every time he goes out. To be honest and you wont like it but I think that hes done something or intending to.. sorry but you need to sit down with him and if he doesnt play fair when talking get rid.
good luck
2007-01-07 09:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully Hun and i hope its the truth you do want because those are the signs of a man having an affair as they are digging their hole even deeper in other words they tell a lie to cover a lie or they forgot what they have already told you before. and because you have confronted him and told him what he had said on the night it happened he has got scared as he cant remember what he had told you so he told you to f**k off and walked out to save his own skin so he don't drop his self in any deeper than he already is.
Ive been through it and believe me it will start getting more frequent and he will forget about your feelings as they always think the grass is always greener on the other side. i hope for your sake Hun i am wrong.
good luck x
2007-01-01 11:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by kjw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think?
Did I read your question and additional information correctly?
You are 20, pregnant, and worrying about a boyfriend who is running bars and women?
I would have to say that your energies are extremely misplaced.
Seek counseling and education it will vastly improve your life.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 11:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him
he is making you look stupid and making you feel unattractive because you are now pregnant he is being a lame **** and not wanting any responsibility of the child
(and im a guy)
get rid of him
to someone you are the world but to everyone else you are nothing
to him you are nothing
2007-01-01 11:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Music fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a back bone a dump his behind. And go to that bar and get you another man.He is playing you because you let him.
2007-01-01 10:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by meka 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes takin the mick!!!! mayb he thinks u wont finish it cos ur preg. either way i wud shock him, nxt time hes out change the locks, then hel b sorry 4 wot hes done, get rid babe u can do so much better xx
2007-01-01 11:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by geordiesteph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an immature loser he is, it sounds like he's trying to make you jealous, personally i'd kick him to the kerb.
2007-01-01 10:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sophie♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when he comes back you tell him to f**k off. how dare he treat you like this, hes not worth the agro
2007-01-01 10:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by lizard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what I'd do...you have to do what's right for you. How much lying are you willing to tolerate?
2007-01-01 10:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was me when he walks out i would lock the door behind him!!
2007-01-01 10:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Poppy28 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋