Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

my ex-gf and I broke it's been a month now ...although, we managed to stay friends, but I still have feelings for her ...she is now with another guy, she seems to like him and doesn't want me back anymore ...but she still talk to me sometimes, on a friendship basis ...I don't know sometimes what to do ...should I let her go for real ? or try my best and everything possible to draw her back to me again ? but, yet, I am not sure, if she still love me, or waiting a reaction from me to show her now, how much I love her and how much I want to be with her now ...maybe, she 's waiting for that ..but, on the other side, I am not sure, if she wants to do that, or just want me out, because she told me she is happier now with her new guy ...!! what are your advice on that ?

2007-01-01 09:30:39 · 16 answers · asked by Roy A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my boyfriends birthday is on the 7th of January. I got him some stuff already but we will be going out for 3 months on his birthday and i was wondering if it would be cute or weird for me to give him my class ring for his b-day also!! I mean not for keeps or anything but yea! I want to like buy a necklace for it so he can wear it. Please help me!! Or if you have any other suggestions for a gift??

2007-01-01 09:29:18 · 7 answers · asked by kelz 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend never has a boyfriend and don't wear make up or dress nice or ever flirt with any guy and she's always acting like a tomboy, and she some times can be a little weird around girls and she is obsessed with one of my other friend and it's kinda weird

2007-01-01 09:28:08 · 15 answers · asked by *blondie*!!! 1 in Friends

what do you do when your boyfreind is being an ahole for no good reason?

2007-01-01 09:27:41 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay well here goes:

Me and this girl have been together for quite some time now. I've already told her I really love her (I mean I know she's THE one) but I found out she has a boyfriend. Apparently they've been together for 2 years already and they're still together.

Would it be wrong if I wanted to make her love me instead of him?
Must I wait for them to break up (and I don't think thats gonna happen)?

I've tried poems, I've told her my deepest feelings, I've tried everything I can think of....

I really want this girl and I cant live without her!

HELP ME PLEASE! :(

2007-01-01 09:27:17 · 14 answers · asked by guy_in_love200 1 in Singles & Dating

she had moved to our town in 5th grade because her dad got a job here but when her dad was killed in a car accident she moved back to whasington state. i am in pennsylvainia and miss her so much. on her birthday i want to visit her by surprise and spend a week with her. i am now in seventh grade and she moved in the middle of 6th. i was thinking this because before she left she told me lots of people wanted to be her friend after they heard what had happened and but she said that i was her only true friend... very sappy but true..
also i would tell her mom ahead of time of course so she would know and i would make plans with her.

2007-01-01 09:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by courtneykup 3 in Friends

2007-01-01 09:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by Ghosst-guy 1 in Singles & Dating

i just asked this quastion but i didnt really expalin what the complications are... you girls always cry about guys being *** holes and that we dont do anything sweet or romantic we never show our feelings... and than when i guy does these things you never go for him you always go back to the *** hole that keeps hurting you... you just want the nice sensitive guy as your friend so you can tell him all about you *** holes and cry on his shoulder and call him in the middle of the night when he has work the next day too tell him how your *** hole was making out with some slut at a party that you went to...

2007-01-01 09:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like classmantes, family, etc...

2007-01-01 09:24:58 · 3 answers · asked by honey_sky_angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you agree that fat women have really nice faces, but they become fat because they become narcissistic about how they look (God punishes them)? I strongly agree.

2007-01-01 09:24:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok school is tomarow and i think i see luke in class . hes my best guy . and hes gowing to find out i like him i told him in a e mail. and he did not go to my party . i invited him . what can i say ? hes gowing to find out tomarow in class . what can i do ?

2007-01-01 09:24:29 · 13 answers · asked by melissa d 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question people, so don't delete it! I'm not asking anything that needs to be censored.

So, did you ever really give this any thought? Take a minute and just ponder on that question...
Men can wear their swimsuits and just walk around topless on TV or at the beach, or other suitable places, but women can't. Why, I ask? Just to make clear, I'm definently not a nudist or anything, but it's just one of those interesting concepts in society, which I think about. Just because a woman's breasts are not flat like a man's breasts, then it should be covered up? And when they censor things on TV, it's usally just the woman's nipples that are covered up! WHYYY??? It just makes no sense! It's the same color and texture as a man's nipple. What's the big deal people?

I'm not trying to change things. I'm just trying to understand it and see what other people think!

2007-01-01 09:24:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They definitely baby me and it gets tiring some times. I know that they care but I know as long as I stay there they will continue to do this and will be in my business.

2007-01-01 09:23:55 · 8 answers · asked by bluebutterfly081 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfiend have just got back on the friday and late on the saturday night she said 'she thinks its best if we should be friends'. i am now heart broken and i don't just want to be friends i really still want to be with her. can any body help please?

2007-01-01 09:23:54 · 7 answers · asked by JAMESMABOB 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by bob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and although im not that keen on men in lycra ,he is a serious hotty and ive liked him for a long time and he has told me he has wanted me for a long time too.He has suggested we run away together next week.Since his wife had the triplets she has gained alot of excess baggage around her thighs and he said she doesnt make an effort anymore.So the way i see it, if she cant be bothered i may aswell take advantage.But if we run away together will i have to wear lycra too?

2007-01-01 09:22:59 · 21 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Singles & Dating

that always has acted very jealous and learned from her mom how to be phoney and conceited and a liar and does things just to soffen you then stabs you in the back........gives you hugs good bye and then does things behind your back and lies and is only in it for what she wants....what kind of person is this would you say?

2007-01-01 09:22:52 · 16 answers · asked by shelby8687 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, why do you sometimes still wanna hang out with some of your ex-girlfriends. My ex dumped me one year ago yet last week he called me and saw a movie together. Then at the end of the night he said that he 'wants to see me every once in awhile' when I asked him why he wanted to see me. Why now, after one year? By the way when we were dating we never had sex, cuz he knew I wanna save it for marriage. Was this a pity date cuz he felt bad for dumping me?
OR does he think I'm gonna sleep with him? He knows my strict views on premarital sex so I don't think this could be it, but I could be wrong.

2007-01-01 09:22:41 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Im really not fat if anything ungerweight but my friend who is fat thinks all the guys like the way she looks!!

2007-01-01 09:21:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can't find the words. and this is friends we're talking about, not a boyfriend.

2007-01-01 09:21:52 · 16 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Friends

2007-01-01 09:21:29 · 16 answers · asked by ink_slave_1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to call this girl but i cant call her
you people dont know what she's like
really wanted to talk to her
n make a few things right
i been wrong too many times
n she's probably found a guy
she been around alot of people
even gettin high sometimes
i think she will set me up
sometimes i think she dont give a f.cuk
i know she wants to hear from me
but i dont know ....how she's gonna play it on me
i cant move to another chick n forget
known her for time she's on my mind for sex
dont want none instead i wanna be real
the way she is you dont know how she makes me feel
although i respect her in every way
cant call her phone or even say her name
now tel me what can you say ???
that will help me no matter what
people this girl is different from many

2007-01-01 09:21:17 · 3 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2 in Friends

i really like my bestfreind i meen like i think i love him but im afraid if i did tell him and he wouldnt like me that way that he woldnt talk to me anymore what should i do.

should i tell him and risk my freindship
or
keep quit about it

2007-01-01 09:20:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel uncomfortable about giving a gift, what to do?
I have bought similar gifts for all my friends (girls) I bought Bath And Body works flavored soap. SO I gave all the gifts to all the girls but one, so this one calls me today just to talk and asks me what I gave everyone for Holidays, so I told her and she was like, eww soap? I woun't be happy if someone gave me soap...

So tomorrow she's gonna bring her gift for me and I will have to bring her...well just what I have...SOAP...

Is that ok? I don't have any time to get anything else...Is that approporiate?

2007-01-01 09:20:16 · 5 answers · asked by rockthisworld 1 in Friends

How do guys assume that some girls are good in bed and others are not after seeing a girl for the first time without even talking to her?

2007-01-01 09:19:49 · 9 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been seeing this girl that I really like. I know she likes me but I think I like her way more. I was reading a book and it says that women don't like clingy guys because it shows insecurity. Therefore, guys should be cocky and only show slight interest. Ex, not calling too much, not complimenting her, not paying for everything, etc.

I've been trying this and it is suppose to make the girl crazy over you. But to me, this has little effect.

So do you girls like overly attentive guys or cocky, don't give a crap about her guys?

2007-01-01 09:19:46 · 13 answers · asked by tarzan428 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:19:22 · 18 answers · asked by Fo-Shizzle 1 in Friends

i have a bad habbit of letting myself get frustrated and then i eventually blurt it out, this happened last night, and i told my b/f to stop lecturing me and to shut up infront of his friends. i never mean it and i feel really awful. he was just trying to help, and when other people say it its fine but when he does i feel like a silly little girl who doesnt know anything so i blurt out stupid things. he says he feels he has no self respect for letting me talk to him like that. i really dont mean it . any advice

2007-01-01 09:19:14 · 14 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Singles & Dating

its new years eve. we have to stay in this year. told him we would make the most of it - good food, a few drinks, have a laugh etc etc.... planned it for a while, bought nice food etc etc...

he's taken the mickey out of me for it....

when it came to new years eve, even though we live together i didnt really see him all day - and he didnt really talk to me either- even went food shopping- something which he hasnt done in months....

after i put my daughter to bed i expected a bit of us time.

how wrong was i!!!! i have felt like things havent been right for a while and tried to tell him how i felt. he listened to what i had to say then went off to watch a dvd without me. came back down ( we didnt have food or drink) at around 11.30 then went back out of the room again to go on the pc.

i didnt really feel it was my place to say "come on, its new year in 5 mins" its not like he didnt know what day it was.

big ben chimed away, he came in after the effect. i said .......

2007-01-01 09:18:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating