my ex-gf and I broke it's been a month now ...although, we managed to stay friends, but I still have feelings for her ...she is now with another guy, she seems to like him and doesn't want me back anymore ...but she still talk to me sometimes, on a friendship basis ...I don't know sometimes what to do ...should I let her go for real ? or try my best and everything possible to draw her back to me again ? but, yet, I am not sure, if she still love me, or waiting a reaction from me to show her now, how much I love her and how much I want to be with her now ...maybe, she 's waiting for that ..but, on the other side, I am not sure, if she wants to do that, or just want me out, because she told me she is happier now with her new guy ...!! what are your advice on that ?
2007-01-01 09:30:39 · 16 answers · asked by Roy A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very very simple:
Do you want to fall in love with someone who isn't now in love with you? Do you want to fall in Love with a maybe and then be really hurt when love isn't returned?
Of course not
Dump the girl now before its too late!
2007-01-01 09:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because love is felt, does not necessarily mean that two are a right blend for each other.
If you have doubts if she is possibly just 'waiting for a reaction from you' as to if you still have interest to pursue her again...then ask her, express your feelings. Uncomfortable? Yes. But better having a clear answer than always wondering.
2007-01-01 17:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for her. It is painful. Move on with your life and for the time being drop connecting with her either in person or via the phone. If you continue connecting with her it would be more difficult for you to let go. Now that she has a boyfriend, it is timely for you to get yourself a new girlfriend. Love lost is love lost; you need to accept that.
2007-01-01 17:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL IT DID NOT TAKE HER LONG TO MOVE ON. let her go, you can find someone else to give you the same love in return, it takes two, you can't love alone!! I WOULD STAY AWAY!! from her, as far as I can. She 's hurting you! She sounds very selfish, knowing that you love her, she tells you that "she loves him" and is happier now.*itch! why trow it on your face? She obviously has NO feelings for you, and would hurt you very easily. move on guy!!
2007-01-01 17:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by mamachula01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, there is always another out there and one that will make you happier than being with her.
She knows how you feel, and yet she doesn't make a clean break. Either she wants to torment you (let's just be friends) or she is wanting you as a backup. Either way, get on with life and find another lady.
2007-01-01 17:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's moved on. Do the same. (or risk accusations of harrassment) You're dillemma is entirely internal (psychological) She wants nothing but friendship from you, if you can't give her that give her nothing. Back out of her life forever. Let her move on with her life.
Don't stay hung up on this one chick - meet someone else and be happy (like she has).
Don't be a jerk.
2007-01-01 17:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't get her back. She's told you this and made it quite clear that she has moved on. You might as well be content to "just be friends" because if you continue to bother her and nag her she'll end up disliking you. Maybe even hating you. And that would definitely suck!
As distressing as this is to you, it's as plain as day that you need to let her go "for real" and let yourself move on as well.
2007-01-01 17:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARGH
if you had strong feelings for your girlfriend/boyfriend and youtwo break up
you CAN NOT stay friends without feelings still being there
end half the suffering
stop being friends
2007-01-01 17:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I listened and am not sure how old you are, so here goes. Let her go and prepare yourself for the next best thing coming into your life.
Get involved in something constructive with your energy and take it slow...
2007-01-01 17:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by Gloria J P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really still like her or you saying that because she has moved on and not you!! Sometimes that happens .
2007-01-01 17:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by mini mel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋