2007-01-01 09:19:22 · 18 answers · asked by Fo-Shizzle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He had a load of problems these days,his gf dumped him,his parents fight,his friend is in the hospital for his fault,he's hated and jumped at school every time,what to do???
2007-01-01 09:20:53 · update #1
what really scares me is that he was talking about commitin suicide!?!i screamed at hi,but,i dont think it'll work.
2007-01-01 09:22:47 · update #2
talk to him. help him find a way to let out this anger/ pain/ sadness some other way. i have a friend who very recently was a cutter but i helped her stop. she was talking about suicide as well, but what she said helped the most was the all the ways in which i told her i cared about her and how much i would miss her if she was gone. if he gets too bad i would take him to a shrink or school counselor (not sure how old you are?) but i wouldn't recomend that right away as he will probably feel like you betrayed his trust. this is hard, but he will get through it and so will you.
2007-01-01 10:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he's doing it and try to just listen to him. if you can get him to talk, you will have a better chance at helping him.
odds are he's either doing it because he's upset about something or he just wants attention, but you'll never know unless you ask.
just be like "hey man why are you doing this? you can tell me."
i know how hard this is but be strong and continue to be supportive of him, and dont betray his trust no matter what.
just be a good listenener and deal with the rest later.
good luck
2007-01-01 17:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by mica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to butt in. He is your friend and you can go to a counselor at school, or his parents. He needs help.
2007-01-01 17:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his parents or a skool counslor NOW!! It could get worse like to suaside!!! Hurry!! Hurry!!
xoxox Roxxy
2007-01-01 17:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to him,and trying to get him to go to Counciling,and if he doesnt want to got to counciling by himself then you could go with him,basically,u have to help ur friend through his hard time b/c im sure he'll help u through urs.
2007-01-01 17:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can talk to a family member of his...
or a family member of yours to talk to his family...
or you can talk to a school guidance counselor.
or an adult you trust to help you.
maybe another friend that he will let butt in.
if you think your friend really needs help try your best to get it for him.
good luck
2007-01-01 17:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by lamaestra313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant really do any thing but be there for him...your a good friend for trying to help.
2007-01-01 17:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry i dont know what to say my friend is doing the same thing but i can tell you that i use to cut myself and i stoped cutting myself when i got into Jesus
2007-01-01 17:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what an emo.
Tell his parents or someone before the kid kills himself. He will thank you later.
2007-01-01 17:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by bizkit363 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone....he needs help...if you ignore it and something bad happens, then what kind of a friend would you really be.....good luck
2007-01-01 17:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋