My bf of 4 yrs changed our friday night plans (we were just going to stay in, but still) to go out with friends. He invited me but suggested that i must be tired from work and that maybe i should stay and rest. He could've been with me a while before going with them, but didn't. I admited i was tired, i would have only gone to be with him, so i stayed home. Then, saturday, i called him to see when we would see eachother and asked him about how was his night and he wouldn't tell me anything. Started fighting about it and he suggested we didn't see each other, i told him i would come over because it was stupid to waste a day over this stupid fight. That day went over fairly normal. Yesterday he didn't want to come visit me cause he'd just gotten up and it wasn't worth getting ready in 3 hours to come see me for about another 3 cause he didn't want to be here when my sister got here for our new years eve dinner. And today he won't see me cause i didn't tell him i wasnt working...
2007-01-01 09:36:15 · 8 answers · asked by jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, its january 1!! true, i have worked on holidays before, but i always tell him when im going to be working on days im not supposed to. Now with this he says he can't trust me, and that we won't be seeing each other because i didn't tell him and now he has his own things to do (which include just bathing, eating, downloading things from the internet), i know his normal schedule and he could very well fit me in it if he wanted to be with me, some of his things we can even do together...
2007-01-01 09:40:40 · update #1
Sounds like he is feeling quilty about something and he is making you look like YOU are the problem. I use to do this to my ex when I was cheating on him. I would act weird and yell at him for no reason knowing I was just making excuses to yell. I was angry at myself, not him.
2007-01-01 09:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha this is an easy one. This guy doesn't care much about you. Just because he suggested that your tired and maybe you should stay home and also the way you sound like you give in easily. This means he knows how to maninpulate you. Of course he wants to hang out with his friends and talk stupid stuff and laugh and junk. With you it's more girl talk and serious crap or maybe he just can't stand listening to you or you're boring.
Plus since he doesn't tell you what he did then he should be kicked to the curb.
2007-01-01 17:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Zanik99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing you should take priority over seeing his friends. Sounds like something is going on. Ask him what he did on Friday night and over the weekend.
2007-01-01 17:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favour, get into a meaningless fight with him in the car that you are driving.
Park the car, kick him out. Drive off.
Erase his phone number.
And remind yourself that you deserve better.
He'll regret it.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 17:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by aj c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might want to do some checking, sounds like something happened on his night out
2007-01-01 17:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has found someone else. Move on.
2007-01-01 17:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by mktk401 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are petty excuses and he is using them cause he has other plans.
2007-01-01 17:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMM either he is cheating or he is on drugs HUGS
2007-01-01 17:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋