Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

Me or the perfumes?

2006-12-29 14:38:12 · 18 answers · asked by Just Chillin' 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. we live an hour apart and he lives with his parents. Be4 we started going out, he used to live in a different state with his sister and her family. he told me that this one time, him and his neice got drunk and she told him that sometimes she wishes he wasnt her uncle. and she meant it in a way like she liked him and that she would be with him if they werent related. he said he told her to shut up and not to be saying stupid stuff like that. she never said it again. She is his age and that happened about 3 years ago, whats worse is that she just came into town to visit him. He says she wants to meet me and crap but im like shes a nasty girl for ever thinking something like that about her own uncle. He says they are very close and that i better deal with it and i better not be mean to her because she is his family. but i just feel kinda mad and like grossed out by her. i kno he wont do anythin with her but i dont trust her u kno?

2006-12-29 14:37:48 · 16 answers · asked by Lizeth 2 in Singles & Dating

ALL of my friiends have or have had boyfriends and I don't even know if anyone has ever liked me. I'm not ugly, I have blonde hair, blue eyes, 5'4, and am athletic, bu no one to my knowledge seems interested. What's wrong with me????

2006-12-29 14:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by germancutii21 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:37:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We have sex maybe twice a week and thats NOT enough for me. He admits to having a low sex drive and its because he's depressed sometimes. But when he doesn't seem to be depressed he still shows no intrest. He tells me he doesn't want to feel "forced" to have sex. So now I'm scared to initiate sex because i dont want him to think i'm "forcing" him. When we actually have sex, its great and we both enjoy it. He's totally aware of this problem and feels terrible. What can he do, or what can I do/say to end this problem? Anti-depressants are OUT of the question.

2006-12-29 14:36:48 · 4 answers · asked by iwantitall420 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:36:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy and I have been dating for alittle over a month. I am almost 19 and he is already 19. But on Christmas Day he told me that he felt like he loved me, and I told him that I felt the same way. But we decided that it was all to soon for that kind of relationship. The next day we had a converstation about marriage and we agree that it is way to soon to have thoughts like that, but we have never had feelings for anyone to this matter.
What I am trying to say is... Is it possible to fall in love so quickly? Also, Are we too young to be in love? And lastly, Is love scary at first?

2006-12-29 14:36:00 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs. Parrish 3 in Singles & Dating

hey! do you guys care about looks in a girl? and would you brake up with a girl if you were making a move and then found out she was a virgin, or not?

2006-12-29 14:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by blue_frog_gy 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy and he likes me back. The only problem is that my parents get in are telephone conversation and they think he his not for me. Bu even though we havent seen each other and my friend bought as together, we still want to meet each other. Oh and by the way, my mother was going to come on this date and this was going to be my first date. How can I see this guy because this boy could be the one for me?

2006-12-29 14:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by ssydny 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:34:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

My two younger sisters and I don't have a close relationship, I've created a wedge between us because they are constantly causing our mother heartache. I disagree with their lifestyle (possibly alcoholic) so I really don't care to hear from them once I move to another state- not that I keep in contact with them now. Is it wrong to alienate mself from siblings/family whose lifestyle I disagree with?

2006-12-29 14:33:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My marriage has been on a serious roller coaster all year. I didn't have the happiest pregnancy because hubby was upset, I was embarrassed when I found out he was being extra friendly to a woman out our church behind my back, and now I'm having a terrible birthday - he's not celebrating it with me. Yes, he was there the whole time when I had our baby, yes he's been spending more quality time with me lately and yes, he's been much better with our baby lately. But for some reason I can't completely shake the thought of wanting to leave him and raise my child in a better environment. Should I give it more time?

2006-12-29 14:33:27 · 15 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 14:32:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a good looking, successful male in great shape. She is also attractive but is very up tight sexually. My sex drive is the ying, and her's is the yang. Maybe this will kick start her drive.

2006-12-29 14:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by P K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he is sooooooooo annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!it is like no matter wht i do it isnt good enough 4 him.and if i do something and get in trouble my younger sister does the same thing and doesnt get in trouble!!!????????what should i doooooo????????????????????????????????????????????????

2006-12-29 14:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by wwjd 1 in Family

I was aquainted with this boy, K.C., since early in elementry school till my first year in high school. I developed *ehem* feelings for him very early on, but I thought that they had completely dissapered when we went our seperate ways. I hadn't even thought about him in years, until I ran into him by chance a week or so ago. Since then, I haven't been able to stop thinking about him. When I do, I feel just like I did, back in forth grade when I was head over heels for him.
Do I love him, or am I just completely confused?

2006-12-29 14:30:27 · 32 answers · asked by Genni 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 i was wondering is it good to date someone over the internet

2006-12-29 14:30:17 · 17 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:30:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

30? It's easy to tell by browsing myspace profiles. Just plug in different ages and compare the results.

2006-12-29 14:30:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cheated Betrayed

2006-12-29 14:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Just A Normal Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She told me that the idea of a "relationship" gets her weirded out, and that im too good for her. What does that mean? Also, is there anything I can do to help her become comfortable with a relationship or should I just move on?

2006-12-29 14:29:29 · 33 answers · asked by MiamiGuy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm planning on running away tomorrow because I really do not like my mother's boyfriend. Don't ask me why. He hasn't really done anything wrong. It just makes me so depressed. And I've talked to my mother about this but it's like she doesn't care that I am like this.
Sooo, tomorrow I'm leaving and I'm not telling where I'm going.

But I'd like to try and talk to her again but what should I say for her to actually look into this?
If not, see ya!

2006-12-29 14:28:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This girl that is in my grade(10) and rides my bus sometimes comes over and sits really close to me or on my lap on the bus. Sometimes she just walks up and jumps on me or hugs me and she has started to refer to me as "sweetie pie." However she also sometimes flirts with other guys. She also insists that we are going to grind at our next school dance. Is she just flirting or does she like me?

2006-12-29 14:28:28 · 24 answers · asked by rabdcow72 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are living together, and we do not want to have to deal with child support, however we do not want to have to get married just to avoid it, is there a way around it or do you have to be married to not have a child support order?

2006-12-29 14:28:25 · 8 answers · asked by mistyd_86 1 in Marriage & Divorce

PARENTS, watch your backs! because your kids are putting themselves in danger. kids under 15 are skipping their childhood and move straight to adult hood. its not a good thing either. bacause of todays entertainment and influence are turning your kids around. they are doing sexual acts, smoking weed and cigarettes, drug dealing, changing sexual orientations, and influencing others to do the same. i live in the bronx and im sick of seeing kids getting away from these behaviors. if you have a daughter, be extra careful. because young girls that are already influenced by others are getting sexual ideas from older boys.the only time when parents rapily notice that their daughters had screwed up is when theyre pregnant. parents , you must trust me on this because i can see what many of you cant. im 19 from the bronx and ive been arguing about these problems since i was 14. i spent years investigating why did these problems had to happen. i just want to warn parents before things get worse.

2006-12-29 14:27:10 · 8 answers · asked by Sonic 2 in Family

What if she was the one that told you what happened?

2006-12-29 14:26:47 · 12 answers · asked by tohsb78 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am....how do you say... sexy-time

2006-12-29 14:25:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted this question earlier in the Singles and Dating and I got even more confused...lol...but here's the deal...
My ex boyfriend and I still are casual aquaintances for about a year now. Last week for Christmas, he got me a gift as he says "just because we're still cool". He got me these little boxers boyshort and cami top to sleep in. He says that he thought they were a "cute gift" but I think the gift was something I might have gotten from him if he was STILL my boyfriend. BTW, I didn't think to get him anything if you're wondering. Anyways, was his gift a sign that he wants to hook up again?

2006-12-29 14:25:20 · 9 answers · asked by bunnychica1984 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im so sad nd lonely? this is y im so sad nd lonely ! I HVNT SEEN MY FAVORITE PERSON/CRUSH 4 EVR IN 11 DAYS ND IM NOT GONNA C HIM FOR ANOTHER 3 DAYS !!!!!! DO U NO HOW TORTURING DAT IS! TO NT C OR HEAR FROM UR CRUSH IN 2 HOLE WEEKS! if i dnt c or hear 4rm him soon i fink im gonna burst!
Seriously,i got it bad! i like him so frickn much dat i had DREAMS bout him evry night 4 da past 5 nights! it was like since i cdt c him i wld b able 2 c him my dreams! it was like he was visiting me! i think im seriously in luv w/ him! if only he knew nd felt da same way! 2 bad im to scared 2 do it! gues im jus 2 scard 2 hav him break my heart if he didt feel da same way but i wldt mind dat much b/c its his choice not mine. BUT STILL! i keep thinkin of callin im but dat wld b random! i wish he wld call me! but if he did i would have 2 pick up da phone or my mom wld b like 'roberto' is on da fone nd she will tease me bout him 4 da rest of my teen life! AHHHH! but i jus rlly miss him! poor me!
HELP HER

2006-12-29 14:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by Small Girl = Big Problems 1 in Friends