What if she was the one that told you what happened?
2006-12-29 14:26:47 · 12 answers · asked by tohsb78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look at your relationship and decide if you did everything you could to maintain it. Look at your self and decide if you were all that you should be.Look at her and decide was she everything she should be.If there were problems in the marriage to start with maybe both of you need to figure out whats wrong and why it lead to this.If its something both of you can work out together go for it.One thing to remember if she is emotionally attached to the guy then you may as well move along cause its almost impossible to break this bond OR to forget it.
2006-12-29 14:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did exactly that. I did it because I was upset with my husband. He was abusive to me and the kids He went on fishing trips and would leave me and my two kids without grocery money. He hit me and the kids. I was in a bad crash and had 8 strokes because of it and he didn't change. I called a guy I knew from school who had a bad crush on me. He still did because he came up from SC to NY to see me. I told my husband to let him know that I wasn't wrapped around his finger. Although handicapped, I am very pretty. I am not worthless. I didn't want an affair. I don't want to feel invisible either. I just about killed my husband when I told him. It was hard to commit adultery. I love him. He still hasn't changed much. He doesn't hit me. He won't let me go to church. He says who my friends are. I am sad.
2006-12-29 14:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt betrayed and unwanted when my husband cheated. He did not tell me-I found out after the divorce.
I now know what to look for to see if someone is cheating, and I will never put up with it. I don't care the reason, I just don't believe that cheating is something to tolerate.
If you are arrested for murder and confess, you are still guilty of murder. Cheating is murdering a marriage.
2006-12-29 14:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she do it? something is not right when a women has to go behind her mans back and do that. She just bored with her self? There has to be something in the relationship that is NOT RIGHT for anyone to go to that extreme. You both need to seek counseling for this. It's going to be a BUMPY ROAD AHEAD! if you stay with her.
2006-12-29 14:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What applies to men applies to women. Cheating is not an option. I would try counseling the first time (maybe). There would not be a second time.
2006-12-29 14:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmh go out with a hot blond? do it, come home with a smile and let the beatch know it all..
2006-12-29 14:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can react and say..."i forgive you and still be married"..or say "i understand, but we ARE GETTING A DIVORCE.."...THE CHOICE IS YOURS...yoU ARE ALLOWED A DIVORCE FOR THAT REASON...
2006-12-29 14:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she said I could join in next time it would be alright. If not it would not be.
2006-12-29 14:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will divorce from the woman.
2006-12-29 14:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by wonderful girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack her bags and throw her out because she will do it again
2006-12-29 14:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by bosco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋