I was aquainted with this boy, K.C., since early in elementry school till my first year in high school. I developed *ehem* feelings for him very early on, but I thought that they had completely dissapered when we went our seperate ways. I hadn't even thought about him in years, until I ran into him by chance a week or so ago. Since then, I haven't been able to stop thinking about him. When I do, I feel just like I did, back in forth grade when I was head over heels for him.
Do I love him, or am I just completely confused?
2006-12-29 14:30:27 · 32 answers · asked by Genni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is not that simple. You may be infatuated with him, or like him, or lust after him. All these things can become love given the chance, the right circumstances, and work.
Young people always say love too early. They always seem to think that just because they can't get someone off of their mind that they're in love. Love is more than the butterflies in your stomach or the happy feeling you get when you're around them.
I would suggest that you hang out with him more, date him, whatever... and see how it goes. Don't rush into defining anything as 'love'. When you're in love, you won't have to ask anyone if you are... you'll know.
2006-12-29 14:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by ceaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no one really knows. All you can do is see if he comes around or calls you. OR you could push things along a little and see if he would like to go out for coffee or icecream, or just hang out. Just say you want to catch up on things and see what all hes been up to. Just be a friend first and foremost and then whatever happens, happens! Good luck!
2006-12-29 14:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sonia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u is nething like me, u never stop loving
someone if u loved them.
every one of them has a special place in my heart.
people change. if u feel u want to get to know him to find out, go 4 it. u may like what u find! u have something in common to start with so u could use it as a springboard to catch up on what he has done since. he might be attached tho so it may be a no starter anyway.
some people are sort of in love with the idea of being in love. so perhaps u need to look as to whether this is the case!!
i wish u all the best, whatever.
xxxx
2006-12-29 14:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you love him, you are just reliving old feelings because you ran into him. It is easy to get carried away by your fantasies. If you really want to know how you truly feel, slow down and get to know him better then decide if he is the type of person you can grow to love.
2006-12-29 14:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by blakcroxxes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think you could possibly love him, but it certainly sounds like you are infatuated with him.
But, it also sounds like maybe you should seek him out and see if you can go out on a date or something. Maybe there is something there, but it's WAY too early to tell just yet.
2006-12-29 14:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by SelfGrill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely confused!
2006-12-29 16:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Saudi Geoff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably got the feeling going that you had a while back....maybe things in your life at the moment isn't going the way that you like...so seeing this person has stirred feelings and your getting them confused a little.....go out and enjoy life!
2006-12-29 15:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really only you can tell that for sure but from what I read it sounds like you are in love with him. That's how I feel about my husband but you need to search your heart and find out for sure.
2006-12-29 14:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be able to know if u love him or if its just obsession because of the back years .
maybe its because u wonder what if and all that
so ask him out and see what will happen .
good luck
2006-12-29 20:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his middle name is Kevin, then I'm totally besotted with the same guy. I know it's horribly wrong, but I just can't get enough KFC.
2006-12-29 14:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋