This guy and I have been dating for alittle over a month. I am almost 19 and he is already 19. But on Christmas Day he told me that he felt like he loved me, and I told him that I felt the same way. But we decided that it was all to soon for that kind of relationship. The next day we had a converstation about marriage and we agree that it is way to soon to have thoughts like that, but we have never had feelings for anyone to this matter.
What I am trying to say is... Is it possible to fall in love so quickly? Also, Are we too young to be in love? And lastly, Is love scary at first?
2006-12-29 14:36:00 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs. Parrish 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is possible, no you're not to young. Be glad you found it so young. and yes it's scary. very scary. it opens up all kinds of emotions that you didn't know that you could feel. Congrats though! have fun with it
2006-12-29 14:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love might get a little scary at times, specially at the beginning of a relationship. Sometimes you can get overwhelmed and anxious, but don't worry, this is just the adaptation phase.
It's ok to think about marriage every once in a while, specially if this person's qualities make him/her special. I would just recommend you to take your time and to get to know your partner before thinking about taking a serious step such as marriage. Enjoy your time together and, if after a while you feel emotionally and financially ready for the big step, go ahead.
Good luck!
2006-12-29 22:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by MissLatteandMocha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is too soon to have that kind of relationship, it is definitely too soon to talk about marriage. It is possible to love someone soon though. I loved my girl soon after we started dating, and we are together 4 years later. Love is what you feel. It is not after a certain defined amount of time. The only thing that tells the truth is how long is lasts when it is love! However, you only learn by experience, so go with your feelings, be in love, and enjoy it!
2006-12-29 22:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by michael p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes no and yes. Only you and the guy you're with know whats happening with you and whether or not its love. I don't think love shows ageism, also. And everything new is scary at first, but also so exciting and worth it!! My boyfriend and I were seeing each other 2 weeks when we knew we loved each other. 2 years later we live together happily (for a year and a half) and are making marriage/family plans for a few years from now.
2006-12-29 22:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by memememe!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Yes it is a little to early my bf and i have been dating for 6 months and he asked me to marry him, i wanted to wait until i finished school and that is ok with him. It might be just a little to early for you guys to think about comitment, if you guys are truly in love then just wait a little more. You will be thankful when you do, yes it is sooo possible to fall in love quickly i know i did, it just took him a while to ask cuz he was nervous. No you are not to young to be in love i am a little more younger then you so don't worry about age if you are really in love age shouldn't matter! Love is scary at first sight but it is nothing to be afraid of, so don't worry just be happy alright, and live your life as slow or as fast as you want!
2006-12-29 22:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Emo_Child! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't necessarily know age or time. It shouldn't be scary because it is natural and great. The scary thing is losing the person you love. Oh, and to know true love, you must be able to take away the "physical pleasures" and still feel the same way about the other person.
2006-12-29 22:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Naters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my opinion on it: only you can define what love is, the only way you can know if you love him is to ask yourself this question. No one else can answer it for you, love can come when you least expect it, whether you're too young or not ready can only be decided by you and no one else. I know this doesn't help much, but I believe that if your truly in love you'll know it. Also I don;t think you're too young to talk about marriage or love or even feel it because again it all depends on you and your emotions.
2006-12-29 22:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by princesspink90 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was 27 years ago when I first met my husband and yes I loved him the day I met him. He was everything I was looking for and yes 6 months down the road we got married and a year later had a baby. We are still together and I don't regret none of it.
Good Luck
2006-12-29 22:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by curious_59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't marru so early!
you are both too young! There are many things to do on this age!
You should marri around 25years old at least! You should know eachother very mush ,and have enough money!
And you just know each other for a month! That's not enough. There will many things occurd even you love each very much!
2006-12-29 23:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by eve 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There have been instances whe couples meet ay 15 years of age, get married, and stay that way forever, but not everyone is so lucky! Both of you seem to be pretty smart and realize that there's no rush, so you shold follow that feeling. Chances are, if he truly feels that way about you, he isn't going anywhere!
2006-12-29 22:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by mizz_milk06 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋