Cheated Betrayed
2006-12-29 14:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Just A Normal Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
(((hugs))) It will get better, in the mean time, be extra kind to yourself. Read Dr. Phils advice;
"Healing A Broken Heart"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/18
"Life After Divorce"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/213
2006-12-29 15:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, hate is an emotion that allows that person to still have control over you. You must find a way to deal with this hate and let it go.
I found that doing more things just for me helped. I completed my Master's degree and become involved with new activities. I also wore a rubber band around my wrist to remind me. When thoughts of hate and anger came into my head I snapped the band and made myself thing of the bright future I had instead of the ugly past. It eventually trained me to give up the hate (and his control over me).
2006-12-29 22:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one way i know to get over the hate, give it to the lord, and know that he will handle it, hate will only destroy u, as this person could care less if u hate them or not, just hurts u, and your chances of moving on and finding love again. hatred causes us to become bitter. the sweetest revenge is to move on, never speak to him again, and succeed in life, do well, find joy, and love. and don't give this person another thought, it was also done to me, took awhile, but made it through with the help of Jesus Christ.
2006-12-29 22:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this, all begins with you. You hating this person, isn't causing them to lose any sleep at night is it? The only thing that you can do is let go of it. When you hold on to hate, the only person that is really suffering is you.
2006-12-29 22:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious to know that answer my self. Being on this question bored I have realized THERE is a ton of ADULTERY going on out there. How do people even get past this!? The resentment alone would beat the crap out of me.
2006-12-29 22:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hatred will eat you alive and drag everybody around you down as well.Let it go and learn to deal with it.
2006-12-29 23:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way, I have been there, it hurts, I invited Jesus into my heart, he knows how you feel, Judas betrayed him, and he died for us and loves you......God bless ya
2006-12-29 22:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time
2006-12-29 22:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋