Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

I am really really..well..i don't know. but i'm in a really bad mood, and as far as i know there is only one minor reason for it. i really need cheering up. normally i would call someone, or i would IM someone because i actually know them, but i'm not allowed to use the phone this late, and no one in on my IM so could people here please try to cheer me up? please?

2006-12-29 14:23:47 · 18 answers · asked by Me N 1 in Friends

my frend tells me not all shy girls are quiet they can be loud. and my quiet frend is very shy but when you get her in the mood she is really crazy but she laughs at everything i say and most of it is not funny what your opinion

2006-12-29 14:23:38 · 17 answers · asked by clumsy gamer 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 12 years old and my dad died soon to be one year ago and my mom is acting like it doesnt madder to me. She does not think about the other people who his death touch like my grandma, how can i make her understand with out hurting her more. ( srry if there typos it is kinda late).

2006-12-29 14:23:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-29 14:22:47 · 3 answers · asked by usf_hottie2004 1 in Weddings

I don't like her anymore. Should I tell her or ignore her like she ignores me? I told her I had a crush on her, but I don't like her anymore because of what she did.

2006-12-29 14:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in year long relationship that, besisdes our sexual desires, is pretty compatible. My boyfriend has made it clear that if our relationship is going to work, he needs to be able to have threesomes with me and another girl. Simply stated, I'm not interested and scared. I worry that he will fall in love with the other girl, that I will feel inadequate as a lover, about the dangers of STDs, and that this will turn into a compulsive behavior that I won't be able to handle or slippery slope into other activities. I worry if I just tell him that it is unacceptable that he will do it behind my back. He has asked me to at least try it once before I give up. I really don't want to leave him, but I fear this is a breaking point. He tells me that I'm being closed minded. It's too akward to talk to my girlfriends about. I just want another opinion or to know if someone else has been in this position.

2006-12-29 14:21:04 · 21 answers · asked by antelope 1 in Singles & Dating

O.k. this might be obvious but like they say love is blind. Going on 10 years next month and we have two small boys. She drives the school bus and works in the kitchen at the school. She takes field trips for the sporting events sometimes staying in hotels on over night trips. She developed a relationship with a junior high teacher who is also the football coach. She told me they are just friends and he is like a brother. She told me he is ugly so I believed her. This fall she had to take every football field trip I was curious but very blind as to what might be going on. She called me about midnight last week in the bus and asked if she could stay at the sports directors house who is a women. The school is about 30 minutes away and she said she was very tired. Being asleep when I answered the phone I said no problem. Now I found out that she stayed at the coaches house who happens to be single and her age. She swears she stayed in his guest bedroom. what do you think? is she lying?

2006-12-29 14:21:02 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last April. my brother asked us for a loan, I borrowed against a credit card to give him $6500. He paid us back $1000. Since then, he sends me nasty text messages telling me what a ***** I am for wanting the money back. I have a husband, two kids ( under 11) , three mortgages( we own two businesses, two car payments, etc.) How can I make him realize that he has hurt us financially! I have such guilt over putting my family in this situation. I don't want to hate him but I do! Please, What can I do to get this money back! I will do anything, i will Prosecute him! how do i do this? Has anyone else had this happen to them? He will not respond on the phone, he only sends me hateful text messages.

2006-12-29 14:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by Katie Rose 2 in Family

On-line dating or out in real world? Men in clubs, most are drunk and too young! Aren't they all out for the same thing anyway.?

2006-12-29 14:20:09 · 49 answers · asked by Traci 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband just called me after 10 years of divorce to ask me to go out to dinner? He then thanked me for taking such great care of the kids, and said in all of the years we've been apart he has never had such a wonderful woman in his life.

Was this a come-on? Or just a make amends gesture? I would think he would have invited the kids if he wanted amends, am I right? My kids are 14, and twins that are 20. I would be interested in making amends and let bygones be bygones, but after 10 years, I am not interested in a date with him.

2006-12-29 14:19:18 · 15 answers · asked by sheristeele 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf of 2 months and i kissed last nite. the 1st kiss 4 both of us.
we usually talk every day, and he is going out of town 4 the next few days, so 2nite was basically our last nite 2 talk 4 those few days.
well, he said he'd call @ 8 or 9. It's 9:20, and he hasn't called. there is bad weather and my home phone isn't working, but my cell is. i emailed him about an hour ago, and told him 2 call my cell.
no call. we talked a little on email this afternoon.
i am really jumpy after such a big event 4 us happened [kiss].
What should I do???

2006-12-29 14:18:40 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I can't help it. She's just so damn hot. Is this wrong? or should I just ask her out?

2006-12-29 14:16:02 · 65 answers · asked by IMA SUCK@SS 2 in Singles & Dating

I had to move 700 miles I haven't secured employment yet, I'm about to lose my vehicle, I need medicine all I really need is just a little help to keep me going for a couple more weeks. I know after the first of the year I'll get a job soon. Don't I matter?

2006-12-29 14:15:41 · 11 answers · asked by teajue 1 in Friends

I have been dateing a girl for almost a year now, she left her husband because we got found out, but we were together for about 4 months previous to this, about a month ago she tells me we are in a casual relationship from the beginning, but we saw each other almost everyday, she got talking to some guy from scotland who now lives in newzeland about 3 months ago on the internet, he calls her about once a week and now he tells her he loves her as I have heard him say on the phone to her, I love her too but from the heart, she knows this but now we have fallin out.

2006-12-29 14:15:30 · 7 answers · asked by Gerry x 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm curious as what you will pick. a note, this has nothing to do with me, it's just a question out of curiousity, btw.

2006-12-29 14:15:20 · 6 answers · asked by Nancy M 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend and I still are casual aquaintances for about a year now. Last week for Christmas, he got me a gift as he says "just because we're still cool". He got me these little boxers boyshort and cami top to sleep in. He says that he thought they were a "cute gift" but I think the gift was something I might have gotten from him if he was STILL my boyfriend. BTW, I didn't think to get him anything if you're wondering. Anyways, was his gift a sign that he wants to hook up again?

2006-12-29 14:13:13 · 8 answers · asked by bunnychica1984 2 in Singles & Dating

Ugh, ok I had this bf, and we dated seriously 4 6th months, and then he just broke it off 4 no reason. well now he emails me everyday and when i talk about other guys he gets mad, should we go back out? we do love each other alot, he just lets his stupid pride get to him. what should i do? please help me, im hot, and single and this is not right, lol.

2006-12-29 14:13:10 · 10 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Singles & Dating

Mine would be Jimi Hendrix's unreleased "Tribute to Stevie Rayvon."

2006-12-29 14:12:10 · 21 answers · asked by hottie_spaniard 2 in Weddings

I wanted to know how both all girls and guys reacted to someone they liked and wanted to be more than friends. I wanted to see if there's a norm for girls and a norm for guys when it comes to them liking someone. Most specific answer gets best answer. Name EVERYTHING.

2006-12-29 14:11:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married me and my BF of 3 years... I never married before .. so I was just wondering .. in order toget married legally I have to get the marriage license. but as a Muslim ... I should take it to the mosque.. or what .. I mean what u have to do with it .. it expired after 60 days... if u were Muslim or Christian.. does it matter.....

2006-12-29 14:10:40 · 3 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how did you let your crush know u liked him, how was your first date and whatnot?

2006-12-29 14:10:14 · 9 answers · asked by becca 3 in Singles & Dating

he docked from being off-shore (only been gone a week), and hes totally wasted. He rang me and told me he kissed someone. Didnt wait around to find out more, and hung up. He had beaten some bloke up and was in a bad mood. He called me loads of really nasty names which i wont repeat. I had a really good night at work and came back to find this out!! Im unsure of what to do now! I thought he was different from all the blokes i seem to have got with. Obviously not!! Any ideas to the solution to my problem?

2006-12-29 14:09:45 · 38 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

what are some things to do to keep my occupied when there's nothing to do and no license?

2006-12-29 14:09:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Need a little help. One year anniversary coming up and I did not forget. Ideas on what's catchy/hot? Who makes the best what?

2006-12-29 14:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please describe your ideal woman.

2006-12-29 14:08:25 · 11 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Singles & Dating

Today is my birthday. My husband was pouting a few days ago because my brother sent a camcorder I wanted. My husband said I should have waited because he was going to get me one. So for my birthday all I wanted to do was go out for a movie or dinner, something! Instead he mentioned playing pool then said it was just a thought. We didn't go anywhere and we're not speaking to each other. I didn't act this way on his birthday, I pampered the hell out of him and included his children (my stepdaughters). Is he insensitive or should I just let it go as my birthday not being an important day for him?

2006-12-29 14:07:52 · 15 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 14:07:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a guy who you thought was a friend, not your b/f or realative, buys you a bracelet from tiffany's for christmas?? Does it mean he wants to be more than friends even though you have a b/f?? Why do all my guy friends not accept the fact that we are friends?? Why can guys never be ok with "just friends"?? I think I am falling for him(not b/c of the bracelet, just overall). Was this his goal??

2006-12-29 14:05:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 and My best friend who has been my best friend since the 5th grade went out of town for christmas and his girlfriend tried to kiss me what should I do I mean I do find her attractive but if I tell her no should I tell him she came on to me

2006-12-29 14:05:32 · 30 answers · asked by niquie_is_cool 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:05:23 · 4 answers · asked by Kyra G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships