All girls and guys answer this. What do you do when you like someone, how do you react to them?

Question

I wanted to know how both all girls and guys reacted to someone they liked and wanted to be more than friends. I wanted to see if there's a norm for girls and a norm for guys when it comes to them liking someone. Most specific answer gets best answer. Name EVERYTHING.

Answer 1

interesting question! if hanging with someone that i develop an interest beyond friendship i would be shy but test the waters by becoming flirty and doing things to spend more time together, maybe invite over more, sit closer to, make more eye contact, etc,, if it isn't returned i may hv to take a shot or two of courage and ask directly - lol! but only if they're single!! i wldn't want to create an uncomfortable vibe in our friendship (=

if its someone i don't know that catches my eye, i usually lay low and watch for a bit to see if they are good natured, comfy with their group and not a player!! if they seem cool i'll get a friend to move over towards the area they're in and try to mingle in closer, make eye contact, and see if they're responsive. if all works out they'll come over and introduce themselves (=

i don't normally approach men or like for my friends say anything.. in my 20's that was cute. but now that i'm older i'm looking for confidence, assertiveness and other qualities but for some crazy reason still hate approaching guys!

Answer 2

relies upon on the a while. enable's say i'm 15 and so is she, which would be honest sufficient. enable's say i'm sixteen, and so is she, perhaps nevertheless ok. At 18, this may well be a sprint unusual to impose a time decrease on something like this. I mean i don't want my love existence dictated on the calendar of my lady pal. At 21, i think of i could probably evaluate that the lady is extremely whacko and that i basically sell off her. i'm not into prudish ladies telling me while i'm allowed to have it. If we are the two in love and the relationship is going nicely, sexual touch is a organic progression of the relationship. So it may look unreasonable for the 8 month rule, imposed arbitrarily via her. Above 24, i'm extremely beginning off to think of I picked a weirdo. and that i could easily sell off her. except she is a few variety of amazing eye-catching demi-goddess, and the intercourse became certain to be earth-shattering and out of this worldwide, and became easily going to ensue. I doubt i could be waiting. So for me it somewhat is a question of context and the age of the two events.

Answer 3

When I like someone one of the first things I do is when they call I say (this is the first time they call) "Hey I was just thinking about you" (Don't tell them what you were thinking about it's just a way of letting them know they were on your mind. Take all their calls. Listen to them when they talk and look at them in there eyes. Position yourself to where your legs are facing them adn not the opposite direction or spread eagle. Let them know that your shoulder's are soar and they will most definitely offer to give you a little rub. Don't allow them to grope you that's not the intent! lol! Make them feel like your interested in everything they say. It doesn't hurt to act a little ignorant and say things like "what does that mean" "Or how do you do that" even if you know the answer. Believe me people like to feel like they are teaching you something. Good luck. Onl a little kiss othe first time. '-)

Answer 4

I give a lot of eye contact and let other friends no that I am attracted to this indiviual so the word can get to him. I would also send him a note and tell him someone is feeling him and to look for a girl wearing a certain outfit or something of that nature. Or just approach the indiviual and let them know.

Good luck

Answer 5

I become a giggly airhead. I'm embarassed to admit that but it's true. I'm usually just your average outgoing but cool chica but if I like a guy then things change. I get a bad case of the giggles. I think most girls do the same thing.

Answer 6

what i do to get a bot. welli have alot of steps it works practically every time well here they are. 1 just be yourself 2 dress walk around him alot and smile but dont look freaky 3 get to know him go up to him and start talking ( not when hes talking to someone else when hes alone) 4 get to know him and become friends 5 hang out places togeter and get his phone number but dont call him everyday you dont want to sound desperate 6 4 weeks or a monthtell him how you feel if he doesnt have a gf tell him you realy like him and you would like to talk another step (bf gf) but you have to know alot about him first . well thats how i get boys . my names monica

Answer 7

4 the girl u like be flirty and funny, don't act to much that you like so it's obvious, hang around her more often then others, find out how she feels about you, then ask her to so somth'n small like bowling or watevr, soon enough she'll wan't to be around you alot more. But then act like you like her so she know your not just a friend.

Answer 8

I am not super aggressive so I like giving out subtle hints. It has always worked for me. Eye contact, smiles just between the two of us, I may flaunt/show off my body a little more.....guys usually get it. They have a radar for such things! :-)

Answer 9

For the most part I try to hide it, but sometimes I catch myself paying more attention to him than anybody else. And it depends on the circumstances. For example, whether I think he likes me back, how much I like him.

Answer 10

When I see my boyfriend, my heart starts to flutter. I find it hard to breath, and I can't think of many things beyond how much I love him. I sometimes spend all night thinking of him, and in the morning, I feel so very rested. I can't imagine my life without him.