Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

2006-12-29 13:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am from a small town in a rural state, 250 miles from where we live. All of my family live back home, except my mom, dad, sister, brother-in-law and niece who live 30 minutes from me. After visits back home my hubby asked if I thought of moving back, I told him I always promised my gramma that I would take care of her. Long story short where we live in is going down hill-FAST! The city has stretched out and things are getting worse. My hubby has now offered to sell our house & move back home- where we could by a new one outright. Which would be great not to have to worry about mortgage /crime /education /sprawl /etc.

My strongest ties are to my mom & niece which are the only cons keeping me back and I am not sure how/if I would cope being away from them. My main concern is my hubby & 3 young children. My hubby talked to b-in-law and says they would be not long behind but I am afraid- what if they don't move,I see them everyday now and love it- besides my mom is my best friend-Help

2006-12-29 13:46:25 · 10 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Family

according to what you know if this man is hot or not!

2006-12-29 13:46:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My honey and I got engaged last Christmas and by March he had cheated on me. We worked though it and got back together in September. We are happy and all, but he mentioned maybe upgrading the diamond in the ring he gave me last Christmas and re-engaging ourselves, haha that sounded funny. Anyhoo, is it wrong for me to never want to see that ring again? To me it's tainted. It means nothing to me after what happened. Advice? Feedback?

2006-12-29 13:44:08 · 27 answers · asked by ~Pookie~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we live in a fast moving world...new things appear every 5 minutes...everything is disposable....do you always crave the next thing...be it a person...place...or material possessions....or do you look around you at the things you may have and take for granted....???...

2006-12-29 13:43:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wanted to know can men be scared to have sex with women because they think she will get pregnant by them.

2006-12-29 13:42:57 · 1 answers · asked by Buckshot 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok say me a 14 year old was to date a 19 year old what are the age like resrictions and stuff.Feel free for open disscusion.

2006-12-29 13:42:55 · 45 answers · asked by kytten_jewels 1 in Singles & Dating

12 guys all at the same time????cuz i hav. and i wuz just wondering if anyone else was like this.

2006-12-29 13:42:52 · 12 answers · asked by Lieu 2 in Singles & Dating

it was first serious relationship for both of us. eg me in 20's him 30's known bachelor. we were good friends, kind of got together accidently i guess. things progressed fairly quickly, eg living together etc but i guess looking back now i wasnt ready for all that then. we eventually parted my doing, but he kept trying to get me back and at the time i didn't want to know. got involved briefly with someone else but when i did realised that i wanted to be with my ex. i couldnt be anywhere else. (we had been engaged)
we unofficially started seeing each other again, me going round his, but unknown to me, he was secretly dating a friends ex, and she even had a key to his place. this involvement with her happened not long after me! a friend first warned me about it but i wouldnt believe it. he had never lied to me before, and when confronted he said it wasnt true. eventu he drifted out of my life. just found out he married her 6yrs ag. still love him after 13yrs, and it affected my lif

2006-12-29 13:41:50 · 8 answers · asked by emzc 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 13:41:19 · 16 answers · asked by fluxpattern® 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Mum's friend found her husband in a really weird way. She was working in a chocolate factory (Hungary- Central Europe) as a high school student and hid her phone number in one of the boxes. The box was exported to the UK, and some weeks later she got a call... The guy visited her, they fell in love and now they've been happily married for 23 years. Unbelievable!!! Have you heard any strange or touching stories of how 2 ppl found each other?

2006-12-29 13:41:07 · 10 answers · asked by WonderGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 13:40:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-29 13:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany c 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are arguing about what New Year's eve should be. He feels that New Years Eve is a time for couples (leave the kids with a baby sitter) while I feel that it represents a time for the entire family (including kids) to be together. Please tell me what you think and help me resolve this...

2006-12-29 13:40:23 · 13 answers · asked by viki 2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother is 13 im 9 so he picks on me wat could i do? HELP!!!!! he is so annoying give me addvice to ignore him or somthing

2006-12-29 13:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by Twin 101 1 in Family

I was told begging is unattractive and ignoring the ex bf would make them come back faster. Has it ever happened to you? How long does it take for the guy to come back? Especially if she is your 1st love and the reason for breaking up is b/c the guy doesnt know what he wants.

2006-12-29 13:39:26 · 7 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i am going to this retarded new year's party where i know i am going to be bore.. i am as sure as hell... beyond my ipod.. a book, a magazine what should i bring to make the experience less torturing... also this may sound mean.. it is mean but how do i ruin the frinedship of two peopel... please give me detailed answers and don't say i am mean... i have a legit reason.. i think that one of the two people i am talking about is draggin the person i care about into drugs.* heroin, exstasis,, meth... just to mantiona few). i can't go upfront and tell her to stop hanign out so what do i do?

person that gives me good answers to both get the points

2006-12-29 13:39:19 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What would u do if u had a guy who got mad at himself for making you mad.. and wanted u to tell him what he said that upset u just so he could never say it again... and someone who has liked u for over a year.. even when other girls have come his way... a guy who has the greatest eyes ever?... a guy who u are able to talk to on the phone for 3 hours straight..... I'm just curious what you would do.. Thanks!

2006-12-29 13:38:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live with this man now for two years. We have had issues from the beginning with economy. I couldn't pay my way as I wasn't working. He has always been very oppressive from the beginning. I see him talking on his own, fretting as he himself describes it. It seems to me he likes the feeling of getting stressed. He moans most of the time and admits himself having problems with winter time when there is no light. I have been paying my way for some time now but he keeps on provoking me for no reason. A friend of mine said I am living with a sadist. One day he can be gentle and talkative, the day after he can start shouting in the house, saying I am a 'cow'. When I ask him why, he says I have to respect him and be compliant. He never helps me with the least. I am giving it some time until I can get things arranged to move out but today, when my friend mentioned he was a sadist, I really noticed it was the case. How do you handle a sadist?

Please only serious answers.

2006-12-29 13:36:58 · 25 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a few of us, we're 18, we have a car, money, just no ideas.

2006-12-29 13:36:49 · 2 answers · asked by bigbadbutters05 2 in Friends

We are really good friends and he's totally cute and he hasn't admitted he likes but I can feel that he does. Should ask him out?

2006-12-29 13:36:28 · 23 answers · asked by I love him!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

What does love really mean to you? How would you describe it?

2006-12-29 13:35:51 · 10 answers · asked by Brittany H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband then boyfriend was so romantic. I will never forget when he bought me a blue rose for the first time he said it reminded him of my eyes. I use to get roses all the time when I had bad days or just because. heck even even brought me breakfast in bed. We use to hold hands when we went places and now his romantic side is slipping away. Do any of you ever wish you could have those moments back? Why does it have to end when you get married I am young and he makes us feel like we are an old couple. I wish we could have those moments back.

2006-12-29 13:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK i have a crush on my best friend's friends and they are like almost related and iv been teasing my best friend about it since and its been 3 years and im still crushing on him and he moved so the next time ill see him is in like 3-4 years so should i tell my best friend or not? should i tell my crush over some type of communication? im scared that if i tell my friend she will tease me 4EVER!! PLEASE HURRY WITH A ANSWER!!!

2006-12-29 13:35:37 · 12 answers · asked by Shelly 2 in Friends

2006-12-29 13:35:21 · 23 answers · asked by april11520 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well ..i like my teachers son! and hes only 1 year younger.. hes in 6 grade and anyways well the other day i saw them in hot topic and wel i said hi to my teacher andi told her i got a cell for christmas and she said her son got one too. he showed ot to me and i showed mine to htem then i droped it and the battery fell out and it gets worse!! i say well i gotta find my moma! and she laughs and says okay!! and let me tell you he is soo hot! so every morning at school i see him in the 7th grade hall in her class room soo how do i talkto him?? and would it be okay if i asked for his cell number when i say hi?? or would it be wierd??

2006-12-29 13:35:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 13:35:01 · 14 answers · asked by adina 1 in Weddings

I want to run the other way everytime he comes near me. I don't know why I'm feeling this way . I just started back work after being jobless for about 6 months. I come home and he's sitting on the couch watching T.V. or on the computer. I guess I have some resentment about him not helping around the house. I have a 2 hour commute everyday and he only has a 30 min. and he doesn't care if the house is dirty or the clothes are all piled up. It's like he doesn't even see the stuff that needs to be done. Help, what should I do? I don't want to be all whiny, but I want him to get off his butt and help. We also have a 6 year old son.

2006-12-29 13:34:51 · 14 answers · asked by Bilinda G 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going thru a divorce and people here have been full of great advice. I want to thank you for being there for me. Today I found out from my ex that he's having an affair with a woman and that they are planning a future together. Suddenly, all my love for him has been cured. Now I am so glad to be free of that loser. Thank you all for being there for me!

2006-12-29 13:34:43 · 6 answers · asked by crazyloonynice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 cousins that are coming to visit for 5 days and they trash my room and they wont clean it up. They dont listen to anyone.There mom wont make them pick it up. If i put brakeblul stuff up they always find it and brake it. What can i do to stop this madness

2006-12-29 13:34:07 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs. Chris Brown 1 in Family