it was first serious relationship for both of us. eg me in 20's him 30's known bachelor. we were good friends, kind of got together accidently i guess. things progressed fairly quickly, eg living together etc but i guess looking back now i wasnt ready for all that then. we eventually parted my doing, but he kept trying to get me back and at the time i didn't want to know. got involved briefly with someone else but when i did realised that i wanted to be with my ex. i couldnt be anywhere else. (we had been engaged)
we unofficially started seeing each other again, me going round his, but unknown to me, he was secretly dating a friends ex, and she even had a key to his place. this involvement with her happened not long after me! a friend first warned me about it but i wouldnt believe it. he had never lied to me before, and when confronted he said it wasnt true. eventu he drifted out of my life. just found out he married her 6yrs ag. still love him after 13yrs, and it affected my lif
2006-12-29 13:41:50 · 8 answers · asked by emzc 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think you every stop loving your first love. I have been married now almost 6 years and I still think about my first love. I wonder what he is doing in his life, if he has kids or is married. I don't think I ever will stop thinking about him. He will always hold a place in my heart; why wouldn't he, he was my first love.
2006-12-29 13:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by TheRaven_poe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i still have feelings for someone I loved 33 years ago. These feelings are REAL love, not the kiddy stuff people fight over these days. What ever it is you feel, will always be there. I dated this person again from Feb to September this year to see if there was anything salvageable and realized that who he was when we were teenagers is still who he is today, and he is better at it.
That's the other downfall, they rarely ever grow up.
2006-12-29 21:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by thetutor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you move on, you can stop loving your 'first love.' You have to move on and go forward in your life. You may (and probably will) always have fond feelings for him, but you won't always be in love with him. You have to let go. If you still love him this long after the relationship, and he is married, then you need to find some way to let him go.
2006-12-29 21:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by lmanne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are stronger than we can imagine and gifted to take brutal punishment emotionally and physically no matter wghat circumstances arise be it female to male relationship problems.
2006-12-29 21:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,I don't think you'll ever stop loving your first love.I met him in high school and sleep with him but didn't go out with him.I wish I could of done it different.Why?I loved him and He gust wanted sex with me.If I would of said no he would of still been my friend.Still thinking about him day by day.
2006-12-29 21:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I still have feelings for every person i loved. Even from long long time ago.
2006-12-29 21:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, true love fades out but never dies.
2006-12-29 21:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by D S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No
2006-12-29 21:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by csburridge 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋