my brother is 13 im 9 so he picks on me wat could i do? HELP!!!!! he is so annoying give me addvice to ignore him or somthing
2006-12-29 13:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by Twin 101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just ignore him that would effect him more then you letting him know he is bothering you.
2006-12-29 13:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Shyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents should be helping with that and create a more positive relationship, if not force it, but short of that if you want to give it a try...get serious with him for a few minutes. Look him in the eye, ask him to sit down and you sit down next to him and tell him you are really hurt by his picking on you. The way the genders work you may be close to being as "mature" as he is, so the age difference is less critical than you might think. If that sort of thing is out of the question then your parents should get involved. If he were my kid, I'd teach him a lesson in respect for others he wouldn't forget for a few hours, because he doesn't have a right to do that to you.
2006-12-29 21:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think brothers are born to do that when they are that age. They must be practicing for when they get a girlfriend! Ignore him and begin to pray out loud--not for him to go away, but pray for all kinds of deliverance from his evil ways and that God will restore his mind so that he becomes a prtector of his sister and not an irritant. Say it all outloud so he can hear you and do not stop praying! He may get the message that a higher power is also watching and taking notes. Good luck.
2006-12-29 21:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak out, no matter how afraid you are of your brother. I know it feels like you will "kill you" or even beat you up, but if you trust your parents, you must tell them how frightened you are and how much your brother threatens you. I promise that it will bring light to the situation, which is just what your brother wants. You see, your brother is acting out, because something is "under his skin." Discussing this situation with your folks will not only cease the problem from re-occurring, but it will also turn your parents' attention toward your brother, which is what he needs.
2006-12-29 22:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by NYCLibrarian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spend private time in your room or outside.
2006-12-29 21:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a responsible adult and/or try to get him involved in his own activities.
2006-12-29 21:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch him in the nuts every time!
2006-12-29 21:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell... or treaten him! Do you know any private info on him? You can go black mail him! But don't make it really bad, or he can tell on you.
2006-12-29 22:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to you parents if your having problems with him. you might try walking away and going to your alone place.
2006-12-29 21:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom
2006-12-29 21:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Angry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋