On-line dating or out in real world? Men in clubs, most are drunk and too young! Aren't they all out for the same thing anyway.?
2006-12-29 14:20:09 · 49 answers · asked by Traci 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget your dreams...that is the worst place.
Clubs and pubs are not far behind.
The man of your dreams is something you already know so why are you seeing him as something you get thrown at you?...why not see him as someone you go out and find????
Use whatever method you like...but drop this man of your dreams nonsense...look for the man who sees you as the woman of HIS dreams...then you might be on the right track!!
2006-12-29 14:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will let you into a little secret. Don't tell anyone!
When blokes go out, there is a lot of bravado, and a little bit of keeping up with the lads. But most of them are secretly hoping to find somebody like you. Believe me, this is true.
To find the man of your dreams, go to where you think he might go. Pubs and clubs are OK. and now and again some singles clubs have good nights. If you can't find any, just ask a taxi driver about the area you are interested in (too much travelling is bad for a relationship) and he will give you the names of some places to go to. About 20 years ago - same problem - except I'm a bloke of course, I did that and went to some singles bars. Enjoyed myself a lot. Found my future Mrs in a village pub! Bet you you are fixed up within the next six weeks! HOH LOL
2006-12-29 14:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bike trail or a bookstore (or wherever you go to pursued whatever interests you). Yes, in the end we are all out for the same thing but if you have common interests you will be able to pass the time enjoyably between sheet sessions. I would not recommend online dating though. It is far to easy to be deceived and you may become attatched to a man without truly knowing who he is or what he is about. For example, you could well be a message board troll who is having withdrawal symptoms and not actually a woman looking for a male perspective on this issue. But hey, either way I get 2 pts...sorry, just a cynical example.
Anyhow, good luck and don't settle for less than what you want this time.
2006-12-29 14:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 16:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no rules and sure ways of meeting the man of your dreams! also ask yourself who would he be what will he look like?
Ill bet the guy you fall for won't meet any of your ideals but you will love him for who he is! don't have a picture of your ideal man!
"you will never find it!"
the best way is to not look for him,whats meant to be will be!
no matter where you meet whether it be through a Friend or in a pub or club,or even passing in the street! it will be right.
I'd say on line dating can be dodgy as anyone can write a good profile. speaking to some random person that you have made eye contact with is much more honest and also the eyes never lie!
to that end carry on your normal life and bam! it will happen.
i knew my wife for 2 months in total before i got married in 2001 at the age of 21! were still married and get on like a house on fire i met her through a Friend while passing her by in a hotel and we just worked straight away!
so you see time,place,setting,age,ideals have nothing to do with it!
2006-12-29 15:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by stevo7281@btinternet.com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to find good guys, but soemone recently pointed out to me that book stores really make a great place to meet new people. Think about it, the place is separated by interests, doesnt have the pressure to be quite as in a liberary, and if thing are going good, most are attached to a coffee shop. I am a total book worm, so I spazed when I heard this logic. I generaly am against online dating, only because it is so full of people who lie about themselves. You know the drill, likes sunsets, long romanic walks on the beach, et cetera. It is easier to get a feel for what someone is REALLY like meeting them face to face.
Good luck and I hope you find him, who ever he is.
Sheri
2006-12-29 14:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best place is not clubs or anywhere you'd expect to find someone. Do things you normally wouldn't do or don't have time to do. You'll meet the man of your dreams when you least expect it. Go for a walk in the park. If you don't like art...don't go to an art museum. If you like to read...go to a book store. Just try something simple. Good luck!
2006-12-29 14:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man of your dreams? Try sleeping. That's where most dreaming happens.
It would depend on what the "man of your dreams" is. If he's a construction worker, then try a construction site. If he's a doctor, then try the hospital.
If all you're finding in clubs is drunks with high libidos, then stop going to clubs.
2006-12-29 14:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join a club or service organization. Bars are not the way to go at all. Actually the supermarket isn't a bad place. Look for guys with lots of microwave dinners:)
2006-12-29 14:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by stella4459 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanna know the best thing to do?
Figure out your life goals, and work on accomplishing them, NOW. It's great meeting the man of your dreams along the way..
It's great meeting him that way because then your life is not focused on him alone, and you also have a life (and goals) aside from him. If you meet him 'along the way' like this, you could also end up being with someone who shares those goals!
Wishing you all the success you desire and deserve! :)
2006-12-29 14:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋