Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

2006-12-29 14:52:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the short version is _ i have been with my bf for three years now< we live together and the relationship is ok.
he was eighteen when i met him and was always going out with his mates & never inviting me. he just used to ring me upafterwards to go pick him up! and like an idiot i did>
basically he used me and i put up with it< because i just wanted him so much>
i only receently found out what id already suspected for ages>>that he used to get off with other girls when he went out and even rang me up for a lift afterwards> he was such an arsehole<
he has grown up now< hes twentyone and like a different person and says he wishes he could change the past and all that ****>
the thing is< i dont think i can ever get over it all< i dont want us to split up i cant imagine being without him< but i have these thoughts basically every single day of my life> why did i put up with being treated like that from a kid who just wanted what ever he could get? he is five years younger than me>

2006-12-29 14:51:59 · 26 answers · asked by blahblahblahx2003 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys, let's say you are 33-38, is it important for you to have a g/f who is a virgin or it doesn't matter?

2006-12-29 14:51:25 · 13 answers · asked by Ami 1 in Singles & Dating

Things that you will take to grave? I sure do

2006-12-29 14:51:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jem 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be turning 18 soon and my girlfriend will still be 16. I really want to stay with her, but I've heard all these things about this as being illegal.

2006-12-29 14:50:53 · 47 answers · asked by zizou 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean seriuosly...like what makes a guy say..ive got to go over ther and talk to her..irresisstible..i want guys opinion....preferibblyy???

2006-12-29 14:49:24 · 17 answers · asked by NotCliche 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this one friend that always comes to my house to use my Internet and eat my food. Also, the friend uses my cell phone while she already has her own and is really disrespectful of my space, meaning: she'll go into my room and take whatever she wants. I even caught her stealing once. And I'm kinda stuck with her, meaning: I can't NOT be friends with her. And I think it would be too rude to What can I do?

2006-12-29 14:48:54 · 17 answers · asked by GirlieGirl 2 in Friends

would u **** a guy or a girl?

both! hehehe

2006-12-29 14:47:43 · 7 answers · asked by starfleettaskforce 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:47:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I always feared that if a guy say anything nice to me he was doing out of pity or lost a dare. I just want to know how I can tell if what he is saying is true to heart.

2006-12-29 14:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by christina21197 1 in Singles & Dating

I was humiliated, scorned and laughed at when we visited my in-laws this christmas. I have good intention in going there because of the season. My wife's cousin also almost punch me, asking me to fight with him. In the end, my wife again sided with them. Should I file legal separation with her cause I can't stand the thought that her relatives are more important to her. Pls help. Should I, or should I not?

2006-12-29 14:47:06 · 8 answers · asked by Drew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He so wants me back becuase last time he talk to me he said he wanted another chance and I replied with.... in short words no. Now he happend to see me on one of my friend's comments on myspace. He messaged me we talked after he asked if I still lived in my house by w/e and said no I had moved. Now he wants to see me and we planed something and I know after we "go out to eat" he- I am 75% sure is he is going to try to make the moves on me.
He's 17 and I am 15 so I don't want answers for older people going throu this type of situation thank you.

2006-12-29 14:47:02 · 2 answers · asked by Meechelle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His crime was no worse than Bush massacring Iraqis and ruining their lives.

2006-12-29 14:45:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has been living with us and now he wants to move back with his mother, I feel his decision is based on that he can basically do what he wants with his mother, should we continue to let him pick and choose who he wants to be with or should we be firm about the decision he made 12 months age?

2006-12-29 14:44:33 · 7 answers · asked by jucielucy 1 in Family

Before my husband and I were married I had a threesome. We were dating at the time but not married yet and I went to a party without him and had a little too much to drink and I ended up having sex with two guys at once. I never told my husband about it but I felt guilty about not telling him. Since we weren't married I don't feel guilty about what I did, yeah it was fun alright, but I probably should have told him. Now, years later, I finally decided to get it of my chest and I told him the whole story. At first he said that he was glad that I thought I could be honest with him but then he seemed like he couldn't get over it. He says it's because he never did anything like that himself. That he didn't do it isn't my fault and maybe he should have but we're married now and it's too late to worry about it. I told him that maybe he can get it right in his next life and to just deal in this one. I thought honesty was the best policy.

2006-12-29 14:44:06 · 63 answers · asked by Barb S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was raped once by my step-grandfather when I was 11 and I got pregnant.And lost it.When I was 15 I was gang raped at my school by 5 guys.I then got pregnant again with 5 kids.Again I miscarried.I just got the nerve to tell my mother but she does not belive me.I am now 17 but want to talk to someone.Where can I go to talk to someone who will belive me.Please.

2006-12-29 14:43:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently started dating a guy around 4 months ago who has a son from a previouse marriage that is 6 years old now. My boyfriend and I are very much in love and I don't mind that he has a son and his son is a very good kid but I feel nervouse when I think about what my role should be since our relationship is serious. I know his son likes me and has no ill will towards me but I still don't know how much I should try to get close to him or what I would be to his son. I know I won't be his mom since he has one. Is there anyone who has been in a similar situation with any suggestions or experiences?

2006-12-29 14:43:26 · 4 answers · asked by N K 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

it is really nice to have a friend.it is feels good because somone is really nice to have one.

2006-12-29 14:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well here the thing my boyfriend and i talk every night but for the past few days i have not talked to him and i see him every day but now i hardly see him and his friends keep tell him lies about me and now his sister is telling me he is cheating on me but she does not like me in the first place...what should i do??...should i be worried??

2006-12-29 14:43:13 · 16 answers · asked by babygurl 4life 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy I like, my sort of bf. Gave me a Christmas present. He doesn't have alot of money and he didn't give anyother of his friends presents. What does that mean, is it guilt or something else?

2006-12-29 14:43:07 · 13 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 going on 22, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, hell I never even spoke to a girl. I dont have a car and I still live with my mom. I do have a job that pays decent and on that car thing I will be getting one within 6 months. Im about 6 feet tall, 200 lbs, a bit overweight but since Im tall it doesnt show too much except in the stomach but Im working on that everyday. Im not concedent but as far as my looks go, Im think Im ok

To all those posters, Im not gay

How can I talk to girls? Everytime I see pretty girl I look away or I look then when I see them look I turn my head fast and pretend they didnt see me. Or if Im close to a girl my heart beats real fast as if Im going to have a heart attack. What should I do?

2006-12-29 14:42:21 · 1 answers · asked by jm 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 14:41:14 · 18 answers · asked by shanda s 1 in Singles & Dating

my b/f and i have been fighting constantly and i luv him 2 death but I CAN'T stand us fighting! sumtimes i feel he doesn't really luv me it's just that he has me!! i amm confused so plz HELP!!!

2006-12-29 14:41:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've lived together/dated for 2 years. Our lease expires next month and last night I told him it's best we don't live together. Today he asked why, and I told him I don't want to live like a married woman until he gives me a commitment (not even marriage, just engagement would be fine). He doesn't understand that guys do this to "get the milk for free" and says he's not one of them-he obviously is. He said "we can't afford to get married, or a mortgage on a house..I can't afford a ring unless you want it to be $60".. I said "who said anything about getting married right away OR a mortgage on a house??"

That was the summary of the convo and he stormed out of our bedroom and won't talk to me. That was at 3-4pm, now it's almost 11 and he has been distant all day.

2006-12-29 14:41:05 · 11 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 14:40:54 · 16 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 14:39:31 · 21 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are having a lot of problems lately. His father has been diagnosed with cancer and is about to leave us and it seems like all his anger and frustration is thrown towards me. The problem is that's pretty much all the attention I get from him. He's not like he used to be and I don't know how to react. I just feel really left out and pushed to the side while others get all the affection from him. I know he loves me but I can't help feeling unimportant. What do I do? Should I be worried?

2006-12-29 14:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by heatherandbrian1826 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was friends with a guy who I really liked but he didn't want to get serious. He told me a week ago he had a gf and I was a little crushed. I don't know how long they've been together and I gave him a xmas gift and letter, saying I was going to break. I feel like if we ever got together seriously I would resent him, because I feel like I'm second choice.He told me he wants to break up with her for me, because he feels I would be a better girl friend. I'm not totally into that idea because he should break up with her because he doesn't want to be with her not because of whose better. We haven't had sex but I have strong feelings for him. I called him last night and he never returned the call. I'm in a slump and don't know what to do. I need some real advice because the New Year is coming in and I need to get my life together, whats your opinion?

2006-12-29 14:38:43 · 4 answers · asked by TILAC 2 in Singles & Dating