Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

Seems with all the dirt and grime, they'd be a total turn off....(?)

2006-12-29 15:41:34 · 6 answers · asked by soloechoman 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me last April and I hadn't heard from him until a few weeks ago when he emailed me. His email was basically saying that he had some things to tell me, asking if I hated him, etc. I replied with a not-so-friendly response, and he replied saying saying how he's sorry, I was a great girlfriend, admits he treated me badly and I deserve better, he misses me, it hurts how he gave me up, etc.

Basically what I am wondering is why is he doing this. Do you think he's apologizing just to make himself feel less guilty for how he treated me, does he want a booty call, or does he want to get back together?

Basically we got along pretty well but he got himself into some problems (financially with moving, etc) and his life was messed up so I guess no grounds for a healthy relationship then. He says he has a new job is less stressed now, etc.

Thx for any replies :)

2006-12-29 15:41:32 · 4 answers · asked by Principessa 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 15:41:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a good relationship for 4 years.but i recently found out that my boyfriend talks to women online..i.e. dirty talk..n even uses his webcam for this purpose.he doesnt know any of these women personally.And i suspect there's one woman he specially chats with(he even sent her christmas greetings n tells her he misses her!). everything else about our relationship is great(or so i thought,until now!).he loves n cares bout me.and i love him very very much.I always try to keep him happy in every way.I have no idea why this has happened.And it has shattered my trust in him.What should i do? Should i confront him with this issue...or just let things be the way they are,hoping he will get over it in some time...??Even if i do confront him,he might jus change his yahoo id or somethin..n i'll never find out what he's upto.! I love him and i want this to work. how should i talk to him in a manner that really makes a difference?PLEASE help.

2006-12-29 15:40:31 · 22 answers · asked by tina 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 15:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by Ryan T 1 in Singles & Dating

She has been hanging out with other people lately and they're people I don't like should I keep her as a best friend or friend? If best friend please give some advice. I don't like the friends she hangs out with because they're sleezy and impolite.

2006-12-29 15:39:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We belong to different caste.He loves me a lot,and i too love him a lot.My parents wont accept for my marriage.how do i convince them?Please help me.....serious answers please......

2006-12-29 15:38:53 · 8 answers · asked by kirthi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 15:38:11 · 13 answers · asked by giggles31490 1 in Singles & Dating

2nd?

2006-12-29 15:38:04 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 15:37:35 · 46 answers · asked by mamabear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 15:37:26 · 17 answers · asked by SweetieBear20 2 in Singles & Dating

If you've tried it, what first attracted you to her and did you find societal acceptance?

2006-12-29 15:37:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Nothing perverted.
Useful, cute, and thoughtful things.

2006-12-29 15:36:57 · 3 answers · asked by krimson.suicide 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you men like women for there looks or for there personality

2006-12-29 15:36:32 · 34 answers · asked by Naja 2 in Weddings

Does anyone ever feel getting distant away everyday from parents, brother, sister and everyone you knew before your marriage? I feel I am being unfair for giving too much attention to my wife and kids and less care to my parents. Whatever I do, it doesn't seem enough...

2006-12-29 15:35:49 · 12 answers · asked by Freddy 2 in Family

ok. pretend ur 13. u like me and i like u, but ur too shy 2 ask me out... what wud u want me to do? im shy too.... helllppp???

2006-12-29 15:34:27 · 9 answers · asked by xojessox 5 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend seem like he than changed. he acts like our relationship dosnt matter no more. he puts his friends before me now. he uses fowl language all the time now.he also just be mean to me and he hurts my feelings.when i tell him he say u does that to yourself. we have been together for almost 1 year.....any advice on how to get him to understand what he be doing to??? any advice at all will be accepted

2006-12-29 15:33:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This love story of ours is special to me. It is e kind tat I can think of tellin it proudly agn n agn.. We've been apart long distance 4 close to 3yrs (we've met up on sme vacation trips durin this time). I only tink of him when I am down, or bored, or very sick.. Yet tears juz come when I think of him sometimes for no reason, I don't know why I cry. Whenever we part I dun feel sad, I dun even tink of missin him wen he cries hugging me, but my eyes will keep fillin w tears for hrs on the plane n back home.

I'm a girl w a really strong libido... to e pt I really dun mind havin sex day to night. In fact I really enjoy sex and I tot I'll always be able to enjoy it w anyone.
But w him, e feelin is I feel safe w him, he takes care of me, he is like a safe place to go home to... I wif a long history of all bfs who treat me like trash, he's like a shining star. But only thing wrong is, I can find myself wishing n able to sleep w anyone else, I just hv no lust to sleep w him. Wat's gng on?

2006-12-29 15:32:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 15:32:52 · 29 answers · asked by giggles31490 1 in Singles & Dating

I married & 3 mths later he became partily disable, he was away for 18 mths & came home. In that time I supported his chrildren (even grown ones that were able to work) 5 years later I still support him & his youngest son from another marriage. My problem is not the financial aspect, its that this family has strange values, but my morals won't let me leave a disabled man. He treats my grown daughter badly (at least until I put my foot down) but he still ignores her. My child is religous and hard working & never gave me any trouble growing up. My husbands grown children are consdescending & I haven't meet anyone that I know who likes them. They tell me I am strange, I have never been told this by anyone, my attorney, business partner, pastor & husbands doctor tell me that I am not the one with the problem. I went to couseling and was told I wasn't the one with the problem. If I divorce they'll try to take 1/2 & ailmony. I'm torn between financial ruin & morals.

2006-12-29 15:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by Meeee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I just wrote this, any opinions, ideas to improve it. Please, I hope you like it, oh It isn't finished yet.

I think I love you
But how should I know
All I know is that without you
My life doesn't go on
My guess comes from thinking
That life is just too short
but being around you
Just seems to make time float
By the way you hug me
makes me hear your heart
and last time I heard
We were both parts of one

It might sound Crazy
but I love you for who you are not
which is being fake, shallow, bad,
and not all the things you are
You had me at hello!
I had you at what's up!
Even though you knew
I wasn't ready for all that
..........

Not finished
Sorry...

2006-12-29 15:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this really cute guy at my new workplace. And the problem is - he is attached! In the beginning, I was really shy and although he tried talking to me, I didn't respond to his attempts in making conversations. Then, I sort of gave in and we became friends and just as I was getting closer to him, I discovered he's attached. At this point, we went out for movies and long talks in the park (that sort of thing). I was quite sad but I knew he love his girlfriend very much. But his girlfriend doesn't love him as much as he do. I knew he treated our movie trips as just plain outings as friends but I couldn't help feeling attracted to him. I do not contact him but usually it is him asking me whether I want to catch a movie with him. I know I should just leave him alone, remain as friends and see how the situation goes. But I don't know whether I should wait. There's a guy going after me. Honestly, he's a nice guy but there is not much attraction between me and him like the first guy.HELP!

2006-12-29 15:31:53 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t65c3zU3dZM

I thought I could do this stunt at my sister's karate class as part of a demonstration. Now I am not too sure. Could someone tell what to say or do?

Thanks

2006-12-29 15:31:21 · 3 answers · asked by vare karate 1 in Family

I've been in a good relationship for 4 years.but i recently found out that my boyfriend talks to women online..i.e. dirty talk..n even uses his webcam for this purpose.he doesnt know any of these women personally.And i suspect there's one woman he specially chats with(he even sent her christmas greetings n tells her he misses her!). everything else about our relationship is great(or so i thought,until now!).he loves n cares bout me.and i love him very very much.I always try to keep him happy in every way.I have no idea why this has happened.And it has shattered my trust in him.What should i do? Should i confront him with this issue...or just let things be the way they are,hoping he will get over it in some time...??Even if i do confront him,he might jus change his yahoo id or somethin..n i'll never find out what he's upto.! I love him and i want this to work. how should i talk to him in a manner that really makes a difference?PLEASE help.

2006-12-29 15:31:16 · 5 answers · asked by tina 2 in Singles & Dating

help, my mom remarryed after my real dad left for someone half his age. and the guy she married, she met on the internet and finally she met him in real life and he asked her to merry him on the second day, before she really got to know him. now, almost 4 years later they fight almost 5 times a day, (really) and i know my mom is nit-picky but my step dad is the real proberblem, he just keeps putting her down. he ever told her she should end it, (not fun) they've been to councling. and they've been to the pastor (the pastor made them get councling) anyway, my step dad goes in there to the pastor and acts like he's the one thats being hurt. and me and my brother and i see it all the time, and know what really goes on, not the lies my step dad tells. i really want to talk the our pastor, but i know he would tell my mom, and i really don't want that. and she says "if you would just hug me when we fight, i will shut up" i think get real, but what do i do? do i talk? or let it go?

2006-12-29 15:31:05 · 7 answers · asked by jenmatchmaker2 1 in Family

The wife wants a divorce, but the husband does not desire a divorce. What resolution can be found?

2006-12-29 15:29:27 · 15 answers · asked by Travelin' Preacher 2 in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t65c3zU3dZM

What do you think?

2006-12-29 15:29:08 · 14 answers · asked by vare karate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it ok to like someone even though your Married,but you'll probably will never see this person,especially if she is clear across another country, but you don't know if she feels the same?

2006-12-29 15:28:51 · 16 answers · asked by Smiley 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 15:27:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyf online nd im 13 But he thinks im 15, And hes starting to want my number and email. Ive said i dont have msn nd i share my phone with my mum but hes getting suspicious i think.. I really love him more than anyone! help?!?!

2006-12-29 15:27:47 · 11 answers · asked by Skittlez 1 in Singles & Dating