Is good to get engaged at a young age?

Answer 1

No. Be mature. Seriously. Marriage is for people who are ready to settle down. I can't believe people get married so early. One time, one of my friends got married when he was only 15. One week later he got hit by a bus. You can't believe how enfuriated I was. The bus driver was also 17 years old and married.

Answer 2

It depends . . . I'd say that 23 is the youngest a woman should get married, and 26 is the youngest a man should get married. Any younget than that is generally not a good idea. I knew some girls who got engaged in high school, and I thought they were losers who just liked to brag about being in a relationship with older guys. I met one of them the other day -- she and her bf broke it off. I'm not surprised either. At least they broke it off before they got married though! Good night!

Answer 3

how young are we talking? if we are talking younger than 18 then i say no because u dont actually know what u want until u are 18... and sumtimes its not even a good idea until ur 20... this is unless of course if u get engaged young and then wait a few years b4 u get married to give u time to make sure what ur doing is what u actually want! Good luck =)

Answer 4

It depends on your age. If your between 21 and 25 or older and you really love this person,and you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with them, then go ahead. Now It your younger than 21, I think its a horrible mistake. I remember my sister was 18, didnt even finish high school, and ran to Vegas to get married to this dumb hoodlum that our whole family absolutely hated. She is still 18, out of high school, pregnant, and has recently confessed they she made a mistake. I have personally seen that if your under 21 and you think you have found your lifetime partner , its usually just lust, not love. Think about your future before you do something dumb. And don't forget your family. They should always come first!

Answer 5

Depends on what your idea of young is...personally I think everyone should date and have as much fun as they can until the age of 90...then if you want to get engaged....by all means do so...lol

Answer 6

no.

anyone younger than 26 is not truely ready for marriage, all it brings nor are they mature enough to handle all that it entails.

many think they can do it....but look at the stats. almost all divorces are from those 26 and under where the stay together rate is extremely high for those that wait till at least 26.

even though by law people treat 18 yr olds as adults, the body has stopped growing, etc....but the personality and mind is still growing and will continue to change and change again until about 26.

Answer 7

it's the maturity of the people that counts. my rents got married at 18 and 20, they've been together for 15 years. there can be in-mature 40 years old that want to get married and won't last. age is a number. it's whats on the inside you have to consider.
good luck, whatever u do

Answer 8

I say no because if you get engaged at like 18, 19, or even 20, you're moving far too fast. there is a world out there, a beautiful one and i think you need to see it before settling down. hence why it is called settling down lol but thats just my opinion. go out to Vegas and have a ball, do things you can't do when you're married or when you were 18-20. =)

Answer 9

It depends on what you want in your life. I was engage at 18 and then again at 22. Now I'm married and I know my husband is the right person ( I really Thank God for him) so if that person know what he/she wants it would be good.

Answer 10

It depends on how long you have been together. my parents dated since they were 13 and got married when they were 18. They're still together. been over 30 years! Just make sure you're willing to spend forever w/ that person. The beginning of marriage is HARD! Lemme tell ya! I just got married 4 months ago. It's a huge adjustment. It will take a lot to make it work. Don't just move on impulse. Just make sure you know what you're getting into.