This love story of ours is special to me. It is e kind tat I can think of tellin it proudly agn n agn.. We've been apart long distance 4 close to 3yrs (we've met up on sme vacation trips durin this time). I only tink of him when I am down, or bored, or very sick.. Yet tears juz come when I think of him sometimes for no reason, I don't know why I cry. Whenever we part I dun feel sad, I dun even tink of missin him wen he cries hugging me, but my eyes will keep fillin w tears for hrs on the plane n back home.
I'm a girl w a really strong libido... to e pt I really dun mind havin sex day to night. In fact I really enjoy sex and I tot I'll always be able to enjoy it w anyone.
But w him, e feelin is I feel safe w him, he takes care of me, he is like a safe place to go home to... I wif a long history of all bfs who treat me like trash, he's like a shining star. But only thing wrong is, I can find myself wishing n able to sleep w anyone else, I just hv no lust to sleep w him. Wat's gng on?
2006-12-29 15:32:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds strange
maybe its love instead of lust, thats possible sometimes
maybe he is fat and ugly or something, maybe you just require people to be mean to you cuz you dad was that way or something
great sex AND caring CAN go together
I could do it 7 times a day too
2006-12-29 15:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused, but I would like to tell you from experience, that love is not the same as lust. It sounds to me like this guy has touched a special place in your heart. By that, I meant that he is more important to you then some random guy walking down the street, but only you can know for sure if it is love. Although love and lust are different, if you have no desire to sleep with him, that is a curious thing. I fell in love with my man over a long distance relationship, and all I can think about is lustful thoughts when we are apart. I hope everyhting works out for you.
2006-12-29 15:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after wading through that chunk of writing, it seems to me that you are not at a point in your life to be tied down to any one person. You might want to be, or think you should be, simply because society tells you so, but there is nothing wrong with just having a good time for awhile until you know you are ready to settle down. It is not fair to this guy to keep him on the end of your line while you are off with other people.
2006-12-29 15:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are confused or you do not love him as much you think you do. You ONLY think of him when you are "down, or bored, or very sick", it sounded more like a "spare tyre" which you used only when needed. You may love him more like a brother or even father. You are feeling more secure with him because he takes good care of you unlike your previous bfs who do not. May God bless you!
2006-12-29 15:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual now, confident. final week, it replaced into astonishing. issues substitute so immediately.... love in simple terms complicates all thoughts. once you get harm, the wear and tear is a hundred situations worse. whilst it incredibly is good, its a hundred situations greater effectual than the rest. Love is an exaggeration
2016-10-06 04:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check your spelling a bit...I had a hard time trying to understand you. and I don't really get what the question is. if you're question is "why don't I feel like sleeping with him?" or "why do I cry when he's not there?", maybe it's because you really do love him. and you feel a sense of security with him.
2006-12-29 15:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you do care a great deal for him and he is so specialy you subconsciously do not want to sleep with him. Maybe sleeping with him would make you feel guilty because you are untrue to him. Maybeeeeeeee I am too tired to make any sense anymore...
2006-12-29 15:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BooHOO, WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH !
Why do you put so much emphasis on the sex part? Sex was designed to show someone how much you love them. Not for self gratification.
2006-12-29 15:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a gypsy ,i will crush you
2006-12-29 15:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this ebonics or some other crap?
2006-12-29 15:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋