We belong to different caste.He loves me a lot,and i too love him a lot.My parents wont accept for my marriage.how do i convince them?Please help me.....serious answers please......
2006-12-29 15:38:53 · 8 answers · asked by kirthi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should take your parents feelings into account, but in the end its your decision. If the only reason your parents disapprove is because hes not as wealthy as your family, Id say your parents arent very nice to begin with. You can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink. They may never like him, or accept your marriage. You cant live your life happily if you are constantly worried about other peoples feelings. They may never change their feelings, and if they dont, and you dont marry this guy, will you regret it? Go be happy, and forget what everyone says about your love.
2006-12-29 15:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by RocketGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do understand your parents a marriage is not only about love. However love does plays a strong role in marriage, is going to take some time for your parents to see how much you two love each other but like someone already wrote " actions speak louder than words" show them how pure your love is. Wish you the best of Luck.
2006-12-30 00:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Alde228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your parents over for dinner. Don't try to convince them of anything. Just allow them to see you and your husband for themselves. Action speaks louder then words. The more you try to convince them the further away they will go. Just live the life that's before you. They will soon accept you two. Because they love you they won't be able to stay away. This will take time but it's worth the wait, so don't push the issue. Remember to relax and live. Family is important any one who knows this will keep their family together no matter what. They will come around if you and your husband stay around.
2006-12-29 23:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hadnt asked for a serious answer i wouldnt have given the below:
Please listen to your parents they are your best well wishers and with their concent and blessings you would be extremely happy in the lateral part of your life (The Married Life).
Think from the Head and not from the Heart!
2006-12-29 23:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think everyone here is assuming that he is a lower caste than you are. Considering I am from the US, I really have no idea how to approach your family. All I can do is wish you good luck.
Don't fall for that crap with "you are marrying him not his family" either... that is all junk. You will be MUCH happier with his family and yours getting along.
2006-12-29 23:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parent's didn't approve of my marriage all you can show them you are happy and pray for the best entually they came around and LOVE HIM
2006-12-29 23:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get married? There is NO addvantage for a man to get married..I guess for you as a women would have a lot to gain from marriage
2006-12-29 23:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont. arent you marring him not . the parents . my opion?
2006-12-29 23:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋