2006-12-29 15:37:35 · 46 answers · asked by mamabear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love your daughter...you will go get some counseling. Think of what it would do to your daughter if you even began to act upon this feeling...let alone how she would feel if she found out about this feeling.
You need to distance yourselves from them and seriously seek help. No mother in her right mind would go for one of her own sons in law.
2006-12-29 15:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by P H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must like younger men. Why do you like them? Why are you in love with him? Think about the reason you love him. Remember that he is your daughter's husband and for you he is off limits. You need to get away and out more and find someone else to get interested in at this point. Don't say anything to your daughter about how you feel about her husband and don't say anything to her husband either. Keep these feelings to yourself. Only If you think you can talk reasonably to your daughter should you say anything about it.
2006-12-29 15:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mother of 4 children. 3 of them are daughters. You should be ashamed of yourself. You are a mother. That is your daughter. Why would you ask for help. There is nothing you should do. If you act on that your daughter that you had will never forgive you and if you would not care about her feelings then I feel sorry for your daughter to have a disgusting mother like you. She does not deserve to go through anything that would hurt her in anyway. Mothers are suppose to protect their children from people like you. go get help and pray your daughter and your son-in-law never find out you sick person
2006-12-29 15:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by just me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be in love with your daughter husband. You think you are.
Think with your head and think about the consequences that this lust will bring to you and your family. You will lose your husband, your daughter and your son in law.
They will hate you and you will be for the rest of your life with a such a remorse.
Avoid in all ways to be alone with your son in law and if he is playing with you, you should stand for what you should be a LADY, A MOTHER AND A DECENT WIFE.
2006-12-29 16:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by getting_a_new_life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible situation. You probably are just infatuated with his youth. What ever you do, dont do anything to jepordize your daughters marriage. Your daughter should come first rather than your feelings of lust for this guy. So hes cute and charming....who cares?! Hes taken! You would cause way too much hurt if you acted upon your feelings. You could risk losing your daughter. Its not worht it. Find someone to talk to ( clergy, priest, doctor) about your feelings, and find a hobby to preoccupy your mind.
2006-12-29 15:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by RocketGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well being an adult , I assume you are not by your words but because you have a daghter old enough to have a husband, you know the right thing to do. No man is worth hurting your daughter and tarnishing your reputation. If you do fall for him then it only shows that you are a very selfish person and no one matters but you.
2006-12-29 15:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. Wife, love your OWN husband. Keep yourself busy. Go out with your friends. Don't entertain bad thoughts about your son-in-law. Last but not least, face the reality, he belongs to your daughter. Do not covet your neighbor's husband.
2006-12-29 15:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a mother would allow herself to fall in love with her son-in-law? You need to stay away from him or you will lose your daughter and make a fool of yourself with a younger man. If you want to find a man go to a singles club.
2006-12-29 15:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WUT r u kiddin me?! i've never got a question like this but imma try my best to please u and answer it well ma'm her goes cuz lady imma bout 2 giv u a reality check and put ya tale on BLAST!
HONEY, grow up let ya daughter start a family and live her own life...i mean who wants a momma who is in love with her own son in law thats like nothing i have ever heard! DANG if the man wanted you I think he would have married you not your daughter! Well i think u needa git over it and find some man ya own AGE...if tha straight up truth dont help ya well then u need some therapy
2006-12-29 15:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, what is wrong with you?!? There are millions of men out here, choose one! Do you have these feelings, because your daughter is doing him wrong? Has he made a past at you and no longer wants to be with her? What is it that got you feeling this way in the first place?
2006-12-29 15:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mesha 3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋