should i be worried?????i need help fast?

Question

well here the thing my boyfriend and i talk every night but for the past few days i have not talked to him and i see him every day but now i hardly see him and his friends keep tell him lies about me and now his sister is telling me he is cheating on me but she does not like me in the first place...what should i do??...should i be worried??

Answer 1

Just ask him what is going on. Tell him how you feel. Make sure that you LISTEN to what he says. Don't accuse him of anything, though. You don't have any proof of him cheating except for his sister.

Answer 2

If you do not know what is going on then yes you need to be worried, if his friends are telling lies about you that are not true and he doesn't believe you and what you are saying then he is not a very god boyfriend! Even if you sister doesn't like you she probably still loves you and cares about you so she might be telling the truth, but you really just need to talk to him about it and not on the phone or the computer but face to face ok! Hope that helps.

Answer 3

he is probably cheating if he has stopped calling u. just be glad u are free of all this, u do nothing at all about it, why embarrass yourself by getting mad, and maybe saying things that would later make u look bad, keep your dignity, as u can't stop someone from cheating on u, but u can control how u respond to it, so respond to it by saying and doing nothing. if he wants someone else u just have to accept it and move on.

Answer 4

Since you guys are not talking, he's probably believing the fake rumors!... But if you guys are in love, the next time u talk to him, tell him the truth about everything and tell him that people ARE lying to him and you shouldnt have anything to worry about.

Answer 5

if your boyfriend is not calling you anymore, he's obviously trying to end the relationship but just doesn't have the guts to say so. he's just hoping you'll be the one that ends it.

but don't be worried. there are lots of guys out there and i'm sure you'll find a better one soon

Answer 6

I think you and your bf need to talk... communication is key. You must be really young because this is just ridiculous. There's just too much drama. Dump him and date someone who talks to you... but in the meantime try to be less insecure.. yikes. Work on building trust.

Answer 7

Whoa, whoa, whoa, calm down. Rumours are bad, don't listen to other people, listen to him and hopefully he knows the same thing. You have some major problems with coping with b/fs, I don't think you should be worried, but if you are...call him...duh. He's your b/f, ask him whats up and talk to him about it, not us.

Answer 8

You should move on and find someone that will treat and respect you for who you are. You will appreciate this person in the long run. Dont waste anymore of your time on your boyfriend ... or whoever he is to you.

Move on!!

Answer 9

First of all...dont listen to his sister...she would sya anything mean cuz she dont like u. But da only answer dat i really have..iz dat...u need tu talk to him about dis stuff...da first time u talk to him tell him dat his friends r lyin and dat if he really liked or loved u he would trust u...tell him about his sister and ask him about wat she said...dont say it mean...jus say it like u care and like a serious bf and gf conversation! Hope dat helps!

Answer 10

You should talk to him. Stop getting your information from third parties, get it straight from the horse's mouth.