I have this one friend that always comes to my house to use my Internet and eat my food. Also, the friend uses my cell phone while she already has her own and is really disrespectful of my space, meaning: she'll go into my room and take whatever she wants. I even caught her stealing once. And I'm kinda stuck with her, meaning: I can't NOT be friends with her. And I think it would be too rude to What can I do?
2006-12-29 14:48:54 · 17 answers · asked by GirlieGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And I kinda rely on her for transportation, so if I offend her, it's going to be kinda awkward.
2006-12-29 15:26:28 · update #1
And I know this sounds even worse in description--but she always acts obnoxious and sarcastic and makes fun of my clothes (and she acts like she doesn't think I know she steals my stuff).
2006-12-29 15:44:24 · update #2
Stop letting her come over and free load. You need to stand up to her and tell her that you're not having her don that anymore. If she wants to be your friend you either needs to stop coming over and using you. You can be friends without her coming over. You guys can go out and talk on the phone. Just know where to draw the line.
2006-12-29 14:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ought to defend your own dignity and pride, she may be misunderstanding what friends really are, and you need to confront her and sort out the problema, tell her that she'll have to respect your privacy and you're saying this because you respect her as a friend and you're trying to be as sincere as you can be. tell her that if you are not a true friend, then you wouldnt have to bother her and wil just shut her outta your life..
tell her that sometimes you kinda get annoyed with her using your things without asking permission, and that you're not mad at her, just trying to help her of her mistakes....
but if she is someone to the extent of stealing your things, then you should be very careful of her, avoid her as much as possible, thats what i will do...
2006-12-29 23:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Nausea Gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you, my dear. Get out of this friendship, she's not respecting you at all. Its either you confront it and tell her what u feel and conclude the whole friendship there and then OR you can just ignore her calls... she may get the message after a while. Why can't you NOT be friends with her? Whats your concern? Get to the bottom of it and don't let her abuse yr friendship anymore
2006-12-29 22:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking with her about how she's treating you. Let her know that you value her friendship and you sort of feel like she's taking advantage of you. She'll probably be offended at first but she'll come to realize that she's treating you badly. You can't go on letting her walk all over you.
2006-12-29 22:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you are kinda stuck with her and than you say you can not be friend with her she is using you wake up and smell the coffee or put her in her place and let her know that you are not going to be used anymore.Tell her to go her way and you go yours.
2006-12-29 22:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll your friend is my friend, and I actually think that she is obnoxious too. I think that you shouldrun when sh's near, unless she takes you to a place or something than you an just avoid her on the car, e.g. you can sit in a different row than her such as the front row, middle row or back row, if you were in a van, or something
2006-12-30 00:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUDE?! How could YOU be rude?! She's the one being rude! Say, "I know you've been using things without my permission and taking things, but if you keep doing this, I can't be your friend anymore." Or you could just not invite her to your house anymore and aviod her as much as possible! That's my opinion!
2006-12-29 22:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, explain to me WHY you HAVE to be friends with her? because it sounds like she's not a friend to you. I would never disrespect one of my friends like that! you need to let her go, If you can't, you HAVE to talk to her about respecting you.
GET A BACK BONE GIRL!
2006-12-29 22:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u feel like she is invading ur personal space
either that or chill out and do the same to her
she prolly jus wants to be close to u
2006-12-29 22:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you don't like her using your stuff and don't let her come over...
tell her if she uses your cell you're going to use hers!
i would stay as far away as i could from her...
she can find someone elses stuff to use...
that's so rude to do!
2006-12-29 22:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Random is my passion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋