I always feared that if a guy say anything nice to me he was doing out of pity or lost a dare. I just want to know how I can tell if what he is saying is true to heart.
2006-12-29 14:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by christina21197 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u can ask really? while lookin into his eys..but its much harder than tht u should get to know him and be on guard...because its hard..to tell at first glance u really have to know the person to know if hes honest when hes saying something or not
2006-12-29 14:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by NotCliche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you must of had a bad history when it comes to guys. Like maybe when you were younger a guy made a bet to go out with you and you got really hurt, or it happened to a close friend. Whatever the problem was you have to think of your self as desirable. You cant expect a guy to like you if you don't like yourself or at least think of yourself as some worth. Then when you have the confidence show that you do be more out there in other words FLIRTATIOUS.. if you know what i mean.... and be that way with a guy YOU like or feel comfortable around, not some guy that you heard MAY like you or one that you never even considered You got to make the choice. Become friends with that guy first and build a trusting relationship and then when he tells you he likes you or has feelings for you, you will know it is true because both of you built that relationship together and you know its the truth.
good luck, Keisha
2006-12-29 23:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry 'bout it ..if a guy can't see you for who you are you don't need him. when I was in high school I weighed 110lbs.,skinny, 5'10. and by what I guess what is today considered a geek. 20 years later 175lbs, still 5'10, insanely toned (not ripped )and probably still a geek. but I found one lady who stuck with me ever since we met;her reason???? she says I have heart & brains. (the physical can be modified as time goes on) Be happy with you and someone will like you for that,..be fake and see how far you get.
2006-12-29 22:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by eddy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think,you must honesty with he that the guy say is true to heart or not? If the guy is making fun of you mybe you just friends with he or if you like he, you tell him that you really like he and you be happy with he when he making fun.
2006-12-29 23:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at his eyes... Does he look you in the eye? or look down? If he's looking down, walk away! If he tends to look @ you & glance away then look @ you again, he may just be shy. Gotta learn to read em honey, after all, they are just guys...It dont take a rocket scientist to figure them out. Good thing is, we have the upper hand when it comes to them...you can read em like a BOOK if you study them, not much to figure out...they are either cocks or jocks...thats an easy one to catch ;-)
2006-12-29 22:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his bluff. Then you'll know. It's better than wondering forever.
2006-12-29 22:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him alone and talk to him. That way you don't have to embarrassed and know one will ever know.
2006-12-29 22:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by TILAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if any one say u somethin & u r not sure that wat they want to do with u then plz dont bother abt them u simply react as if it is very common to u .every people come to u they share their ideas as u r friendly wid all.
2006-12-29 22:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by priya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We make fun of you guys always !!!!!!
2006-12-29 22:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋