My friend is really obsessed with this guy. The following detail is the email she sent me. Give her advice!!?

Question

im so sad nd lonely? this is y im so sad nd lonely ! I HVNT SEEN MY FAVORITE PERSON/CRUSH 4 EVR IN 11 DAYS ND IM NOT GONNA C HIM FOR ANOTHER 3 DAYS !!!!!! DO U NO HOW TORTURING DAT IS! TO NT C OR HEAR FROM UR CRUSH IN 2 HOLE WEEKS! if i dnt c or hear 4rm him soon i fink im gonna burst!
Seriously,i got it bad! i like him so frickn much dat i had DREAMS bout him evry night 4 da past 5 nights! it was like since i cdt c him i wld b able 2 c him my dreams! it was like he was visiting me! i think im seriously in luv w/ him! if only he knew nd felt da same way! 2 bad im to scared 2 do it! gues im jus 2 scard 2 hav him break my heart if he didt feel da same way but i wldt mind dat much b/c its his choice not mine. BUT STILL! i keep thinkin of callin im but dat wld b random! i wish he wld call me! but if he did i would have 2 pick up da phone or my mom wld b like 'roberto' is on da fone nd she will tease me bout him 4 da rest of my teen life! AHHHH! but i jus rlly miss him! poor me!
HELP HER

Answer 1

She is silly. You should just tell her that you asked him whether he likes her and he said "NO!" That should solve the problem.

Answer 2

Hello,
Your friend does have it bad and she needs a reality wake up call. If she is interested in this guy then she needs to tell him so. It's possible that she might be wasting her time, thoughts and dreams on some guy who could care less about her.
Other than that you know theres not much else to say as it's nothing wrong with having a crush but when it starts becoming stalker stuff then there's a problem. Tell her to let the guy know see if he's interested if not move on stop wasting her time and your eyes from reading this as this is torturing you!

Good Luck on this one.

Answer 3

Hi. Well. sounds like she has it bad for him. Judging by the way you guys are texting everything, you're a bit younger, than me anyway. Unfortunately, sometimes life is the only teacher people will listen to. Be there for her. Be a voice of reason, and then be a source of comfort if things don't work out. Unless this boy is out of the country or in prison, he's not that into her. I'd never go 14 days without talking to the girl I was hot for.

Answer 4

First, she needs to take a deep breath and calm down. Also, I believe she is exaggerating quite a bit first of all. What she's emailing is basic guy problems. She should tell him before she bursts. Literally. Then after work from there, If he doesnt feel the same way, work on helping her to keep busy and recover. Hope that somewhat helps..xD Oh and it might be wise to let her know you posted that if you haven't already. [I think she does know how to spell, since it's email. It could be msn slang or short form..?]

Answer 5

its all a part of growing up. Once you grow older you get better at dealing with crushes and how to talk to them. What i suggest to your friend is just to try to do something with her time that'll keep her mind of him. If she think that there might be something between them, she might try to get to know him better or hang out with him on a one to one basis. There's nothing you can do about time, trust me I didn't see my boyfriend for months and it was the worst. But you have to be strong! 3 days will go by sooner than she thinks, specially since she's already waited for almost 2 weeks. Simply put: let time do its thing, and keep your cool. Hopefully it will work out between her and this guy, if it doesn't trust me, there will be 100s of other crushes.

Answer 6

She instructed you she grow to be jealous of you, perhaps her husband stated you have been somewhat. that's no longer how a pal acts.. i truly think of you may forget approximately approximately her. perhaps all her sisters acquaintances are long previous and her sister has a life-time of her very own and shes lonely. you are able to no longer have faith somebody like this in any respect. you are able to desire to consistently say you by no skill have been given the mail or mail in case you do see her. too lots time has previous for this friendship, surprising that she thinks thats ok! you are able to desire to consistently respond 4 years from now.

Answer 7

Sounds like a teeny booper crush to me. LOL Yea, I remember the days, when I told my 14 year old gf that I would love her forever. Of course, 3 months later, we broke up, then I told the next gf, I would lover her forever. Hmmm, seems to be a pattern there. hahaha

Answer 8

Tell her to call him.
It doesn't sound like he is that interested in her. He will have to let her know not you.

For your own sanity, convince her to keep calling him. He'll put a stop to her whining and driving you nuts, when he finally tells her that he only likes her as a friend. Or not.

She probably drives HIM crazy too!

I feel sorry for YOU!

Answer 9

Why would you do that to your friend? So what? She really likes this guy. Are you Jealous? She doesn't need help. You do. How rude to post someones personal email. The only help your friend needs is a teacher. Unless you wrote that mess then you need to study grammar.

Answer 10

She sounds like she is fairly nieve. I think she just needs to experience these things like everyone does. If i were her I would call him and ask how he feels about the two of them, the sooner she gets an answer the sooner she can go to the next level of thinking.

Answer 11

Your friend should constructively pass her time working on her spelling and grammar. This will take her mind off of her crush and help her in school, college and in her future career. Her crush will eventually contact her, and she will be happy again.