She told me that the idea of a "relationship" gets her weirded out, and that im too good for her. What does that mean? Also, is there anything I can do to help her become comfortable with a relationship or should I just move on?
2006-12-29 14:29:29 · 33 answers · asked by MiamiGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When they start to throw out obscure reasons for not wanting to be in it any longer, it time to pack up your pride and ego and move on. Don't question it... don't beat yourself up. It just wasn't meant to be, and you have to trust that whatever is meant to be is still out there waiting for you. Stop wasting your time in this. Good luck.
2006-12-29 14:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It only means she doesn't like you. Don't try to analyze what she's saying as if it's fact -- she's just trying to let you down easy. Trust me . . . if you were her favorite male celebrity, she would not think that you were "too good for her." Good luck with the next one!
Oh yeah . . . if you ever hear the words "I'm not ready for a relationship" -- that means the same thing. She doesn't like you enough to bother with you, and you should therefore not be bothered with her. Don't be discouraged, man. Average guys have like a 10% success rate with women. Good night!
2006-12-29 14:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she doesn't want to be your girlfriend anymore. That's as simple as it can get. So, say see ya 'round.
More complex? She doesn't like being a possession. She doesn't like being monitored. She doesn't like explaining her actions and activities and friends. And so on.
Still more? She's met someone that makes her feel something that you don't make her feel. Someone who's a better fit for her. Don't sweat it; it's not a personal attack.
2006-12-29 14:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on! If a gurl doesnt want tu b n a relationship..theres nothin u could do...mayb she jus likes talkin to boyz and being wit dem but not goin out wit dem cuz she feels too committed...i guess....hope dat helps!
2006-12-29 14:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by grown n sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a female I know my own gender and what she's telling you is she's not ready for a relationship. It's not got anything to do with you she just wants to be on her own. Give her sometime and see if she comes around. If she doesn't then move on.
2006-12-29 14:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She thought the relationship was not working so she end it, but that's how relationships are like a box of chocolates you never know what you ll get.
2006-12-29 14:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not ready for a relationship at this time. talk to her about the subject and find out why she thinks it's so weird to her. if the reason is legit, stick around as a friend. if it's really lame and/or immature, move on.
2006-12-29 14:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that your now ex-girlfriend isn't ready for a relationship. As much as this can hurt, it is probably best to know now rather than later. If she says she's too good for you, she's also looking for a way for you to want to leave her because she can't bear to hurt you herself.
2006-12-29 14:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she's not ready for a relationship. Can you continue to be her friend? If so, maybe she'll come around eventually. :) Good luck
2006-12-29 14:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by matty.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she been cheating on you from the get go im going through that situation right now my boyfriend of two years told me he just want to be friend because he is not relationship material
2006-12-29 14:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Allegra W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋