Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

All the guys that I really like who show an interest in me I'm really awful to - ignoring them or calling them "stupid" "juvenile" "dull" "boring" "hate that shirt" "hate your haircut" just immature behaviour.

I have done this with every single one,It's really irriating because eventually they give up and i'm sad. is it a self defence mechanism??

To guys i'm not interested in i'm friendly/kind,it's the ones I feel a strong emotion for that strong reaction out of me.

HOW TO STOP??

I fear if i'm nice to the guy he'll hurt me or won't like me.

2006-12-28 18:00:44 · 17 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my bf likes me but i don't like him we went out before and i broke up with him and he guilted me back into a relationship and i want to break up with him but last time i did he basicaly couldn't live he WORSHIPS THE GROUND I WALK ON!!!!! hes sweet and everything but he's just not the one for me HELP!!!!!

2006-12-28 18:00:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been reassured that's it isn't... I appreciate everyone's response.

2006-12-28 17:59:55 · 21 answers · asked by 670000000mph 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She has been hanging out with teenage boys,and she is 12 years old,and they all are perverted,and I dont know what she does with them,but everytime I see her she has a bruise or something on her arm,or leg.I threatend to tell her parents,and she just said it was nothing,and that she would tell my parents that I was kissing my boyfriend in the movies,and I am scarred to death! I don't care if I get in trouble ,I am just trying to protect my best friend.I am also 12 years old.And I tried to tell people,and they wont believe me! I don't want to see my something bad happen to my friend.What should I do?

2006-12-28 17:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Friends

why can't more guys be understanding like him?!

2006-12-28 17:58:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

only the 2 of you and the preist know it and no 1 else?

2006-12-28 17:57:48 · 22 answers · asked by emo elmo 2 in Weddings

My fiance always gets out of folding and arranging our laundery by saying that touching my langerie (esp bras) makes him feel weird. Other wise he loves playing with and then taking off my langerie. Could my fiance be really grossed out or is he just trying to get out of a chore?

2006-12-28 17:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by mina 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 16 year old black teen (light skinned). I'm a smart & muscular guy, but I'm shy and quiet most of the time. I've never been kissed, never had a girlfriend, and never went on a date. My friends and my parents think that I'm too mature for the girls my age, but I don't want to give up yet. Do you have any ideas for me for finding a suitable girl?

2006-12-28 17:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by c90 4 in Singles & Dating

i said it that waycause yahoo wont let me type it any other way. well anyway, i said this because he keeps staring at other women while im standing there and ive asked him a hundred times to stop it and he keeps doing it. what do you think?

2006-12-28 17:57:05 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

The guy I'm seeing is overly jealous and fiercely protective...I'm having doubts of it actually working out. However, I don't blame him for his behavior. I have an awful track record when it comes to bfs..I've never slept around, but a few drunken kisses at the bar definitely don't help. This guy knows my past..and knows my personality. I'm really friendly, outgoing, bubbly and naturally flirtacious. I have about 4 female friends, and the rest are males. I get along better with guys.

How do I calm his jealousy? I have no intentions of cheating, and I've controlled my bar behavior..however, I can't change my personality for someone, and I refuse to. I get pursued a lot by males..and get hit on constantly. I'm nice to the guys back..but I never let it go any further. We're constantly bickering over it..and it's driving me crazy. He's a good looking male, and girls practically hang off of him, and yet..I control my jealousy..why can't he do the same? Any advice?

2006-12-28 17:57:02 · 2 answers · asked by Massacre 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I let my guard down I get dumped on. I feel bad that I distrust people in general, but I haven't ever really been given much reason to trust.

Are we supposed to just keep on trying to forge relationships with family members who gossip about us behind our backs - no matter how much it hurts us? Relationships with family members are hard because we are stuck with them! :(

This is about my mother-in-law in case you are wondering. She always denies she has done anything wrong and when she gossips about me she insists that the people "just knew" whatever it is she has gossiped about. Like they are psychic or something. Yeah, right!

And no, my husband won't really do anything about this even though it's his mother. :(

2006-12-28 17:56:33 · 9 answers · asked by SuzieQ92 3 in Family

What happens to all your classmates from school once you graduate you never see half of them again where do they all go?My sister told me this and I know the same will happen to me once I graduate i'll never see half of them again.

2006-12-28 17:56:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, he told me that he went to a gay bar the other night. Well, he is an open-minded guy, but I still thought it was strange because I don't know that many straight men would go to a gay bar...and my other guy friends think it's really weird.

Is it normal/okay for a straight guy to go to a gay bar? I have nothing against him going...he can do what he wants...I just find it a little weird.

2006-12-28 17:53:42 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cuz i could have sworn u were cheakin out my pakage.




do guys really work for my pakage, or my brains? n yes i have brains. :]

2006-12-28 17:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by chinkiiechik 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so this girl who i absolutely love is going out with another guy. I'm going to tell her how i feel about her but if u could make any changes that u think would sound better that would be great. Thank You in advance.

Okay (insert name) what I'm about to tell you is probably going to ruin our friendship and (insert name)'s friendship, but i like you i like you a lot. I understand you are in a relationship and I'm happy for you, and all i want for you is to be happy no matter who you're with, but i just had to tell you how i have always felt about you.

Okay so my question is should i make any changes?

2006-12-28 17:52:02 · 18 answers · asked by kittynigh 2 in Singles & Dating

Heads I take you to dinner and choose the restaurant. Tails you choose the reataurant and also a gift from Victoria's Secret.

2006-12-28 17:51:38 · 14 answers · asked by kingswan23 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl i work with came up to me today and told me that she had a chat with the guy i like in the lunch room and she asked him about us and told him that she was hearing we were already dating etc and she asked if i was his gf and if we were together and he said not yet. she talked a bit more with him and asked if he was going to get things going here soon and he said we'll see what happens..as i just got out of a 5 yr relationship. is this good news for me??

2006-12-28 17:51:32 · 13 answers · asked by twisted_cherry85 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone explain this man's behavior?
I had a guy...well as I was talking to him..for one he didn't give any eye contact, the entire time we talked , then he had his hands in his hoodie pocket, he just acted nervous the entire time, then at the end of the conversation , he asked me how my christmas was...I I told him it was okay..then he asked so who did you spend it with.....then later on, he comes up to me and he's like oh..your face..and I asked what about it, tehn he says..you look so sad...and I really don't want to see you like that...then he asked me what I was listening to on my ipod...and he started cracking some jokes...and then he asked me so when will you be back here at the gym again..I told him probably tommorrow..and he was like well I'll be messing with you tommorrow then..so what do you think? Do you think he's flirting or just being cordial?

2006-12-28 17:51:22 · 2 answers · asked by Trish T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in a wonderful relationship (2 and a half years) but I'm extremely jealous when it comes to my boyfriend and other girls. We are in a long distance relationship (past year) and I get so upset whenever he hangs out with his friends and there are girls there. I know this is wrong and probably has something to do with my ex cheating on me and my insecurities. But what can I do to get through this? :(

2006-12-28 17:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 17:49:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a pretty ugly kid, it hinders my ability to pick up any girls, do u think im focusing on it too much, or do girls really do care about what the guy looks like

2006-12-28 17:48:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love this lady madly.She is around 45 years old but I cannot live without her whenever I see her.My parents are going crazy and I have been to mental hospital.Everyone is saying that she has done some withcraft.Please help!!

2006-12-28 17:47:53 · 9 answers · asked by bomken b 1 in Singles & Dating

His death was almost 3 years ago and with the holidays passing they are missing him a lot and I don't know how to assure them of how they are feeling or how to help them understand some of those feelings. We lost him suddenly to cancer, from diagnosis to the time of his death was about 2 weeks so they never got the chance to adjust to him being sick or to get prepared for the loss of him. Also I don't know if I can actually help them because I never really greived when he passed I was and am still so angry that he was taken so suddenly. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. To add one more thing his parents are starting to shut my children out and treat them differently than before. It has always been that way but it has gotten worse, how do I help them cope with that?

2006-12-28 17:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by Hazeleyes 2 in Family

2006-12-28 17:47:04 · 19 answers · asked by Chris0079 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 17:46:17 · 17 answers · asked by Cutie_angelic 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm short,bulky,shy. receive a marginal salary (enough only to support myself),don't have car,don't have a good education,live with my parents . how can i manage a gf?

2006-12-28 17:45:28 · 8 answers · asked by ih 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a best friend, and i'm pretty sure she's the one whos been spreading the mean rumors about me. now, everyone hates me and i don't sit in the same group during lunch time anymore.........help?

2006-12-28 17:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by cHoCoLaHoLiC 2 in Friends

Of course we're not getting married at the moment. But he keeps have thoughts of sucide. he lives in California as i live in Az. and he's soon to be moving down here. but he says that the stress of work and money is killing him over there and he's having thoughts of ending his life. he says they're just feelings and nothing he'll act upon but it still scares me none the less. he says that hes had these thoughts most of his life but when we're together, he says not a single one crosses his mind. im just scared that he might do something irrational and i wont be there for him, i honestly cant live without him. he means the world to me. and i know that he feels the same way towards me. ive told him to get help, but he refuses. i just dont know what to say to him at times. i love him so much and i cant live without him. he gets to a point to where he tells me nothing matters and that i should just let him go, but i cant and i wont ever let him go or give up on him. i wont ever leave him.

2006-12-28 17:45:06 · 18 answers · asked by So in love. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

These guys are real friends and 2 of them wait about an 1 hour for me to come online..another maybe 3-6 hours..they don 't know when I am online so why is that called stalking? They are between 15-22.its not because they have nothing better else to do..couldn't it just be they are waiting? Why do most people call it stalking?

2006-12-28 17:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 17:43:57 · 11 answers · asked by Nellie 2 in Singles & Dating