Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

At college I ended up meeting a guy on my floor that I became really good friends with. When we were going to college together he would frequently talk bad about his friends back home. He called his friends "boring" and he once received a call from one (he didn’t answer it) and told me it was from someone who thought that they were a close friend of his, but wasn’t. One time he also mentioned how MY name had come up when he was around his friends back home, although he didn’t specify what the conversation was about. One of the times we talked over break he told me that he hung out with these ("boring") friends at home often and had a blast. If we were hanging out and ran across someone else, I would become invisible. (Once I got frustrated and walked off, he didn’t realize it until he was done talking with other person) I feel like he knows that he always has someone to fall back on when other plans fall through, and talks behind my back, like he does to me about his other friends.

2006-12-28 18:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by lostnconfused 1 in Friends

I like this guy that goes to my dance studio,he came a few months ago.He´s really open and we talk and hang out a bit before classes.Before we closed for the holidays we were going to go to a concert together,so I got his number,but the concert got cancelled.We went out though for some coffee yesterday,I asked,and during the first few minutes he said that he broke up with his gf 3 days ago.Then for the next hour he told me everything about her and the ``break-up´´.From what he was saying he didn´t want to get back together with her,and was frustrated but nevertheless he was upset with all of it.(They had a 3month relationship-he´s 21,she´s 17-and she called it off..)But then the rest of the time that we were out we were making each other laugh,and talking-we have a lot in common.Now not only do I wonder if he sees me as more than a friend,but since his ``wound´´ is still fresh don´t know if it´s right to even try to persue something.What should I do??

2006-12-28 18:36:03 · 10 answers · asked by allstar86 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel really nervous before hot girls and don't dare to appraoch them thinking I might get slapped. I cant make out what's the best thing to say while trying to make friends with a girl.

2006-12-28 18:36:01 · 28 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Singles & Dating

lied to this girl tonight. I look at her straight in the eyes and lied to her right in her face. I couldn't tell her the truth. Here's my story.

I work at a grocery store. I'm a stocker. The girl i'm talking about is a cashier. Anyways I had the day off and she didn't. I went grocery shopping. I seen her I said hey to her. She said hey back. Than the manager asked me if I could work tonight. I said no at first, but when I got home I thought about it. And decided to work. So I called the manager told him i'm coming in.

Anyways she asked me "what change my mind about coming in"? I told her "I needed the money". But the truth is I enjoy her company. And have a little crush on her.

First time I lied to a girl. I'm usually an honest sweet guy to girls.

So my question is if I told her the truth do you think she will get mad because I lied to her.

I think she likes me, but at times its hard to say.

But the thing is she has a boyfriend

2006-12-28 18:35:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do men notice first in a woman and also what's your favorite quality in a woman.

2006-12-28 18:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both like eachother, except not going out. But he talks about my best friend really bad, and it makes her want to cry.. And when I confront him about it, he lies to me. On top of that, he also said he would NEVER lie to me.. Help..?

2006-12-28 18:34:33 · 10 answers · asked by cpn' jackk 1 in Singles & Dating

The pressure is gradually increasing.He implys me that ı will be given a promotion by having times with him.
I hate him however my salary is decently higher in my current position (ofcourse without having time with him) in this company than other companies that ı can find job.
Money or chastity ?

2006-12-28 18:32:34 · 27 answers · asked by Katya M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 18:31:54 · 22 answers · asked by vick 3 in Singles & Dating

MY SISTER IS A UNGREATFUL BRAT........ON CHRISTMAS MORNING AT ABOUT I DON'T KNOW 5:00 SHE CAME HOME.....ARE PARENTS TOULD HER TO BE HOME AFTER CHRUCH THE MORNING BEFORE THAT AND INSTEN OF DOING WHAT THEY SAID SHE CAME HOME AT 5:00 AM THE NEXT DAY I CAN'T BEILEVE WHAT SHE WAS THINKING I JUST DON'T UNDERSTEND WHY SHE DID THAT TO US WHY SHE WOULD WANT TO DO THAT TO US ME AND MY MOM STAYED UP WAITING FOR HER AND HER DUMB *** SELF TO WALK IN THE DOOR 5:00 AM....5:00 AM PEOPLE...ON CHRISTMAS MORNING SHE WALKED IN THE SAYING WHAT WRONG.....HA..HA..HA..HA..HA..I COULDN'T BEILEVE HER I JUST WANTED TO RE A RANGE HER INSIDES OUT IT MADE ME SO MAD I WANTED TO TELL HER TO HER FACE HOW I FELT OUT THIS BIG MISTAKE THAT SHE MADE AND I WANTED TO TELL HER HOW MUCH OF A LYING ***** I REALLY THINK SHE IS BUT I WOULD GET GROUNDED TILL I WAS FOURTY IF I DID EVERY TIME THAT ***** DOSE SOMETHING WRONG SHE ACTS LIKE SHE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT SHE DID ..........PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO. IM SICK OF IT.

2006-12-28 18:31:09 · 6 answers · asked by A.C. 2 in Family

I am awaiting an HIV test I had done about 3 weeks ago. They called yesterday and left a message for me to call them, and I called twice today and each time they put me on hold and tell me that no nurse is available to speak with me at that time, and that they'll call me back. They never called back.

I had unprotected sex a few years ago with a man I know was a needle user, and I also had other times where I did not use a condom..but the needle user is the one I worry about.

I am not proud of my actions, and have changed my ways, but I worry that it is about to come back to haunt me.

Why do you think that the nurse hasn't returned my call? I worry she's afraid to tell me that I have it!

2006-12-28 18:31:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am sure u all can give the best answer to my silly question as i am i a dillema

2006-12-28 18:30:41 · 10 answers · asked by shil 2 in Friends

GIRLS and i mean those who have tried it before, is having sex with 2 guys at the same time all that great. I want to try it with 2 guys.

There 2 guys are from the UK and will be going back at the end of December and we have talked about it and they are both hot. And yes i will use condoms if i do, do it. I think these guys are the perfect guys to do it with because they do not live here and i do not have to see them again and it's going to a secret.

PLEASE do not tell me that bad, immoral, (i'm curious and hey we live once)

All i want to know is if it's good or not. I already told them i DO NOT do anal and they are fine with them

2006-12-28 18:30:25 · 19 answers · asked by good_but_naughty_gal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 18:29:21 · 22 answers · asked by chefthephatman959 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 18:27:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do i still go for him? he also has high standards and thinks high school relationships are immature..

but he said yes to go to a dance with me in jan.

is it all worth it?

2006-12-28 18:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is love ever really dead? Can love ever return? When I was with her the world seemed right and each seeemed to bring a renewed magic.

2006-12-28 18:26:31 · 3 answers · asked by Johnny R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

errm.... there's this boy...
i like him, like as a friend... but the other night..
he kinda talked me out of suicide.
i like him... but more as a
friend after that talk we had...

i don't know how to thank him....

please help?

2006-12-28 18:26:08 · 12 answers · asked by Elizabeth 3 in Friends

2006-12-28 18:25:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy at my school is in a few grade before me and i REALLY like him and i know he likes me back, but he dont get alone with my brother and keep having crazy/weird dreams about him WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-12-28 18:25:11 · 15 answers · asked by Lil Rivea 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 18:24:44 · 19 answers · asked by rebekah 2 in Weddings

2006-12-28 18:24:37 · 16 answers · asked by »-(¯`v´¯)-» BLAH くろ 4 in Family

2006-12-28 18:24:10 · 37 answers · asked by Ladie Alicia 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 18:22:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just left a social group leaving me with no friends, I need to know the best places to go and best things to say to random strangers. I don't drink and don't have much cash.

2006-12-28 18:21:58 · 18 answers · asked by Dan Ln 3 in Friends

Because every guy Who likes me won't date me because he knows i won't go there. So unless there planning on marring me, it's hopeless.

2006-12-28 18:21:30 · 18 answers · asked by duhlaney 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 20 year old guy and I have never had sex because I want to wait until marriage. I'm a devout Catholic. I'm not a loser or anything I have tons of friends and party a lot...I just want to wait for Mrs. Right. Any other guys out there who are waiting too?

2006-12-28 18:20:54 · 11 answers · asked by Donkey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do???
I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.

2006-12-28 18:20:47 · 22 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Friends

My guy friend likes me but i don't like him...he asked me to be his girl friend but i said..."i'm really sorry but i don't really like u like that"
so now he knows that i don't like him but it seems like hes still trying...he always waits at my locker...he agrees with everything i say...and buys me things

Example:
i say- I love almonds

he says- Meee tooo

(the next day)

he says- here u go....a bag of almonds

and he gives me a bag of almonds...making me feel really guilty

hes a great friend but i don't like him anymore than that....i think hes starting to get kind of pushy.....but i don't really want to tell him that because i don't wanna hurt his feelings....help?

2006-12-28 18:20:33 · 5 answers · asked by cHoCoLaHoLiC 2 in Friends

2006-12-28 18:19:31 · 31 answers · asked by bongga 2 in Singles & Dating

Yeaa so the guy I like told me he likes his ex.
I didnt tell him I like him so he still doesnt know but it wont make a difference.
But when I asked him and he said yea it made me sick. And I still feel sick.
He shared like this whole secret with me and we were talking about it for like 30 minutes.
I guess it makes me happy to know he trusts me but it hurts so much to know he likes her. I know he could still like me but he seems to like her so much that I now dont think he does.
Its just ughh. Idkk it just hurts ALOT.
Is there anyway I can help him notice me? I dont really mind about him liking me but being close friends wouldnt hurt.
Sorry guys I just needed to type this all out makes me feel a little better.
But since I typed this I will still ask a question.
How can I become closer to him or even like his best "girl friend"?

thanks.

2006-12-28 18:19:02 · 3 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating