Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

Of course everything, but if we are narrowing it to three: Eyes, Mouth, Butt

2006-12-28 19:34:16 · 16 answers · asked by whitney 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I really like asked me if I prefer guys that are good looking or that were nice. He is also very touchy feely and asked me "why don't you have a boyfriend, you are very beautiful."

When he compliments me and calls me "beautiful" or "sexy" I tell him "nahh oh thank you."

He also tells me that I am his best friend that's a girl.

Was this just casual conversation?

I am reserved around guys and I usually don't let them touch me on the back and such but I don't mind if he does, does that make me look easy in his eyes?

I plan on waiting until marriage btw.

Thank you :)

Also--do you think girls and guys can be JUST friends??

2006-12-28 19:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Please see previous 2 posts...anyway we terminated and I took it very hard. I felt v guilty and very unsupported emotionally by him.I would say i was a bad person and he would never correct me. I sunk into a very dark place and chose to get some counselling. I felt so much better after, that it was normal to feel so guilty etc and have since moved on and forgiven myself. I felt like i was crazy and he let me think that. Also, after that my house got broken into (nothing was stolen which was bizarre and lucky I guess) and I moved into his place. He lived with one other guy who is my best friends brother and actually tried to hit on me prior to me being with my ex. I turned him down but we still continued to be friends. anyway out of the blue, my exs flatmate said to me to basically go, i had overstayed my welcome even though I knew nothing of this and would have left knowing this and stayed with friends. My ex never mentioned this. stay tuned for part 4!

2006-12-28 19:33:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That's embarrassing!

I took a picture of a girl and thought she didn't discver but she did! My friend told me she did! Oh my god how could I be so stupid!

Yeah, there's no question here, I just want to talk. Thanks.

2006-12-28 19:32:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i've been really nice to this girl i really like but apparently shes still not interested. i've told her i like her and i asked her out but shes never answered me that question, so, i really dont kno what do it. she kinda made it obvious she doesnt like me. i walk down the hall and see all the jerks get the girls. and nice guys like me rarely gets any, but i always hear stuff like how girls like nice guys, i dont think so.

2006-12-28 19:30:54 · 26 answers · asked by Tyler 2 in Singles & Dating

The pain of divorce i mean. I'm not divorced yet but I'm a United States Marine. I was gone training at infantry school. I came back to discover that my wife had cheated on me with 2 guys that i know of. But thats not the worst part. I gave her my debit card so that her and the son she has Matthew could have money for bills and everything. Which left me half the time damn near starving while i was there. She used me and i've been used like that all of my life. Her reason for using my money mainly for gas so she could go cheat on me was that she didn't love me anymore. Which i think is pure bullshit. Another reason was that i wasn't there. Okay. My job takes me away alot i know but damn. Hell, i'm currently getting a discharge because i knew she was lonely. But now i'm kinda screwed cuz shes gone and i might be out of luck. Does the pain of this ever really go away. Because i feel that my soul is dying. I really love her. Even after all she did to me. Am i an idiot for doing so?

2006-12-28 19:30:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 21 years old. I know im young. Im from this 4 year relationship and my boyfriend broke up with me. It's been two years since the breakup. And I've never felt confident enough to date again. I avoid guys and sometimes when I do open the door, the wrong one comes in and after a while of courtship would stop. Im starting to feel really bad about myself and I feel so undesirable. Im very much petite and not much of a pretty face and I just dont feel confident to handle relationships. I felt like I did every thing to work out my first relationship but if it didnt work out what would make the next one's work? if there will be a next one? i grew up without a father and i know that it's a biggy but ive tried to change. maybe i was really a headache and a heartache to my ex boyfriend who dumped and maybe id still be on the next one. im not desperate, i just feel that it will never really work for me with relationships and guys dont consider me as a first pick probably last or not even listd.

2006-12-28 19:28:54 · 10 answers · asked by terra 4 in Singles & Dating

I am caucasian - is that such a big deal?

2006-12-28 19:28:36 · 4 answers · asked by whitney 1 in Singles & Dating

I(21) don't know if I should have sex with my boyfriend(22) of 2 years, I am a virgin and I was trying to wait until I got married, but I love him soooooooo much and I just don't think I can wait. I haven't seen him in about 2 weeks because I am back in the US for the holidays and he is in Germany with his family(where we both live/go to college), and being away from him for just 2 weeks feels like forever. So, I was thinking about surprising him when I got back to Germany ;)


QUESTIONS:
1.Should I have sex with him ?
2.If you had sex before marriage, do you regret it ?
3.If you had sex before marriage did it make your relationship stronger ?


Other Details
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-We have been friends for 4 years
-We have been together for 2 years
-I am a virgin and he is not
-We have never had sex, we usually just make-out (alot)
-He has never pressured me about sex


Thanks for all your help and sorry it is so long :)

2006-12-28 19:28:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What u think in Holland is it normal.but in not in other countrys is good be have a friend as man.Most partners they a jelous.But dont need to be jelous at all is alone a good friendship.

2006-12-28 19:27:30 · 17 answers · asked by marjolein 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I Have A Cousin WHo Is A Jerk i Hate Him He Has Bad Anger Managment Problems I Dont Know What To Do He Always Hits Me And I Need Some Advice And Stuff For This!

2006-12-28 19:25:18 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ April; MX4LIFE! ♥ 1 in Friends

Color of love?
I am non-white and I go to an all white school (infact, I live in an all-white city)...I get along well with everyone in the community. There is a school dance next month and a couple of girls have asked me out, but I know its all good with my white buddies that i am amazing at soccer but I don't know how they would react if I dated one of their sisters...I have never been in a relationship before. Shold I accept one of the invitations or politely decline as I have always done throughout high school just so I don't run into any racial problems...someone please help...

2006-12-28 19:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They have been hating me so long it is ridiculous! But he seems so introverted because they reject me and my daughter, so I decided to try again with them. They always hate me, but accept him! It makes him so confused. And I feel bad for him that if he hadn't married me, maybe he would still have a good relationship with his brothers, and parents. There is so much history here, but it always boils down to they like him, but not me. THAT NEVER WORKS FOR HIM. HELP!!! It feels like a no win. If he is around them, they act as if I am dead, if he is not , he seems deeply unhappy, but will not admit it because he knows I know it is due to me that they reject him. We have been married 23 years, but I am ready to give up on us. We are so lonely without family, and everyone decides there must be something wrong with us because we never have anyone to have holidays with .It hurts our daughter too! What would you do if you were me? I feel like just giving up on life and happiness....

2006-12-28 19:23:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lets say if a families daughter is in a relationship that the parents dont agree with or like,does the daughter let the parents ruin the relationship or risk loosing the love of her parents

2006-12-28 19:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by buckie 2 in Singles & Dating

I am at my friends slumber party and this guy called me and asked me out. my friends tell me to say yes but i'm not sure if he just likes me for my body:(

It might just be because I have a lot of junk in the trunk. and my chests are normal size but I don't like him. He is very cute and popular in high school but He doesn't have what I look for in a Guy: Brain, Sense of humor, Personality or even heart. Should I go out with him for the popularity(which I know is totally wrong). Or should I say no(Which would be my decision).

I am so confused i need help

2006-12-28 19:17:12 · 15 answers · asked by emmaboo101 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 17, and I will turn 18 next November 30. But I am incredibly nervous because I have a terrible relationship with my single mother. If I make the slightest mistake, (misplacing a magazine in the house, not picking up the tiny piece of cilantro on the green lettuce-print table cloth because it blended in, etc.) she goes INSANE and screams, gets violent and says she can't wait until the day I turn 18 so I can get the hell out. I have driven myself CRAZY - obsessively scanning every nook and cranny in the rug, on the tablecloth, counters, to make sure I leave everything PERFECT. I spend 5 minutes after I leave ANY room at all turning on ALL the lights so I can look at the counters from every angle possible so I don't miss anything, and yet I always seem to miss something! My mom still thinks I "don't give a sh!t"! I can't stand living in all this pressure and I want to be ready to move out on my next birthday. how do I survive on my own w/o joining the army or being really poor?

2006-12-28 19:17:04 · 14 answers · asked by Foofy 1 in Family

theres this guy. he's my boyfriend. but, my mom dont think i should be dating a junior. she says its bad for me. but im like.. WHAT?? thats stupid. but shes like watever. so iim like.. i reall like him.. but im a freashman. and.. im just f-ing stuck.

2006-12-28 19:16:31 · 18 answers · asked by chinkiiechik 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently discovered that the man I'm dating had received an email from a woman he didn't know. He answered the email and a couple more from this woman and then invited her to meet him for coffee. I feel that the act of inviting and planning to meet another woman even "just" for coffee is being unfaithful...he says it's "just" coffee. What do you think?

2006-12-28 19:13:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 19:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by sadie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 19:12:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a serious crush on my boyfriend's best friend and I know that he likes me. He has shown it many times in many ways. He has a girl and I dont want to leave my boyfriend, but i do want to get sexual with his friend. I feel weird, but bold also. i want to know what to say to him! We both want each other and it's obvious

2006-12-28 19:12:30 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Green 2 in Singles & Dating

This is his 3er wife, we really click, I been divorce for 8 years and It's the first time that I want to be with some one

I don't want lose his friendship because when he is aroun I fell grate but I know that I like him so much that or relationship can change very easy to be lovers.
It's good idea go out with him and find out what he is looking for?

2006-12-28 19:09:09 · 15 answers · asked by latina_y_sincera 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 19:08:06 · 15 answers · asked by ROHIT R 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do girls post fake photos of themselves on internet dating sites? What is wrong with being honest with yourself and others when trying to meet new people?

2006-12-28 19:08:04 · 17 answers · asked by m m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 19:06:19 · 14 answers · asked by ACEDEME 1 in Singles & Dating

I have just ended a relationship that was unhealthy for the both of us. I dont have enough space to write in to explain it!!!! But basically it has ended with me being charged with common assault for slapping him because he would not leave my home after me asking him repeatably and ignoring me. I know it was wrong but something inside me just snapped and I wanted control back of my life again. Anyway I miss him so much and I am not angry and I should be! Its three weeks since this happened and he has taken an AVO out on me. I just dont understand, I am not a violent person at all and it scares me that I am damaged from all this crap (trust me there is lots lots more) and that its all my fault. I feel very hopeless and would love some advice and feedback on this. I wish I could explain more but do not have enough room. But its quite bizarre and he was a pot addict (about 15-20 cones a day) which I know contributed but he seemed so together at times. I feel like I never knew him

2006-12-28 19:06:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend hidayah,has a crush on this boy but at first she dosen't like him until the boy tell her i love you.then she love him but the only problem is she want me to tell him she loves him but i can't.if i tell him,what would the boy think of hidayah and me?will he think that hidayah is not fit with him?

2006-12-28 19:05:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats a good thing thing to do with a couple of my friends on newyears eve?????

2006-12-28 19:04:54 · 13 answers · asked by Maria-Kate Moore_101 2 in Singles & Dating

im involved with a married man whom ive met for 3 mos. i am married too..he has a son and im pregnant.i have a wonderful husband still doesnt know about the two of us.his wife caught our affair and she is trying to destroy my life by threatening me with so many things.involving my career.we know we love each other so much but theres no way to escape in this real life.we're in different places right now..we know the best way to do but we just cant stop communicating each other..we dont want to continue our affair for the sake of our own family.but we cant just stop thinking about ourselves..how can we solve this problem?im really having so much pain emotionally and mentally..i want this affair to stop.

2006-12-28 19:04:45 · 21 answers · asked by haylene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very worried about the 40 crows i feed for 3 months a spend 40 dollars every day and buy them grain and peanuts and cat food and Evey day i go feed them in the morning they wait for me and all of them fly to me and after 2 months let me touch some of them

my husband hit me and told me never to feed them again or i will regret it
I am so scared that the crows will starve because they relied on me I cry every day because they are my only friend science i moved from Baghdad 5 months ago now i am letting them down Please tell me if they will starve and should i secretly feed them till spring comes
I am 4 months pregnant and i get sad very easily and the crows make me happy what should i do

2006-12-28 19:04:15 · 25 answers · asked by Mira 1 in Other - Family & Relationships