I am at my friends slumber party and this guy called me and asked me out. my friends tell me to say yes but i'm not sure if he just likes me for my body:(
It might just be because I have a lot of junk in the trunk. and my chests are normal size but I don't like him. He is very cute and popular in high school but He doesn't have what I look for in a Guy: Brain, Sense of humor, Personality or even heart. Should I go out with him for the popularity(which I know is totally wrong). Or should I say no(Which would be my decision).
I am so confused i need help
2006-12-28 19:17:12 · 15 answers · asked by emmaboo101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never do anything for any reason except that it is what YOU want to do for you.
Making a choice for a reason that doesn't fit with your personality or values is wrong.
Stand up for what you believe in and want... you'll end up happy.
2006-12-28 19:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by marathonlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you you want o be popular say yes but if you dont say no if you say yes which you should when you go out with him get to know hin and maybe you wouldnt go with him for the wrong
reasons.
2006-12-28 19:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tamika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well do you even know that he has a brain, sense of humore, personality, or even a heart? you can learn something by dating someone. And do you know that he's just asking you out cause of your body?
2006-12-28 19:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jiz La Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know i think that it would be right to go with the popularity but you should say No. Because looks arent everything!!! Say No and stay friends!!!
2006-12-28 19:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you must be really shallow.
Don't date a guy for popularity. Good God. Are you an idiot?
You're going to end up hurt, & so is this guy.
Jeeze, say no.
2006-12-28 19:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by manda_panda9642 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey go out and see what happens he may surprise you. He might have a side to him that nobody knows about.
2006-12-28 19:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him just for his looks.... i should say, dont go out with him... its just superficial... as you said... he doesnt have the things you look for in a guy.. then why bother?... dont put yourself in a position when you are trapped going out with him just for the sake of popularity....
2006-12-28 19:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by click 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some boys are LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT so maybe he saw u at first and fell in love with u so maybe this time it's his chance to tell u so maybe i think it's best for u to say yes without disappointing him n any ways.
2006-12-28 19:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in ur place i wudnt go out with him. its ot all abt popularity , personality, character, brains,intelligence also matter.
dont waste ur time by roaming around with him, ull get ur guy.
2006-12-28 19:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by cacorreia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him he just wants something and you don't need to put yourself in an awkward position anyway!
2006-12-28 19:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋