I have a serious crush on my boyfriend's best friend and I know that he likes me. He has shown it many times in many ways. He has a girl and I dont want to leave my boyfriend, but i do want to get sexual with his friend. I feel weird, but bold also. i want to know what to say to him! We both want each other and it's obvious
2006-12-28 19:12:30 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Green 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay with ur boyfriend dont pick the fruit because that happend to me and it turned out the guy was a player
2006-12-28 19:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, would you be ok if your boyfriend cheated on you with your best female friend ?
What about the hurt that you would cause your boyfriend and his girlfriend ?
I can't believe you would even contemplate throwing away what you have for a physical encounter.
If you do cheat on your boyfriend, I hope it's worth it... but it rarely ever is...
2006-12-29 04:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by midnight_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my partner did exactly what you are thinking, to me. she ended up running off with my friend. it lasted a month. the life of deception will have you not trusting each other, as you both will deceive to get each other, and a relationship built on deception and cheating will return again, and as you will both be untrustworthy, you wont love, but just lust each other.
we had a young son. but that didnt stop him or her.
as your boyfriends friend, he will know things about you that your boyfriend confides in him, and his friend will use these things to get closer to you. you see him as a wonderful guy who you click with, but please dont. he acts like that because we all do what we can to be liked, though in the end, you will both fall for each other and call it love, just so you dont have to feel guilty for it.
the joy of sex will never be worth the pain of deception and heartbreak that cheating causes. you will destroy more than this relationship for your current boyfriend, and because of people like you, the world is full of insecure and hateful people.
your boyfriend will cut ties with both of you, and probably beat his friend up, as trust between male friends is the ultimate bond. everyone will know you as the person you truly are, and not the nice person you pretend to be.
so do what you want, or see it as a mistake in waiting. the grass is never greener, and no one wins if you chose to do it.
2006-12-29 03:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight off that trampy feeling girl. Put a lid on your inner sl()t and do the right thing, and that ain't your boyfriend's best friend, Unless you are scheduled for Jerry Springer's show
2006-12-29 03:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be even thinking about doing that. I think you are being selfish. Think about your boy-friend's feelings. Would you want him to do that to you. Better yet offer your best friend to him and watch what he tell you. I have been hurt like that so I really don't approve. I hope this changes your mind O.K...GOD BLESS...
2006-12-29 04:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lea, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it,but expect to leave a wreckage behind you.
They will find out ! [my boyfriend did],and you may ruin the friendship between your boyf and his friend forever.
2006-12-29 03:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by rusalka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how open minded are your partners?is it worth suggesting a group thing?if you are serious bout your bf 4get his mate,if u dont your relationship is over
2006-12-29 03:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by catherine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pick the fruit!!
2006-12-29 03:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so go for it, eve did.
2006-12-29 03:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋